Thursday, December 31, 2009

Practice that New Years Eve Kiss

Want to get the New Years Eve kiss just right? Well the only way to perfection is through practice. To get enough practice in you need to ask for a practice kiss several times during the day today. That what you will primed and ready as the clock strikes midnight tonight. Happy New Year everyone out there that is romantic.

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Hide a note in their underpants.

A great way to let someone know that you care about them is to drop them a note from time to time. When you live with that person it becomes easier, as all you have to do is strategically place the note somewhere for them to find it. The best place in my opinion is in their underwear draw. You know they have to get in there at least once a day (at least we hope they get in there once a day). Most of the time they are getting in there while you are out of the room either getting ready yourself or already gone for the day. It is a great feeling to find a note left by your lover, it tells you that they care enough to plan out leaving this note, not to mention what they write upon the note. Put some thought into what you right, you can brighten your partners day with this simple yet meaningful action. If you have a favorite pair of underpants your partners wears you can even tape the note inside them so they won't see it until they begin to put them on. The simple words "YOU LOOK HOT IN THESE" would bring a smile to most peoples faces.

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

A snuggie are your serious.

This is the time of year when the best part of living in areas that get cold is snuggling under a blanket with you partner. There is not comparison to the warmth you feel when you are soaking up someone else's body heat. One thing that helps you out in this struggle to keep warm is great blankets. The better the blanket the warmer the two of you will be under it. Plus the warmer the blanket the less amount of clothes they two of you will have to have on underneath the blanket. I am amazed at how cold it seems when I get into bed naked, but once in there and I start to soak up the warmth from my naked partner and the cold goes away rather quickly. We all know that the more amorous we get the warmer we can make it. Now it your chance to get close to your partner and save money on your heating bill. Go out and purchase some thick warm blankets and smile as you offer to share with your partner. I don't know if they make a snuggie for two but if not maybe they should!!!

Monday, December 28, 2009

Men if you are tired of getting excuses then it is time for some training.

Men are you tired of hearing your partner say they are not in the mood or that they don't feel like it tonight? Well if you are hearing that way to often then you need to do something about it. Think about it if sexy didn't feel good to you and you didn't get satisfied would you enjoy doing it that often? Now put the shoe on the other foot, is you partner getting what they need from this experience? Everyone gets bored with their sex life from time to time, so to fire it back up you need to learn something new. Purchase a new toy or ask you partner what they would like to try that is different. You might be surprise at how anxious they will be if you give them what they want. Study up and learn new oral sex techniques or try out some different positions. You might not be able to use your new technique right away but when you get a chance, be ready to perform your new talent. Be patient and wait for the right time. Here is an especially good idea. Why not let yourself get off until you let your partner. Yes you heard me correctly put them first make it a point let them be the center of attention and you will most likely get a return. You sex life is a funny thing, we seem to lose track of the other persons feelings as we focus on our own. Remember this is for the both of you and once you convince your partner you are focusing on their pleasure they will start focusing on yours. Good luck and good sex to you.

Sunday, December 27, 2009

Turn off the TV to turn on your partner.

Do the two of you spend the night watching countless hours of television? Have you ever thought of all the time you waste doing this or all the commercials you happen to view during this time watching. Have you ever thought of turning off the little box sitting in your living room and trying to turn each other on. Their are so many benefits to sex and getting your blood pumping and their are no benefits to watching that much television, the only one I can think of is education and that is if you are watching a educational program and most of the ones I have seen are far from that. Break your habits today and start spending more time pressing your partners buttons instead of the ones on the remote. If you really need to acting that you see on television, then do a little role playing, if it's sports that you can't seem to live without, make your lovemaking a heart raising event. Don't let your love life pass you by as you sit and watch some brainless television show. Get naked and get busy, you will feel much better afterwards.

Saturday, December 26, 2009

Get your relationship back into shape.

