Thursday, June 30, 2022

Lesson on Seduction


Lessons on Seduction

When college student Sapphire Blake finds herself fresh out of a breakup, she is ready to embark on a new journey in her life. A dark, sensual journey.

Professor Julian Richland is ridiculously handsome, smart, and intimidating. When he and Sapphire are introduced, sparks are ignited as he sees past the conservative stigma Sapphire believes the world has placed on her. Instead, he sees a sexy vixen—and he can’t help but admit he wants her.

As the couple begins a dangerous, passionate liaison, secrets become exposed and lives are threatened. Will Julian save his relationship with Sapphire and rekindle the fiery flame they share? Or, will fate have another ending in store? Find out in Lessons on Seduction, a thrilling and erotic romance novel.

Publisher: Black Velvet Seductions

Warning: this is an erotic romance novel with BDSM, ménage à trois, female x female, male x female x female, and other adult themes. It is not appropriate for minors. It has erotica themes and is not a sweet romance.

Tuesday, June 28, 2022

Scheduled Intimacy

Scheduled Intimacy

I hear is all the time that couples want their intimacy to be spontaneous. Well in our busy busy world that isn't always possible and might cause you to be waiting a long long time for any intimacy with your partner. We have no problem scheduling ever thing else in our lives, from Dr. Appointments, Oil Changes for the Car, Business Meetings, etc. Why should intimacy be any different? Watch our video on the subject and see how you feel about it. We are not saying you always have to be scheduled for intimacy but there are some advantages to it.

Sunday, June 26, 2022

We can Forever Judge Every Choice We Make, But Why?


We can Forever Judge Every Choice We Make, But Why?

There is a reaction to ever decision we make in our life, but because we cannot choose all choices at once we are forever to wonder what would have happened if we made a different choice. So many look for the negative in our choices that they never see all the positive that comes out of that choice and they fixate on that they made the wrong choice. I am not sure the choice even matters but it is the dedication to the choice that matters. We can find good and bad in all things, we can spend our lives searching for the negative, but it is time to break that cycle.

Sunday, June 19, 2022

Our Top 5 Books for Your Relationship

  Our Top 5 Books to Give Your Relationship

The Big Black Book of Sex Positions

From the writers who brought you The Little Black Book of Sex Positions comes a bigger and better manual than ever before. The Big Black Book of Sex Positions is your go-to guide if you feel like your sex life has gone stale. Spice things up with these tantalizing positions that will enhance your sexual experience like never before. 

Within this accessible and approachable guide, you’ll find exciting and steamy sex positions like Bottoms Up, The Joyride, The Lotus, Spread Eagle, as well as more than twenty less-frequent, but more adventurous sexual topics and positions. You’ll also discover sections about foreplay, toys, setting the mood, exercises to improve your performance and flexibility, why size only matters when it’s wrong, and many other burning topics that are often overlooked. 

Get ready to take your sex life to a whole-new level with The Big Black Book of Sex Positions.

Whether you want deep soulful lovemaking or hot-rip-your-clothes-off sex, you can consciously connect to your spirituality, your friskiness, your heart and your lover every time with these 33 unique sexy challenges.  Dr. Rob Alex is an amazing power guru who helps you and your partner open your hearts, souls, minds and bodies through playful, metaphysical spirituality and sexuality.

Lovemaking is far more than just a physical interaction between lovers.  It is actually a sacred journey you and your partner travel together.  One of the greatest things about Sexy Challenges is that they're easy, practical and a lot of fun.  And, they lead you on a mystical journey like no other.

Most couples want to keep their relationship hot and sexy, but aren't sure how to do it.  On top of that, they crave a spiritual connection.  However, blending the sexy and the spiritual can seem confusing or even impossible.  Drs. Rob and Janelle have created a solution with these almost effortless ideas for you and your lover.  

Plan your sexy date nights with the couples' sexual planner while creating planned spontaneity.  Transform yourselves into vampires or Egyptian lovers.  Build a love retrieval machine while exploring an orgasmic reincarnation.  Spin the bottle and sensually motivate your partner. 

When you experience these 33 adventures you'll discover how to create powerful energy with passion, purpose and love.  You'll even learn how to sexually charge your money!

No matter how you look at it, Sexy Challenges 33 Adventures will set your lingerie, spirituality and intimacy on fire.

Orgasm is one of the most amazing physical feelings in the universe.  What if it was also a gateway or portal to something more?  What if through your orgasm you could reach into other dimensions or retrieve information from past or other lives you are living?  

When you use your passionate lovemaking to pierce the veil between your world and the unknown some pretty amazing things can happen.  This Sexy Challenge helps you open up to the possibility that your orgasm is a vessel for you to travel to and from a more spiritual place.  It can allow you to reach out and touch that which is untouchable for most.

