Friday, February 28, 2014

Signs of Love

Signs of Love in the Air

She loves me, She loves me not, she loves me, she loves me not ...
I believe that many people (including me) have this problem sometime in their lives. You like someone, to the extend that you want to get into a serious relationship with him/her. BUT, on the other hand, you are afraid that confessing your love might ruin even the chance of being friends.
Well, worry no more. Because statistics have shown that when someone is romantically attracted to you, they unknowingly give out certain signals. All you need to do is to identify these signals of love!
Body Language and Other Signals That Could Mean Love
Sometimes being able to tell if someone is interested in you is easier than you may think. If you know the signs to look for you can learn if that guy or girl is focusing on you or simply watching the traffic drive by. One of the best things to watch is the person's body language and you can discover if they are interested in you...or just your best friend.
Does their body language exhibit the telltale signs that give their thoughts away? Could this person be in love with you? Look for the signs that say it all. If they are finding you fascinating they will move in closer when they talk with you or walk with you. You will notice that they look at you when they talk and they focus on your face, especially your eyes. They will lean toward you during conversation. They will also unknowingly touch their face, particularly their lips. Women will play with a lock of their hair if a person has piqued her interest.
If a woman has her legs crossed and has one shoe dangling on her toes you have attracted her interest. Women who play with their straws at dinner also find their companions interesting.If a woman has her lips parted or uses her tongue to moisten her lips she is signaling an attraction to her partner. While some people learn to use body language and body signals deliberately, most of these actions occur spontaneously and we do not control them.
Both sexes will reach during conversation to touch the other person's arm or hand. The eyes are a dead giveaway to their thoughts though and that is why prolonged contact occurs between two people who are interested in each other. If the chemistry is there the sparks can fly and the eyes are very aware. Did you realize that pupils will dilate when someone is attracted to another person? This is a great way to know for sure if the person is interested in you, because this is a body response that no one can control.
There are other tell tale signs that can show you that someone loves you. They want to please you and they will find special things to do to show you this. If someone is bringing you flowers, candies or other items it is always flattering and appreciated, but people who really care about you will add unique touches. They may only bring you one flower, but it will be one they picked just for you, or it will be your favorite flower. If they bring you candy, it may be some that they prepared themselves. Whatever gift they bring, no matter how small, will usually have more significance or personal meaning than many of the gifts from other people.
People who are in love think about their loved one often and will send them messages or call them frequently. If the person you are interested in never responds to your calls until days later, you might want to rethink the relationship. Part of being in love means wanting to spend time together and wanting to make sure that the other person is okay. If the person you are interested in is constantly wanting you to lose weight, change your way of dressing, color your hair, and change your group of might want to rethink the relationship. People in love are willing to overlook flaws and they never try to make you over into their "ideal person".
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Thursday, February 27, 2014

Broken Hearts, A Guys Perspective


A guys perspective

By Greg J. Kelly (Caveman)

There are a few absolutes in this world. Death and taxes are a sure bet. Swimming in a cold pool will shrink your little Irish Curse into a shriveled pea pod, and if you have a heart at some point in your life it will break. 
 Hearts do 3 things real well.

1- They pump blood
2- They break
3- They heal

Finally something I really know about.
If you are a human over the age of 30 you probably have a good idea of what I'm talking about.  If your going through it right now then your probably not listening to a word anyone is saying, your consumed with your fog. You're in a huge temporary life altering shit storm and it hurts. I can however just about guarantee one thing...You will get over it as millions before have. But it still hurts, I get it, been there a few times, one of which put me in the hospital and several smaller heartbreaks that kinda felt like a good swift kick in the cobblers.
 Broken hearts are no joke.

Where is she right now? Who is she with? Why did she leave? I need to talk to her? What am I going to do? How can I fix this?
 Do you see any similarities with these questions? That’s right...Panic! In a way it's normal to panic. Your world is changing and you don’t have answers at the moment. 
( refer back to the shit storm paragraph). 