We all have problems keeping the extra weight off during the holidays. All the extra food and drink can really make it hard for you but as soon as the holidays are over most people begin some type of regimen to lose the extra pounds tacked on at this type of year. What about your relationship? Does it take a back seat during the holidays, because you have so much to do. I mean it is hard to call shopping and rushing around from family to family any type of date. Now is the time to put your relationship back on the front of your to do list. Take a weekend and reconnect with your partner, get a hotel room, find some exciting things to do and spend the evenings making love. Put all your effort into impressing the person you love, because even though you most likely bought them several wonderful presents how much time did you really take away from them during the Christmas experience. I know I spend time wrapping presents, shopping, and visiting family that I would have spend being with the person that makes my heart sing. So now it is the time to revisit and fall in love again.

Friday, December 25, 2009

Tokens of your love for Christmas.

Merry Christmas Romantic People!!!! Today is your day to shine, giving the person you love tokens of your love and passion. Take your time and truly enjoy the watching of your partner unwrapping the gifts you have picked out for them. Take inventory of all the wonderful gifts that you get and make sure to thank you partner for each and every one of them. I have always heard it is better to give than to receive but I never truly understood it until I had someone to love. Giving gifts to the person that makes you heart sing is far better then getting things yourself. As a child I was always excited about what I was going to get but now I am more excited about seeing the reactions that the presents I picked out get. Enjoy your Christmas and try to keep the feelings and gratitude going for the rest of the year.

Thursday, December 24, 2009

Romantic Christmas Eve

Tonight is the night it is one of the best night for romance of the year. It is the time for you to show your partner or friend how much you care about them. Make sure during the family gatherings, parties, and tucking the children in that you make time for the two of you to have some quiet time together. Block out all of the other distractions of the upcoming day and focus on each other. Set a time, say two hours, for uninterrupted time that you can snuggle and calm each other for the upcoming arrival of Santa. Make love, drink cocoa, wrap the remaining presents but do it together and as a team. It is easy to go to bed early to get to the next day but don’t forget about on of the most important parts of the season, that being the person you love.

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Wrap up a memory

The economy is hoping that you are going out and spending a bunch of money this Christmas, and yes that is the way to break out of a recession. However, a romantic thing to do for your partner is to give them something for Christmas that reminds them of a special time the two of you had together. Maybe it is a picture from you last vacation, or the baby booties of your first born child. Think back through out the year and try to remember anything monumental that happened to the two of you during that last year together. Firsts are always something to remember such as the first marathon you ran, your first house or even the first time you kissed. Now the job is to find something that you can wrap up that will take them back to that time. A picture of the event is a great way, go out a purchase a nice frame and place the picture inside it, the will immediately remember that event. Items from that event are another suggestion, say you had a child together during this year then the little beanie that they but on the baby in the hospital in a frame would be an extra special thing you could hang on your wall. You can pick up brochures from your last vacation destination, or programs from events you attended. If a special song was playing during your memory you could pick up that song for them. The important thing about wrapping up a memory is that it will get your partner thinking about the wonderful times the two of you have together.

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Create an Electronic Card for you Love.

So many less people are sending out Christmas Cards these years, but with a little imagination you can get in on the cutting edge of digital Christmas Cards. I am sure at some point and time you have send someone an email card or even just an email expressing your feelings. Now a days however it is so easy to send a video or picture with the mail. Now this is where you need to be creative. Pick out a song or a act you want to perform for you love and set it in motion. Check out the video at the bottom of this post for a an idea someone else had. You want to pick out something that will make the person or persons you are sending it to smile and remember why this season is so special. Once you have performed your act or song then simply put it in a form you can send and email it to that special person

Monday, December 21, 2009

Fill your lovers stocking.

I know most of you think that stockings are for children from Santa, but it can also be a great way to show someone how much you care about them. For adults stockings can be very different from the ones children receive. Think about the things you will put in them for starters give them things that they will use on a daily basis. Items such as shave cream or hair care products. Lotions, oil, deodorant as well as sexual aids such as condoms, lubricants, or underpants will make awesome additions to the stocking set. Gift cards are another great idea since they fit very nicely into the stocking. You can also make up coupons, you have made, to fill up their stocking. You can make one that is for a night at the movies, or breakfast in bed just make sure you follow through later when they try to use their coupon. If you partner likes a certain kind of candy you can include it also or if they are more healthy then you could add some nuts or fruit to the package. If you have the time you could even make a them stocking. If you partner loves golf then you could put all the things needed to play their favorite sport such as tees, golf balls, passes to the local course, or even golf gloves. The only thing I would like to pass along is that you make the things in the stocking useful don't purchase things that will never get used, fill the stocking with things that will make them think about you for the rest of the year.

