Monday, December 30, 2013

I'm Confident and That Makes Me Sexy

**Can't say that we are Paris Hilton fans, but this quote is something we can be a fan of!
Size, shape, hair color, eye color, blah, blah, blah…sure it matters to some extent to some people, 
but to be sexy - you simply need to be confident and then you can be VERY sexy!

Photo credit: © sonyazhuravetc -

Saturday, December 28, 2013

2014, Ring In The New Year With Great Sex

Okay we all have New Years Resolutions that flop after the first week.  This one however will give you the buddy system, where you and your partner will both be working together to help each other out.  And help each other out you will.  Creating a sexy new plan for your passion and romance for the New Year.  By this time next year you will be amazed at how long your resolution lasted.  

You can get Sexy Challenge - New Years Resolution on iTunes, or for your Kindle or Nook.  

Friday, December 27, 2013

Funny After Christmas Video

How Baby Boomers Are Keeping Sex Fresh

Discover How Baby Boomers Are Keeping Sex Fresh and Are Avoiding a Mid Life Crisis

Without creativity in the bedroom, sex can easily become a once a week, five minute chore. With fresh ideas, positions, and places, sex can spice up anyone's sex life.
When sex becomes a chore the sexual frustration of one or both partners can lead to relationship problems outside the bedroom. Often leading some people to seek excitement and pleasure with another partner.
I am a baby boomer woman, self confident and know what I like! At this time in my life I am also not afraid to voice my opinion regarding "playtime in the bedroom".
I am always looking for fun and unique ways for keeping sex fresh, exciting and spontaneous!
Keeping sex fresh and exciting requires a mindset. For some baby boomers this might sound foreign, but the truth is that sex plays an important part in a good relationship.
It's almost impossible to get bored of sex, but it's easy to get bored with "routine sex." If you're sex life is's time to spice things up! Here are a few ideas to KEEP SEX FRESH AND EXCITING...
1. Talk to your partner... Share your ideas. desires and fantasies.
2. Embarrassed to discuss something?... Listen, if you are wanting to add something new to your sexual experience, now is the time to overcome your sexual inhibitions.
3. Make a trip to your local book store... Now head straight for the "intimacy" isle. Don't get this confused with the "fiction" section. Pick up a copy of Erotica for Couples.
4. Maybe a trip to a sex shop... Now, if you were having a hard time at the local book store, this one stop shopping experience will definitely spice things up!
Sex doesn't have to be mind-blowing all the time, nor will it be, but it should be satisfying to both of you. That is why keeping sex fresh and exciting will bring you closer together, not only under the sheets but in all aspects of your lives together.
Allow this baby boomer to help you explore new ways for Keeping Sex Fresh from a woman's perspective.
Enhance your sexual experience and enjoy the best sex ever to avoid a mid life crisis. Have the dream marriage that most people only dream about.
Heighten your Sexual Awareness.
Discover in great detail, creative ways to Keeping Sex Fresh and learn how you can give both you and your partner pleasures you will never forget.
Visit Me At Today's Intimate to reclaim your sex life!
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Let Go of Resentment in Your Relationship

Dr. Janelle Alex, Ph.D. & Dr. Rob Alex, Ph.D. sat down and talked with Robyn Vogel about resentments and "withholds" and how to let those things go so that you can feel a deeper connection to your partner and feel more love. Robyn defines resentment and then shares a method to move past it. Find Robyn at

Tuesday, December 24, 2013

Do's, Don'ts and Magic Words for Relationship Breakthrough

Dr. Janelle Alex, Ph.D. and Rob Alex, M.Sc. talked with Susie and Otto Collins, Relationship Breakthrough Coaches, about the age old argument between couples - who is right and who is wrong. And, they share a number of tips and insights into communicating with your sweetie. Check it out for lots of great info! 

Saturday, December 21, 2013

Love = Youth: No Matter How Old You Are

"A heart that loves is always young." 

Photo credit: © Paul Fleet -

Wednesday, December 18, 2013

I Thought I Saw God During Sex!! It Freaked Me Out - Help!

We often talk about transcendental sexual experiences.  But, what are they?  Dr. Jenny Wade has a wonderful book that helps share about a variety of different transcendent sexual experiences.  She researched a variety of different people - some in heterosexual relationships while others in same sex relationships, some were in committed relationships while others were not.  