The hardest thing to do right now is exactly what you need to do most

Take a deep breath and relax. Panic and trying to fix the problem is the absolute worst thing you can do especially if the broken heart is just setting in. The mistake I see a lot of guys doing ( which I did) is trying to fix the problem right now. Your 'right now' and her 'right now' have two different meanings. It's the wrong time for a lot of reasons one of which is your probably going to do and say the wrong thing  which of course will compound the problem. 
Most likely she is in a completely different space than you.

As men we have a tendency to want to fix problems, we find solutions. Car breaks down...We fix it. House needs painting...We fix it. Bugs in the kitchen...We fix it. Your girlfriend/wife just left....We fix it. Guess what?

           Some things cannot be fixed the way we think it needs to be fixed. 

Sometimes your silence and distance is the best tool for fixing a problem, it's also the hardest right now. Since I have no idea what your personal situation is I can only speak in generalities and my experience. I have come to believe this from talking to many many women all of whom say the same thing. By the time they walk out the door they have most likely had leaving on their mind for a long time. Their brain has left long before their body ( we're always the last to know). 
Can you think of a last straw event that happened to make her leave? 

There could be a silver lining at the end of this rainbow. A couple scenarios could happen. 

1- She could walk through the door just like she walked out the door. She can do this on her own without a word from you, it can happen.

2- She may just need some time. This does not mean she is out whoring around in fact she is most likely feeling a big loss, give yourself credit, you have value to her especially if you both have spent years together. She may just find the grass is not greener on the other side but...As I've said, she may need time to figure this out and if your texting and calling 24/7 you are not giving her time, if she doesn't have time she can't think, if she can't think nothing will change.

 Women generally justify why they need time, they will convince themselves they are right. If she is in her own 'space' right now the last thing she wants is you. Right or wrong, you may just be the problem right now. 

 I had a girlfriend who, I thought was totally happy with me only to call me up one weekend and say she couldn't make it over this weekend, OK no prob I said. Next weekend she calls and says she can't make it again because she slept with someone and is pregnant! 
And it's my fault! It's my fault? What??!!
Do you see how they can justify just about anything sometimes? Wow..I'm still picking my nuts up over that one. Just when I thought I was beginning to understand the female motherboard. Yikes.

3- The end of your story has not been written. I can remember, several times feeling like dying because some girl had left me. I cried, I tried, I begged, I played every card I could think of. Lo and behold as time went by I slowly got stronger, she realized that maybe I wasn't so bad and the cycle turned in my favor and she wanted me back. By then I had moved on.
Moral of the story is that your story has yet to have a grand finale. If she is gone forever you may, as hard as it is to believe, be grateful sometime down the road.

4- You may not want her back at all and are just going through a broken heart because of loss of some sort. Even if we are the ones leaving we can still have a broken heart.

Give your brain a break and let time do some work.

Look guys, all I’m saying is back off for a bit, give her time and space and all this crazy blender head crap your going through may pass on its own. 
Whatever is happening at this moment will be different tomorrow and next week and next month whether you open your mouth or not. 

If the solution to your broken heart is having her in your arms again so you can start anew then let her see that you have changed and guess what? You can't change in 5 days and she knows it so if your babbling about how you now 'see the light' she will need to see proof, proof takes time. Stay on track. I’ve always said the the price we pay for the love endorphin rush may just be an equal and perhaps unjust sense of loss.
Hell, let's face it women are frigging hard to understand. Even on a good day with a clear mind and years of study I can barely figure them  out. They are 40 gigabyte computer motherboards with 74 terabyte backups, we are 49 cent plastic light switches...On or off.

OK guys, relax, have faith in time, do what you need to get through this time, stay busy, eat right, try to exercise, don't go near any other women for awhile, get strong on your own. I know it's the natural reaction to feel wanted again but you'll just end up in another crapper before you get out of the  current crapper. If your woman does come back the last thing you want to do is start off with a lie and hide  the fact that you had meaningless monkey sex with some chick named Trixie, Destiny or Wanda. Play it straight, heal, be cool.
I'm on your side.