Sunday, December 20, 2009

Replace Sugary treats with kisses and love.

During the holidays it is so easy to find comfort it food. There are so many wonderful items to partake of during this season. Cookies, snacks, and rich foods make up the items that people make during the holidays that we don't usually find during the other times of the year. If you want a way to avoid falling into the Christmas treat trap, you need to look no father then your partner. They can be the support you need to fend off these sugary treats. Make a pact with your partner that every time you feel like picking up a cookie, rice crispy treat or any other sugary item that instead you will stroll over and give them a kiss instead. This will soon become a conditioned response and you will find yourself doing it without even thinking. You might just walk by some cookies and feel a desire to kiss your partner. The nice part about kisses is they don't have any calories and they can lead to lots more fun things to do around the holidays. Plus kisses taste a whole lot better!

Saturday, December 19, 2009

A missile of mistletoe

Here is a cute little idea to make sure your partner knows what your intentions are. Create a missile of mistletoe! That is right make a missile that contains the kissing plant, so that your partner knows you are ready to smootch. All you need is a tube from a paper towel roll or toilet paper roll, scissors, construction paper, mistletoe and tape. First construct your missile by cutting out the paper for the fins and top of the missile. Roll a piece of construction paper to form a cone that fits on the top of the tube you have. Insert the mistletoe into the tube then tape the fins and cone onto the tube. Creating your missile of love. Finally write on the side of your missile "Look inside" and you are ready to attack. Wait until your partner is relaxing for the evening and then launch your missile so that it lands in their lap. Once they open it up you might want to run and hide because the are going to be looking for you to cover you with kisses. Maybe hiding isn't a good idea if you are ready for the kissing to begin. Have fun and enjoy this little way show your partner what you want.

Friday, December 18, 2009

Peppermint Candy Canes and Kisses.

With this time of year it is a good idea to always be ready for a kiss. The last thing you want is stinky breath when that lovely person comes up to kiss you. During this time of year it is easy to keep your breath fresh and inviting for that special someone. Keep several of the smaller candy canes with you and pop one in your mouth from time to time. Not only will they keep your breath from getting stinky but they give a little tingle to your kisses. This way you become even sweeter to kiss for you partner. Go a couple of steps farther and pick up some peppermint body lotion so that whenever your partner is near you they can help but smell your inviting scent. Can you almost smell the peppermint right now!

Thursday, December 17, 2009

Santa's Sack

With Christmas approaching soon, now is the time to get all the milage you can out of the Holidays. Today I want you to go and rip the sheets off your bed and find some nice warm red flannel sheets to put on your bed. Then go find some white blanket and drape it across the top of the bed just below the pillows. Now you have Santa's bed at your disposal. Tell you partner you have a surprise for them and let them into the bedroom and inform them that for the rest of the holidays you will be sleeping and making love to them in Santa's Bed.

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Get excited about the gifts you are giving.

Do you have a special gift you are giving your partner for this Christmas? If so you need to get excited about it so that you can build up the anticipation of the person you are giving it to. Hold it up for them to see and tell them how you can't wait to see them open it on Christmas day. Show you excitement to give it to them, it is contagious. Sparking that anticipation in your partner will make them more excited as the big day gets closer. You might find them shaking the present some time or studying it's shape and size. The anticipation is what makes Christmas so exciting, think back to waiting for Santa to come when you were younger and running down the stairs on Christmas morning. What was it that drove you then? It was the anticipation so use this feeling to increase the romance at Christmas time.