Truly this book is a great read.  Will this book help you uncover your own transcendent sex?  That is not really likely, but then again it may help you understand that you have already experienced it.  Of course, we help couples learn methods to create the opportunities to experience transcendent sex, but if you don't know what it is in the first place…well….  

Dr. Janelle Alex, Ph.D. and Dr. Rob Alex, Ph.D. - Sexy Challenge Team 

Sunday, December 15, 2013

He Wants It All The Time - She Never Does...

Dr. Janelle Alex, Ph.D. and Rob Alex, M.Sc. of Sexy Challenges talked to Aaron Anderson about differing libidos in marriages today. Is you sex drive lower/higher than you sweeties? Then you should watch now! 

Aaron Anderson is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and owner of The Marriage and Family Clinic in Westminster, CO. He is the Marriage editor for The Good Men Project and also writes for several publications on the topic of marriages, families and men. In his spare time (whatever that is) he is secretly preparing to be the next renowned chef. You can find him on Twitter @MarriageDr on Facebook and on his blog The Relationship Rx giving great relationship advice without the psychobabble.

Thursday, December 12, 2013

Monday, December 9, 2013

Gemstones Make a Unique Gift For Your Lover

Gemstones - Unique Gifts for Lover

Gemstones can be the most unique gifts for your lover. Your gift for your lover does not have to be expensive but it has to be precious and treasurable! Your gift should be able to tell your loved one that you really love them and care for them.
If you want to surprise your special one with an exquisite gift on their birthday, anniversary or on valentine's day, and you are absolutely confused as to what would be the most unique gift for your lover, you can be assured that a dazzling precious or semi-precious gemstone gift will bring a smile on their face and a sparkle in their eyes. If your loved one is fond of decorating their home, why not gift them some exceptional gemstone show items or a gemstone wind chime. If you are looking specifically for a birthday gift for your loved one, birthstones or zodiac gems are a great option.
If you are thinking of buying your special woman a beautiful gift, gemstone lucky charms or trinkets could be a great choice, considering the wide range of selection available and affordability.
There are also special gemstones that attract love. Love stones like the rose quartz, moonstone and ruby gemstone have magnetic properties that magically draw your loved one towards you. Love gemstones are symbolic of unconditional love, forgiveness, trust and bring harmony in relationships. You may gift your sweetheart a beautiful rose quartz heart pendant or a rose quartz telephone accessory. A rose quartz helps nurture deep love and affection in one's relationships. The red ruby gemstone has a unique charm of its own and brings passion and romance in your love life.
A mystic red ruby is a symbol of true love. Gifting your loved one traditional red ruby jewelry will bind the two of you together in love and commitment for years to come. An elite ruby ring or a lovely bracelet is sure to charm your lady. If you're planning to propose to the woman you love, a lovely ruby ring will speak your heart for you.
If you've been thinking of what best gift you can gift your man for his birthday or you want to gift him something just like that, a gemstone globe or a gemstone keychain or a quartz paper weight would be a great idea.
In case, you are missing your ex and want to get back once again, choose a lovely jade gemstone or lapis lazuli to rekindle lost love.
If you think you are falling short of time to shop for an exclusive gift, simply log on to the internet and look up some good sites where you can buy gemstones online.

Friday, December 6, 2013

Romantic Gondola Rides

Many Americans have dreamed about visiting Venice and taking a ride in its most iconic mode of transportation, the gondola. But a lot of us are too busy to drop everything and go abroad; fortunately, there are gondoliers in many stateside cities who specialize in bringing a little Venetian romance and relaxation into your life. 
We were asked to share this article with you and we are pleased to do so, but we also wanted to share a couple of places that were not mentioned.  Here they are:
Old World Gondoliers in Indianapolis, IN -
Click here to discover a few of the places (from the original article) where you can take to the water the old-fashioned way.
Video Credit: @Zen Surfer - YouTube

Tuesday, December 3, 2013

Tuning Into Technology Tunes You Out of Your Relationship

"In these modern times, it has become easier and easier to tune in to the television, your computer, your phone, or your iPad.  This means you are tuning out from your sweetheart and your intimate relationship.  It may not seem so at first, but eventually being turned on by your lover will wane and become secondary to today's media and digital gadgets and other priorities."

- Janelle and Rob Alex 
via Loving and Lasting: How to Stay Tuned In and Turned On In Your Marriage

*You can fix this though...
Pick up a copy of Loving and Lasting