Greg is a graduate of Chico State University and currently has two published books: Surviving Divorce and Broken Hearts and  Trigger Her Attraction a Caveman's Guide to the Mating Game which is now an Amazon bestseller. 
He is wrapping up his third book: True Secrets of the Male Mind How We Really Think About Love, Sex and of Course....You.

Greg can be reached at

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Wednesday, February 26, 2014

Sweet Ride A Great New App for Couples

Sweet Ride® Android App available on Google Play.
Sweet Ride® is an adult audio stimulation arousal fantasy Mobile App.

Sweet Ride®- February 18, 2014- Available today, Sweet Ride® is a high quality sexually arousing app that speaks to the collective needs of human desires allowing total control at the ease of your fingertips and is to be enjoyed alone or shared with someone. With an initial focus on audio, Sweet Ride® offers a creative alternative to the adult apps that are available today.
Sweet Ride® is an adult audio stimulation fantasy arousing app that provides a platform for users to listen to 40+ adult audio profiles, customize their cravings and view 69 animated sex positions. Each audio file is a piece of art that tells a story for you to see with your mind's eye with vivid, imaginative, sounds that trigger your unique essence, and strikes that inner chord of your psyche. We strive to creatively portray each experience in a thought provoking, and unique way. Enjoy a Sweet Ride through your minds eye and through the power of audio.
At Sweet Ride®, we believe the user should have ability to easily and quickly choose the sexy voice that speaks to them, accent, literal sweet talk, to include a desired position, and be able to save their created profiles. Sweet Ride aims to reach users all over the world in a manner that is easily accessible, personal, a simple to find tool, simple to use to simply and effectively reach a happy place through a variety of Sweet Ride® audio profiles options.
The Sweet Ride® mobile app offering is truly as unique as the individuals who utilize the app. Sweet Ride® provides the adult community with a variety of audio profiles by enlisting the creative minds from people all over the world. As every person on this planet has their own unique set of sexual stimulation desires, Sweet Ride® is able to provide such a platform. The goals are to allow the creative minds of people and their self expression to be shared with the world for sexual enjoyment, as well as not confine the creativity of the Sweet Ride® mobile app to short list of individuals. These particular practices make the Sweet Ride® mobile app extraordinary with an open architecture for continuous audio profile development and offerings for fresh content. Sweet Ride® is patent pending. We at Sweet Ride® believe in the


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Sweet Ride® is available for $2.99 for Android and is available on Google Play.
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Tuesday, February 25, 2014

Warm Up It Can Be Sexy

Olympian Kate Hansen using dance to warm up before here Olympic Luging.  You could use this same strategy to warm up before making love.  

Saturday, February 22, 2014

Meditation On the Toilet?

Check out this book called Toilet Yoga and maybe you can add this in too.  

Okay we all know that meditation is good for us.  Many of us however complain that we don't have time to sit in silence long enough to meditate.  You complain about the kids interrupting or your spouse asking you questions, etc.   This got me thinking the other day.  The one place that most people can have a few minutes to themselves is usually in the bathroom.  So, why not start meditating in the bathroom.  You could do it while you are taking care of business or you could fake having to go to the bathroom so you can find that time to meditate.  Sounds like a good idea to me.  Don't flush this away until you try it, the powers that be do not judge where you meditate.