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Use pet names on Christmas Tags

Want a great way to slow down the unwrapping of Christmas presents on Christmas day? Well don't use real names on the gift tags. You can use pet names or secret codes to make your love sort out who the present is for. Make up silly names that have some impact on your life things like, if your partner loves to ski then you could put Snow Bunny as the name of who the present is for. Not only does this slow down the day it also makes you be creative and think of things your partner likes. In turn this might help you pick out other gifts for you partner. Make sure you don't hint to the present inside, don't use the Snow Bunny name on a new pair of skis. Other things you can do is number the presents and have your partner have to figure out a math problem to see which presents are theirs. You can also put the name of a Christmas Carol in the place of the name and then sing that song when it is time for them to open up their present. If you have children in your life you can work them into this also by suggesting presents they should unwrap. You could say, "Open one with blue paper" or "Open one with a picture of Santa on it" to let them join in the fun. The point to all of this diversion is to make Christmas last a little longer and if you are anything like me you know that Christmas is one of the most romantic days of the year.

Monday, December 14, 2009

Pick out your own gift.

Does you partner have a gift that they want more than anything this Christmas? Do they have something that you can't pick out for them or they need to try on before you purchase it for them? That is okay you can do this for them and still make it a surprise. Once you have the item you need to think of an interesting way to wrap it, be it in a huge box or in a odd shaped package. Once you have it wrapped make a game of it with your partner and see how many presents they have to unwrap before they find it. You could even wrap up some dummy presents as I call them, thing like clothes that are theirs or something so silly no one would possibly want it like some giant sunglasses or an alarm clock that squirts water. If you partner has an idea of what they are getting from you for Christmas then it is your job to still make the unwrapping of presents fun and exciting. With that in mind you can start making your strategy on how you are going to fool your partner with your wrap job now.

Sunday, December 13, 2009

Lights of Love

During the holidays we make everything we can a little more festive. Well one thing I think adds a lot of festivity to your Christmas tree is to use only candle light to light the room your tree is in. Yes you will have the lights on the tree but the soft flickering light of the candles will add a special touch to the room. Not only will it direct more attention to your tree but it will also make you more aware of each other. The normal bright lights we use make us think more of work and shopping then of the soft and wonderful feels of the holiday. When you have a day when the two of you can just snuggle down replace all your lighting with candles and see what happens. I am sure it will be a little more romantic.

Saturday, December 12, 2009

Christmas Eve time for special presents.

All the focus during the Holidays is the big day of Christmas. Christmas eve is usually reserved for trips to Grandparents or parents houses for gift exchanges with your family. No one is expecting a blow out gift from Grandma who usually buys you something you wanted when you were twelve. However, this is one of the best times to get your lover a little something special. Wait until all of the festivities of the day are over and when the two of you are alone and about ready to settle down for your long winters nap, present him/her with a little special gift to go to sleep on. Now this can be a number of things but the things I find that work the best are jewelry, and sexual items. When you give on this night make sure it is one that you want a major reaction from like jumping up and down or just plane getting mauled by the receiver. You won't get the same reaction on Christmas morning when you partner opens that new sex toy in front of everyone. Nor will you get as many kisses from the nice necklace you purchased during the family feast. Plan out which gifts you would like to give in private then make a routine of giving these gifts on Christmas eve.

Friday, December 11, 2009

Attention, Attention we all crave attention.

Most of us are very different at heart and soul but the one thing we all need is attention. You might say that you don't need any or that you don't crave the spotlight. That however, is not what attention is about. Sure some people like to be the center of attention while others like a little one on one attention. When someone wants to be alone that is being attentive to yourself. So no matter what your state of attention desires are we all need some. Romance is a wonderful aid to help give people attention. Think about it do you like to receive flowers from your lover? What about when you see them after an extended trip or time apart, how do you desire their attention. We all have the urge to be wanted or important and receiving another persons attention validates that urge. Think about all the wonderful feelings in your life that you have experienced. How many of them have come because of someone giving you attention. The day you got married, the birth of your child, your first kiss, the list can go on forever, the point however is that we need attention in what ever state we enjoy. Maybe you get it while your partner massages your neck or when they wear something sexy for you to be seduced by. It all feels good and is part of a healthy and happy relationship. Keep giving attention to the person you love and you should get some in return.