What are you waiting for?  This challenge could open you up to the joys of the Universe and it all flows through the power of your orgasmic bliss. 

Make sure to check out all the other amazing Sexy Challenges for the Amazon Kindle. 

You can also find out more about Sexy Challenges on our website at

Relationships suffer greatly when partners no longer speak kind and loving words to one another. Saying the same words over and over, day in and day out, can become common place and those once powerful words lose some of their potency. In fact, do you remember the phrase, “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me?” That really isn’t true. Not only can words hurt, but so can the lack of kind and loving words. Husband and wife team, Rob and Janelle Alex, share with you a method to bring back and even add new loving words to your relationship. Following the approach presented in Speaking Kind Words will improve and bring a new outlook to your relationship.

Sexy Challenges

Sex can be just sex. The mechanics of it can be planned out and the outcome you desire can be achieved as a purely physical act. It is possible that this can leave you feeling wonderful and physically connected with your partner. But, what if it could be so much more? What if the pleasure you feel now could be doubled, tripled or increased beyond belief? Would you want to experience that? Sexy Challenges can take you to a place where sensual love and sacred sex combine to form an experience that lifts you to new heights. Your experiences can move beyond just the physical. You might be surprised to learn that each orgasm you share with your beloved actually contains the vastness of the Universe. Inside this exciting book, you will discover fifty sexy challenges. These encompass a wide range of experiences. Through the fun, laughter, communication, romance and passion of these challenges the connection with your partner can become more powerful than you ever expected. You can touch the untouchable. The god or goddess within you can be revealed.

Friday, June 17, 2022

The Good and Bad of Alone Time


The Good and Bad of Alone Time

Being Alone gets a bad rap. I myself had issues with being alone for a good part of my life. Now I have found peace with it and have a new understanding of the word alone. For all the negative that is associated with being alone there is just as much good that is around when you are alone. Let's dive into the total experience of being alone.

Monday, June 13, 2022

The Workout for Couch Potatoes and Old Dudes (and Dudettes).


We have just released this class and looking to build it up a little bit so we are offering it to you for FREE.  But it is limited to the first 100 People.  So don't delay click the link at the bottom of this post to get the class right now.  

This class is the workout for those of us that are not models, professional athletes or actors. This work out is for the normal people that need to create a healthier lifestyle without spending hours in the gym. This workout can be adjusted for any age or skill set. Simple low impact exercises designed for the normal public.  You will learn several exercises in this video that are low impact and have options to adjust them to anyone.   Together we can create a healthy you during the times you normally might be watching television or listening to music.  This workout doesn't require you to spend a ton of money on equipment and you don't even have to leave your house to complete it on a daily basis.  There is also a bonus section dedicated to eating and how to approach eating in our modern society.  This program is designed for beginners but with adjustments can be taken to levels much higher than beginner.  

This workout system was created in an attempt for me to become more fit and active in my lifestyle.  If you have ever been that person afraid to wear a swim suit or to take your shirt off at the pool this workout is so you.  This is not a body building workout and not designed to make you look like a model.  It is defined to help you get your confidence back while creating a healthy lifestyle you can live with forever.  

Click here to claim your FREE Class today!

Friday, June 10, 2022

The Energy of the Crowd


The Energy of the Crowd

I know not everyone likes crowds but there is an energy that comes along with them. Be it when you go to see your favorite band, sports team, artist, or show, there is an energy that comes with being part of that crowd. Think about a concert you have been too where everyone is singing along with the band on stage, how great does that feel, even though you might not know the 20,000 people singing with you! You are part of that experience and let me tell you that is some of the best energy you can soak up. Check out this video and see my views on the energy of the crowd.

Saturday, June 4, 2022

The Zen of Pizza


The Zen of Pizza

Pizza one of my favorite foods but it can be so different every time your order it. So many different toppings but it still falls under the label of pizza. The same goes for people we can all be different but we are all still people. While a pizza can be only cheese, or maybe pepperoni, or even have artichokes on it, the sauce can even be Alfredo or BBQ sauce but it is still pizza. People in the same manner can have different toppings, our skin can be a different color, our sexual preference can be different, our spirituality can be very different but we are all still people and we should learn to love and accept our differences instead to hating each other for differences. You don't hate pizza for being different do you???

Friday, May 13, 2022

Soul Connections


Soul Connections

Have you ever felt just a deep connection with someone from the very first time you met them? Are there certain celebrities that have you a fondness for? Maybe, specific musicians that you just love everything they put out, or sports stars, artists, actors etc that you just feel a deep connection with. Well, these soul connections are what we are going to take about today in this video.