Friday, February 21, 2014

Domestic Violence Sucks

Domestic violence is a disturbing and sadding topic.  Most people don’t know why it happens or how to approach it.  One wonders why someone could treat another in such a horrific way or even why someone would stay with a partner that treats them that way.  
The 5 star rated book Understanding Domestic Violence and Abuse by Kelina Cowell, explains in detail the statistics, causes and effects of domestic abuse and the impact that it has on it's victims. 
The sad fact is that anyone can become a victim of domestic abuse.  Each of us has been touched by it in some way, whether we know of someone or have been a victim ourselves.  It comes in many different forms.  Psychological, physical, sexual, financial, emotional, and these are only naming a few. The aim is to gain power and control and the impact is devastating. 
As listed within these powerful pages some victims will experience poor general health, mental heath issues, feelings of worthlessness, helplessness, self-loathing or apathy.  This makes the road to freedom extremely challenging and to many seem impossible.
The statistics are breathtaking.  1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men will experience domestic violence in their lifetime.  Now think about how many of those victims don’t report the abuse and live in fear and pain for years. How many children are witnesses to this?  It’s heartbreaking. 
Understanding Domestic Violence and Abuse is eye opening.  It is full of facts, history, and helps the reader understand the reasoning and how to break the cycle. 
If you know someone who is in an abusive relationship this book will give you the knowledge to help them break free.

Thursday, February 20, 2014

Are You Prepared For Your Honeymoon?

Preparing for the Honeymoon: Honeymoon Fashion Tips

Expert Author Sherly A. Mendoza
Aside from the wedding ceremony itself, the honeymoon is one of the most awaited parts of a couple's new journey in life. Couples spend a lot of time and money just to make sure that they choose the perfect honeymoon location. For some, spending their first days together as husband and wife means honeymooning in their favorite island. For others, spending some nights in a posh hotel is enough. No matter where one chooses to honeymoon, though, one thing is almost always taken for granted: the wardrobe.
Even if honeymooning couples normally spend most of their time by themselves, looking good is still important. This is tantamount to feeling good and confident about one's self. If you are getting married soon and are in the middle of finalizing honeymoon plans, it will do you a lot of good to check out the fashion tips that follow.
Summer Honeymoon
- If comfort is more important than fashion for you, your honeymoon wardrobe should consist mostly of cottony outfits. This is especially true if your honeymoon falls in the middle of the summer season. Cotton is a very breathable material, so it is the most comfortable. You'll find a lot of fashionable clothes made of cotton. There are sleeveless summer dresses for the young bride; and cotton shirts for men. Choosing the right color is essential; go for light shades as dark colors tend to attract heat.
- A summer honeymoon means plenty of time in the beach. This means that you should prepare as many swimwear as you can. Bright colors are perfect for beach wear of any type: bikinis, one-piece swimsuits, men's swimming outfits, board shorts and even maxi dresses, colorful sarongs and cover ups. Bring more than one swimwear so that you won't have to wear the same one everyday. Part of your summer honeymoon fashion are your sunscreen lotions and lip balm.
- Whether your honeymoon is in the summer season or not, bringing the right kind of sleepwear is important. Brides should go for lacy lingerie or nighties. And yes, the groom should go for funky boxers even if sleepwear is only for the bedroom. This does a lot in creating the right honeymoon ambiance.
- Cover up a little more when honeymooning in the winter season. But choose styles that are still fashionable.
Cold Weather Fashion
- If your first romantic outing as husband and wife takes place in the colder parts of the year, it is best to prepare a sweater, jacket or sweatshirt. Winter honeymooners, especially those who plan to spend their time in a ski resort, should bundle up in the right outfit, from the head gear down to their footwear. Look for coordinated outfits like winter jackets (preferably hooded), ear muffs, winter pants and boots. Of course, it is important to go for clothes that you feel most comfortable in; otherwise, you won't be able to move around too much.
- For the summer season, it is best to prepare two sets of footwear: a pair of beach slippers and elegant sandals that you can use for fancy dinner dates. Men should go for slipper-sandals that they can wear on the beach, as well as simple dress shoes for romantic dinners. Go for boots for colder weather. And just in case the hotel or resort you are going to stay in does not have one, bring a pair of bedroom slippers.
Extra Stuff
- Lastly, it is up to you if you want to bring hats as these can be especially useful in protecting yourself from the sun. There are hats and hoodies that are perfect for the windy and wintry season.
The best thing to remember when preparing your honeymoon wardrobe up is comfort. No matter how fashionable or expensive your outfits are, if you are not comfortable with what you are wearing, you won't look good in it. Confidence is a big factor in looking and feeling good - whether you're honeymooning or just hanging out with your spouse.
Sherly Mendoza is the owner of, a website dedicated to her portfolio as a writer and blogger for hire. She writes technology, gadget, app, fashion, finance, health and lifestyle-related articles, blog posts and content. She is also a professional banker since 2005. Because of her background as a banker, she's expert with things related to finance, check and cash monitoring, Trust and Money Market placements, investments, stock market, FCDU, mutual funds, anti-money laundering laws, inward clearing checks, FX telegraphic transfers, general money management, among others. She has a medium-level experience in web hosting, domain name registration, cPanel and CMS. Sherly is an excellent researcher and an avid reader of fashion and tech magazines. She is available for freelance writing and blogging work.