Thursday, December 10, 2009

Snow Angels and Snowballs

With the coming of the holiday season everyone where it can snow is hoping for loads of the white stuff for Christmas. When you do get enough of the glorious white stuff then grab your partner by the hand and run out side to make snow angels. People driving by might think you are silly or crazy but you will be doing this zaniness with your partner and it will give you a good reason to snuggle up together after the event. You can also pelt each other with snowballs or build a fort to protect yourself from would be attackers’. Challenge some of the neighborhood kids to a war, however a word of caution remember you are a bit stronger then most of them so don’t throw your hardest. Make sure to take pictures of your snow angels and fort and for a really neat idea use them on your Christmas Cards next year. If you live somewhere without snow then you have to improvise. Use sand or pour some fake snow on the lawn to get the desired effect. The point is to get out and enjoy the snow, we spend most or our time cursing it while driving, so when you get the chance check out how fun it can be for the two of you.

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Take time from the Hustle and Bustle to show you partner how important they are.

Right now we all are scrambling to make sure we have everything in place for the big day of Christmas. We are wrapping presents, shopping, attending school functions. While this is great and the time is wonderful we sometimes put our relationships on the back burner. Think about it are you giving your partner they attention they need, at this time also. Never put your relationship on hold for the holidays. With that said you can incorporate it into your planning. You can do the twelve days of Christmas for you partner by doing twelve special things for them during this time of year. No!, don't go out looking for a partridge in a pear tree, and you don't have to find a gift each time. Get a calendar out and mark twelve days this month and each of those days make it a point to do something special for the one you love. It can be as simple as a back rub or buying some hot cocoa to share. The little things mean so much and show how much you care. Don't stop there go out and purchase a little naughty gift for the two of you a sexy santa outfit or maybe a new sex toy for the two of you to play with. It is okay to give sex to the one you love for the holidays, go out of your way to show them that you still think they are sexy. Finally do the basics to make them know you care, like holding hands while your shopping, laughing as you spend time together wrapping presents, get a little tipsy with them drinking rum laced eggnog. Memories made at this time of year seem a little more special so don't let the season pass your relationship by.

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Puppy Love.

A wonderful thing you can do for your partner this holiday seasons is give them the gift that gives back so much. There are thousands of dogs and cats at your local humane society that could us a wonderful home and would be the most lovable thing you could give your mate. So if you have room in your place or your apartment accepts pets then thing about giving your partner their very own buddy. They come in all shapes, sizes and colors so you will surely be able to match up the right animal for your partner. This gift works well with the children also if you need a little something to get Christmas moving. I would strongly suggest picking a animal from the humane society that way you brighten two lives during the holiday season. Those animals at the shelter have nothing wrong with them beside that no one loves them.

Monday, December 7, 2009

Break out the Christmas Shows from your past.

It doesn't matter if her 18 or 65 you still have some type of Christmas show that you watched when you were younger. The one I can remember the most is "A Charlie Brown Christmas" I couldn't wait of it to come on when I was younger. I even saw that it is still on today. One of my sisters and I would always stay up late on Christmas and we would watch an old Bob Hope movie called "The Lemon Drop Kid" If you go searching now a days I am sure you can find a dvd of your favorite Christmas Show or better yet find out your partners favorite and pick one of those up. Give it to them on Christmas Eve and watch it together before retiring for the night. Sad to say but a lot of people associate time frames with what was on television at that time. This action might just put him/her back into a time frame where magic happened.

Sunday, December 6, 2009

Sent your partner a Christmas Card.

I have seen a drastic decline in the number of Christmas Cards that we are receiving. We use to get forty or so cards each and every year but lately we are lucky to get ten and they are only from our closest family and friends. If is kind of a bummer because it was nice to get a card in the mail to break up the monotony of bills. This is your cue to take it upon yourself to set out and make getting the mail a little special for your partner. Send them a sweet little card for Christmas one that expresses how important they are to you. Make it so they can't tell it is from you when they receive it in the mail have someone else address the envelope or print in on the computer. This will make it even more special as they struggle to guess who it could be from. If you really are adventurous then go out and pick out 12 different cards and send her one each day for the twelve days of Christmas. He/She might get a little bored with getting a card everyday from you and it will take a little of they surprise out of it around the third day but once Christmas finally gets her and they have the door frame covered with cards from you, you might just get a big kiss for it under the mistletoe.