Saturday, May 7, 2022

You Can't Judges Other Peoples Experiences


You Can't Judges Other Peoples Experiences

We are so easy to ridicule people that have different experiences than we do. Laughing at them when they talk about ghosts, UFO's, Bigfoot, etc and yes some of these stories could be made up, but we are silly to think we know everything and are quick to judge because we have never had that experience. Check out this video and see how you can better relate to others and appreciate their experiences.

Saturday, April 30, 2022

Get Off Your Ass and Meditate


Get Off Your Ass and Meditate

Meditation is usually considered best done by sitting in silence and cleaning your mind. Well, join us as we discuss that many people can't meditate this way and that by doing activity allows them to reach a meditative state. How do you meditate? Maybe you will think of it differently after watching this video.

Thursday, March 31, 2022

Is Self Pleasuring Cheating On Your Relationship?


Is Self-Pleasuring Cheating on Your Relationship?

This is an age old question and our video explores the through process on several ways to look at this.  As with most things associated with relationships many are dependent on the thoughts of the people in the relationship.  We would love to hear your responses to this topic.  

Monday, March 28, 2022

The Forbidden Love Affair


The Forbidden Love Affair 

 Can they ever be together? 

Will their love affair ever be accepted?

Zarayah Mello is a thirteen-year-old Cape Verdean American girl living in the US in the late 1980s. Her life is simple and carefree until she gets a glimpse of Zaire, an older man, who is also Cape Verdean American. It’s love at first sight for Zarayah, but does Zaire feel the same about her?

After two years of having a secret crush on Zaire, Zarayah’s dream of becoming his girlfriend comes true. The only problem is that their relationship is forbidden in her culture. Even with this knowledge, they start a love affair that transports their lives into years of secrecy, heartbreak, deceit, and confusion.

The Forbidden Love Affair is about a young girl’s struggle in choosing between her love for a man she’s forbidden to be with and her loyalty to her family and their cultural norms. How much is Zarayah willing to sacrifice in the name of love, knowing that it could destroy her family?

She must choose wisely, as her choices will change the course of her future... forever.

About the Author

Aria Emend was born in the Cape Verde Islands and traveled to the US when she was eight. She’s been living in Massachusetts for the last forty-two years. She is a wife, a mother of three, and a grandmother.

Aria loves her Cape Verdean roots and cherishes her family values that are rich in traditions. She shares these traditions with her own family and hopes to empower her children in doing the same with theirs.

She has a Bachelors of Science in Nursing from the University of Massachusetts, Boston, and a Master’s in Education from Cambridge College, Boston. Aria has been a Registered nurse for the past twenty-seven years and has been working as a school nurse in an urban district for the past twenty-four years. She loves working with middle school children and is living her true calling.

Aria has always had a passion for reading romance novels and never thought that she’d one day write her own. She hopes that her story will resonate with others who have dealt with forbidden love and those whose love was hindered by societal norms and cultural boundaries.

Click here to get The Forbidden Love Affair

on Amazon / Kindle 

Saturday, March 26, 2022

Long Distance Relationships Can They Work

Can a Long Distance Relationship Work?

There is no doubt that a long distance relationship is one that requires a lot of planning and patience.  But that doesn't mean it is something that will fail.  There are many reasons a long distance relationship can work and might be the best plan, check out the video above to see more.


Friday, March 25, 2022

Smiling Is My Favorite


This is some great relationship advice and it works on the guys as well.  Take note when your partner smiles and do those things more often.  A smile, a laugh, a random hug are indications that you are doing good things in your relationship.  


Thursday, March 17, 2022

Rich Kids Ruin Everything


Rich Kids Ruin Everything

My man Mod Sun just dropped a new video for his latest song.  

enjoy the song and share the video for one of the hardest working people in music.

#GoodVibes #LoveLife #PeaceOut #ModSun 

Thursday, February 24, 2022

Sexy Challenges Has Something New For You


Sexy Challenges unveils a new site dedicated to helping couples constantly improve their relationships.  Let's face it without any work our relationship become stagnant and boring, but with a little effort the flow of our relationships can get better and better over time.  Sexy Challenges is here to give you the information you need through books, videos classes and products to keep your relationship rocking.  

Monday, January 17, 2022

Motivating Yourself the Sexy Way



Motivating Yourself The Sexy Way 

Motivation is one of the most amazing forces in our universe, but did you know it is also one of the sexiest forces in the universe? Motivating Yourself the Sexy Way explains the connection between your motivation and your sexuality. Once you learn how your motivation matches up with the stages of your sexuality, your motivation will take on a different light. You will be led through the stages - both your sexual experiences and your motivational experiences - from anticipation to relaxation and all the incredible experiences in between.  

You will learn how energy effects your motivation in the most sensual of ways.  