Wednesday, February 19, 2014

Speed Sex Not An Olympic Event We Encourage

While this video is funny it is also very troubling in a relationship.  Sex is meant to be savored so make sure you take time to enjoy the passion and forget about the finish line.

Sunday, February 16, 2014

Anticipation, It Can Be A Good Thing

The Guru Of Getting It On is brining the power back to anticipation.  In our have it now society it is good at times to take a step back and enjoy the anticipation.  This practice will have you jumping out of your shoes with excitement.

Friday, February 14, 2014

Make Love it's Valentines

February 14th is a day of romance, when love is in the air. We celebrate it with the exchange of candy, flowers, cards and gifts between lovers and friends. What better time for love making than this universal day of love?
It's the best kind of gift really, when you think about it. Most men would prefer it, and will never exchange it. You don't have to spend time shopping and you don't have to gift wrap it, except with some pretty panties, of course. With the money you save on his gift, you can get yourself something nice.
However, it's important to make your gift special for your true love. Get rid of all the distractions, maybe get a baby sitter, put the dogs out for a while, and toss the cat off the bed. Don't check your email and be sure to turn off your cell phones.
Put on some nice music and light some candles to create a little ambiance. Devote yourself totally to your mate and don't allow anything to come between the two of you. Live completely in the minute when it comes to love making. Try not to let your mind wander to day-to-day tasks or worries over finances or family.
Allow love to be the center of attention and watch how delighted your lover will be. Make this a Valentine's Day that he will remember for many years to come. It certainly won't be a gift that sits in the closet, never to be worn.
Although men typically have a stronger sex drive than women, lovemaking has many benefits for women too. In addition to burning about 70 calories per session, sex alleviates stress and promotes sleep.
Best of all, making love to your partner builds trust and a deeper understanding of each other, both of which are essential in a healthy relationship.
Karen Ficarelli is the founder and CEO of, a diet, exercise program and women's fitness blog, developed especially for women. A mother of three, Karen knows how hard it is to fit everything into a busy schedule. A fitness author, personal trainer, Pilate's instructor, sports nutritionist, fitness model, wife and mom, Karen is passionate about helping other women reach their fitness goals.

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Thursday, February 13, 2014

Let Your Kindle Improve Your Relationship

Messages from the Heart are sure to bring you lots of ways to tell each other how much you love one another.  This simple practice from The Guru Of Getting It On, just might create a turning point in your relationship.

Monday, February 10, 2014

Why Does She Love Buying Shoes?

Valentines Day Humor for you All!  Happy Valentines Day

Friday, February 7, 2014

What Will You Fill Your Heart Shaped Box With?

Sexy Challenges is brining you a way to communicate with your lover like never before.  With the aid of a simple heart shaped box, see how you can start a tradition in your relationship that will get you two closer then ever.  

Also available for the kindle and nook.  

Sunday, February 2, 2014

Disease and Illness Can Take a Toll on Your Relationship

When your sweetheart suffers from any kind of illness or disease it can take a great toll on your family and relationship.  Having someone who understand what you are going through can make a huge shift for you and your love.  Rustie MacDonald gets you - she understands when it comes to living with Celiac Disease.  She hosts a weekly radio show Living and Thriving with Rustie: Inspiration on Tap.