Saturday, December 5, 2009

A little Elfin Magic

Okay we all need a little stress relief during the holidays, some laughter and even a little sex to ground us. So, I have whipped up a suggestion to help you lighten the mood and hopefully get a little. Either partner in the relationship can create this and present it to the other partner. What you need to do is go out and pick up some green felt at any of your local discount or craft stores. Then take it home and cut out a triangle and roll it up into a cone. Either use some glue or tape to hold it together and presto you have a little elf hat for your penis or your partners penis. Imagine the fun you will have with a elf hat on your penis. I can think of several little lines that would lighten the mood. “Santa send a little helper to relax you” or “My Elf has been working so hard making toys, I better take care of him” Have a little fun with it you could even get a little more creative and make some clothes for the little guy so he doesn’t get cold. The important thing about this little craft is it will help get things out in the open, (HA HA) and should help your get it on a little. Good luck to you and those elves out their looking to score.

Friday, December 4, 2009

Surprise ME!

We all made Christmas list when we were younger and we still like to get things that we want this day and age. However, I think several people still miss the meaning behind the gift giving. This is a celebration of love and happiness. We get to show our loved ones that we care about them, the thing that really gets lost at this time of year is the old saying "It is the thought that counts" The price and item itself are not the important part of the season, we are not in competition. Get the idea out of your head that the size or cost of the gift tell you how much someone cares about you. You need to be thankful that you have someone in your life that cares enough to go out and purchase you something because they love or care about you. Understanding that just getting a gift is something several people would find extremely important and some people simply can't afford big expensive gifts. Remember being in love doesn't have to cost you. Another thing I like to caution people on is saying that Santa only brings presents to good boys and girls. There are several children out there that get nothing for Christmas and they aren't bad children. It might be a case of a parent getting laid off work or a family struggling to just pay their bills. Whatever the cause the children shouldn't be made to feel like they did something to desire no presents from the jolly man. A nice surprise might be to find out one of these families and either purchase items for them or go through some of your old things and find toys or clothes that would help them out. You might be amazed at how good you will feel by doing this.

Thursday, December 3, 2009

Great Christmas Ideas - Get something you can share.

When you go and pick out a present for you lover you try to find something that they will love and use. Have you ever thought about getting something for the two of you to share? Things such as a wonderful bottle of wine, a romantic movie, or tickets to an event are ones that come to mind. It might sound a little selfish but by doing this you insure that the two of you will spend some quality time together. Put a little note in the present that makes sure that your partner is to enjoy this will you. Other items that might fit the bill of presents you can share would be sex toys, gift cards for your favorite restaurant, trips, or even items to make a scrapbook. Once you find the perfect gift to share sit back and enjoy the extra time the two of you will get to spend together using or attending this present.

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Corny but effective at this time of year - Sleigh Ride!

We have all seen the classic Christmas card with the couple in a sleigh with a horse pulling them. Well why not take that classic card to the next level and find a place where you can enjoy the ride for yourself. Obviously during this time of year you can find them everywhere most of them are the wheeled type of carriages. However, if you are in a place that has plenty of snow you can most likely find a place that has the old school horse pulled carriage. Not only will you get to snuggle close to your love but usually the scenery is absolutely beautiful. Take your camera along to remember you ride, some ride might take you during the evening and show you the wonderful Christmas lights around town. As you ride around remember the reason for the season the and the wonderful person seated beside you.

Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Watching the tree lights.

You know how the flicker of the fire sets a great mood for romance. Well at this time of year your Christmas tree lights can do the same thing. Turn all the lights down in the room with your tree in it and then find a cozy chair to snuggle down in. Don't let talking get in the way of enjoying the lights, just relax for a bit and take in the magic season of lights. Once you feel relaxed then you can start talking about things like presents you need to buy or what you want to do this holiday season. However, don't think to much the object here is to relax and enjoy the wonderful christmas tree the two of you have put up.