"While the climactic state is an explosion of energy, the blissful state is an implosion of energy. "

Motivating Yourself the Sexy Way is designed to blast you through the motivational process allowing you to understand the energetic boosts as well as the times when things stall. Knowing the stage of motivation you are in will help you stay motivated instead of giving up like so many people do. 

Click here to get

Motivation Yourself The Sexy Way

on Amazon Kindle 

Friday, January 14, 2022

The Top 100 Intimate Items for Lovers


The Top 100 Intimate Items for Lovers:

Presented by Sexy Challenges

Sex is amazing, Sex is Fun, Sexy is out of this world

However, it can always get better!

Sexy Challenges knows that there is not limit to the sexual energy you can experience. However, a good majority of people out there do not have any clue what products are out there to help improve their sexual experiences. That is why I put together a crack team of experts to help find the best products for your sexual satisfaction.  

Now-a-days there are millions of sexual products out there to choose from. Which means there is a lot to consider when making a selection to put more pleasure in your sex life. Not only are their choices but there are health issues to sexual items, and now many times come with warranties and options, that a person can get overwhelmed in a hurry. Sex should not be stressful nor should picking out items to assist you in your sexual escapades. 

That is why this book was created. Items to enhance your sexual experience are investments. You put out money for said items and hope they will deliver massive returns on your investments. However throwing money blindly in a sex toy store or online isn’t the best investment policy. You have to do the research. With that being said most people don’t have the time or the balls to really dive into researching sexual items. Good thing my team here at Sexy Challenges does.  

We want to take as much of the guess work out of the process as possible. This book was designed to share our top picks with you so that instead of having millions of items to choose from you will have 100 or a few more of the best of the best. High quality, best price, longest lasting items to keep your libido active and excited. Together we will help you build a arsenal of sexual items to keep things new and evolving in your bedroom, and outside of it also.
We are not just talking about sex toys such as vibrators. There is an entire world out there of amazing products that when used in the correct fashion will help turn you on and up to a new level of sexual excitement. The list is so long believe me it was a daunting task narrowing this book down to 100 items. Sure there will be sex toys in the list but there will also be games, beverages, items to cleaning up, storage, and a lot more areas that you might not have through about. That is why I brought in the experts.  

The goal here is to update this book twice a year to help keep it fresh and up to date on all the advancements in the sexuality felid. Part of our process is listening to our readers, so if you have a suggestion for a product to be in our next edition by all means sent the information to me. You will be able to find my contact information at the end of this book. Also if you have any question you can send them to me and if I don’t know the answer I will do my best to find it from our team or a different source. 
My suggestion for using this book is as follows. Go through the book all the way before you decide on anything to add to your play time. After you have finished mark down a few items you would like to try and have your partner do the same. If you are single and not dating you can skip that last step. Now compare lists and if any items are the same on both lists don’t hesitate pick those up right away. Next set a plan on what Item or items you want to try next and start a budget for your sexual pleasure items. Understand that everything in these pages might not be for you and the is okay we all are different and unique so embrace that fact. So if something doesn’t appeal to you don’t just pick it up cause it is in the book! Trust your feelings use the sexual force.  

Making your list out of the items in the pages and sharing it with your lover is a great way to help during gift giving times, such as the holidays, birthdays, anniversaries, as well as weddings and bridal showers, and bachelor parties.

Tuesday, January 11, 2022

The Romance of Valentines Day Or The Lack Of It.


There are two different perspectives on Valentines Day and this song kind of sums it up!  

Bae or no Bae you can make Valentines Day Amazing. 

Saturday, January 8, 2022

The Big Black Book of Sex Positions #1 Valentines Day Gift Idea


Get ready to take your sex life to a whole-new level. Here is an oversize, full-color guide to heat up any bedroom with these tantalizing positions that will enhance your sex, impress your partner, and make lovemaking more fun than ever for you.

Within this accessible and approachable guide, you’ll find exciting and steamy sex positions for penetrative and oral sex, including:

  • Missionary, Butterfly, Cowgirl
  • Amazon, Cowgirl, Hot Seat
  • Spread Eagle, Face Straddle, Leg Up
  • Deepthroat Handstand, Peek-a-Boo
  • Lots Pretzel, See Saw
  • Dancer, Ballerina, Bodyguard

The authors also offer sections on foreplay, toys, setting the mood, exercises to improve your performance and flexibility, BDSM, sex positions for the overweight, why size only matters when it’s wrong, and many other burning topics that are often overlooked.

“We hope this book and all of the positions and adventures inside add much more passion and fun to your sex life. And, in addition, it will create something special and magical for each and every one of you. Take the risk, and at least try each and every one of these positions. It will create a deeper sexual connection with your lover, as well as a more intimate, stronger love for one another.”