In the meantime, check out this article below.

Living With Celiac Disease - Top 5 Tips To Help Living With Celiac Disease

Our immune system is ever vigilant, ready to mount an attack against invaders. It uses inflammation to contain and destroy microbes and other substances that it recognizes as foreign, or not belonging to the body. Have you ever had a splinter in your finger and not removed it right away? The area around the splinter turned a bit red, swollen, and maybe a little warm to the touch. That was your immune system working, using inflammation to contain any harmful microbes before they could invade your body.
In autoimmune diseases something horrible happens. Your body makes a huge mistake! It identifies part of itself as an enemy and mounts an inflammatory attack against itself. Scientists believe that autoimmune diseases are caused by genes we inherit, and environmental exposures that trigger the genes to express themselves. There are at least eighty autoimmune diseases that have been identified, with more being added to the list. Different autoimmune diseases affect different parts of the body. For example type1 diabetes affects the insulin making cells in the pancreas, psoriasis affects the skin and sometimes joints, autoimmune thyroid disease affects the thyroid, rheumatoid arthritis affects the lining of the joints, and celiac disease affects the small intestine.
Although celiac disease is an autoimmune disease that damages part of the digestive tract, not all the signs and symptoms at first appear to be related to digestion. When a person who has celiac disease eats foods containing gluten, as found in wheat, rye, and barley, their immune system responds by attacking the small intestine, the site where most nutrient absorption takes place. Without proper absorption of nutrients, a person can eventually develop many symptoms and disorders including additional autoimmune diseases, anemia, osteoporosis, infertility, or cancer. Delaying diagnosis or consuming any gluten products will increase damaging inflammation.
Celiac disease can develop at any age from infancy to adulthood.
Given that celiac disease occurs in genetically predisposed persons, a genetic test can help rule out the possibility of developing the disease. Even if a person does carry the genes that are related to celiac disease, it does not mean that they will develop the disease. Genetic variants that seem to increase the risk of celiac are found in 30 percent of the general population, but only 3 percent of persons with the gene variants develop celiac disease. Scientists believe exposure to something in the environment, and changes in other genes, may trigger the development of celiac disease.
A PubMed study found that a number of autoimmune connective tissue diseases may be associated with exposure to drugs, chemicals and environmental factors.
Living with celiac disease is not easy but can be easily improved by following the 5 following tips:
  • Eliminate all toxic chemicals from your home
  • Supplement your alimentation with probiotics (Lactobacillus acidophilus, Bifidobacterium lactis)
  • Make sure your diet has enough Omega-3. Omega-3 fatty acids reduce inflammation
  • Choose gluten-free personal care products (especially lipstick and lip balm)
  • Take gluten-free fibres supplements to make sure you get enough prebiotics and fibres that are usually deficient in gluten-free diets
Sophie Gratton is a busy mother of 3 who is dedicated to inform others about the dangers of toxic household chemicals and their potential effects on our health. Click here for more tips on how to make your home a safer place.

Stand Up As a Sexy, Confident Woman

Is it time that you step up and stand out as a sexy, confident woman?  Get noticed by your man - or the man of your dreams.  Being willing to be in the spotlight even if that your audience is of just one - you know, your amazing guy, does not come naturally to everyone.  If you are serious about making a shift, then you need to make the effort to do some research, read great articles, books, etc. so that you can discover ways to take those steps - sure of yourself.  The more confident you are the sexier you become.  Remember though that confidence and arrogance are two different things - so use really is a bit of a balancing act. 

Check out various relationship blog posts and discover awesome insight.  We particularly liked this blog post, Develop Sexy Confidence He Can't Resist

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Saturday, February 1, 2014

Zob Art A Great Way To Share Some Love, With Your Love

Many state that a great relationship is just like a great work of art.  You have to put your heart and soul into both to get a wonderful finished product.  When you can mix all these wonderful things you picture gets better and better just like your relationship.  Think about the art work you enjoy, and how does it mirror your relationship?