Want a Better Relationship? Then Fight it Out

Fighting and arguments in a relationship can be a very positive piece to your relationship.  It is the keeping things bottle up inside the usually has dramatic affects on our relationship.  When you can learn to fight fair, your relationship will benefit form each fight you have.  Actually the fights will actually start to dissipate to the point you just call them arguments or disagreements going forward.  

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Romance Is Everyone's Business

It has been an interesting ride for quite some time now for Sexy Challenges and Mission Date Night.  But now we are getting support from the LGBT Community and it feels great.   We have been amazing and the outpouring of love we are getting from this group?  Why do we think we are getting such great support form this community?  Well I think it comes from our definition of what a couples is.  Our Definition of a couple is simply two people that love each other, period.   We are honored by this support and will continue to help fight for the rights of love in this world.

Peace and Love,

Rob and Janelle Alex 

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Does Money Have A Strangle Hold On You?

We have had money battles for years.  Worrying about how we were going to have enough to pay the bills, and living paycheck to paycheck.  Well we have found something powerful!  Unlike most things that promise amazing results with little work, this process is based on how much work you put into it.  However the work is not hard, can you blog? or make a video?  Then you have the tools to start your process.

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Tips For Couples In Business Together - FREE for your Kindle

Now through July 2, 2014 you can pick up Inspiring Couples In Business & In Love for FREE for your Kindle e-readers.  

This book is a must for any couple that is in business together or is thinking about going into business together.  23 coupes share their secrets to what works and what doesn't work when your relationship and business are combined.

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Finding Ways To Work Together

Working together is the dream of many couples.  Being able to work beside or with the person they love the most is a throw back to the way we lived many many years ago.  When you had do depend on your partner for more that just making you feel good. 

We have tried many things to work together and most of them have left us feeling down or like there is no way we can strive and work together.  

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Communication, Communication, Communication

We hear it so often that communication is the key to relationship bliss.  However there are many ways to communicate that we didn't have just a few years ago.  Texting, email, Skype and the list goes on and on.  However, we don't want to forget about actually talking.  Make sure to take the time to talk to your partner it will help in many ways.  

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2014, Ring In The New Year With Great Sex

Okay we all have New Years Resolutions that flop after the first week.  This one however will give you the buddy system, where you and your partner will both be working together to help each other out.  And help each other out you will.  Creating a sexy new plan for your passion and romance for the New Year.  By this time next year you will be amazed at how long your resolution lasted.  

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Forget porn read erotica together.

I think a very exciting thing to do is to read erotica together. Unlike porn erotica usually has some form of plot and it makes you use your imagination to see sexy images in your mind. Porn forces you to watch what the director or author wants you to see. However erotica makes your mind digest the words and create it's own image. This might just be me but when I watch porn sometimes I feel dirty afterwards like I am a peeping tom but with erotica I feel like I am part of the action. Erotica lets me be the character instead of a bystander. One of my favorite erotica writers is Zob click on the link below to check out some of his works and get your erotica on with your partner.

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Pictures of the both of you.

The one thing I think all couples should do is get their picture taken together. I don't mean to go out and get a setting down with a professional photographer. I am talking about pictures of the two of you doing the thing in life that are fun to you. Vacations, cookouts, or just when you are being silly hand your camera over to someone and ask them to take your picture. These are the pictures you want to hang up around your house. These pictures so love and affection for each other and give you that feel good feeling you need as you glance at them. Plus viewing them makes you want to go out and have more fun together. Document your relationship and start taking pictures today.

The time is right.

The time is always right for a wonderful time together. Take what you have and make the best of it. So what if you don't have a lot of money. Take a wonderful walk together, or rent a movie and make popcorn at home to get your dating in. Build a relationship first and then when the money starts coming in you can make up for those dates where you had to just walk together. Just don't dwell on the fact that you finances are not the best. Work around your monetary situation and move on with the love.

Visions of a future.

Do the two of you want something really special to share? Maybe a special vacation, a night out on the town or a new car. Whatever it is the two of you desire together you need to put it in your vision. You need to see and feel as if you already have it. Put pictures up of you special desire. Put them in places that you will both see them like in the bathroom or above your bed. My constantly seeing the vision of your item of desire you will keep it fresh in your memory so that you can reach that goal. Send each other emails with you desire within the correspondence. Stay on target and don't pick things you are going to want to chance in a week or so. Plan that trip out to the letter so that when you finally reach your goal you be ready to enjoy it. Together you positive energy can create anything you want. Share together these visions and not only will you be striving for what you want together but you will be building a stronger bond between the two of you.

No way Garage Selling is romantic!

Garage sales are one of the very last things I think about when I vision romance. Riffling through other peoples juke that they are selling for pennies doesn't even sound like fun to me. What however if you could make these garage sales pay for your date nights or vacations trips? Now they are starting to get a little more interesting. Think about it this way say the two of you start hitting a garage sale from time to time. You both look for things that you think are priced way to cheep maybe it's clothes or trinkets it doesn't matter. Look for things you can at least triple your money on. So if you buy it for a quarter you should be able to sell it for seventy-five cents. Once your bargain hunting starts to build and you get enough stuff for a sell of your own then have one. With all the money you are going to have you should be able to go out for a wonderful evening and if your really lucky use the money for a vacation. Make sure to keep track of how much you spend on all the items and price them accordingly so to not loose track of your goals. Heck you might even find out this can be a very profitable venture for the romance in your life.

Invite the family over.

Want to make a splash with your partner then invite their family over. Plan a big get together with food and excitement. If you think his/her family would participate then get some games to play together. If games won't do it then you might think about planning the get together to watch the big football game or the latest movie out you can rent. Have lots of fingers foods to munch on and plenty of pop and tea. If you are going to serve alcohol then make sure you are ready to make sure the drinkers are not driving and to let anyone know when they have had to much. Alcohol can loosen up the party but it can also cause problems. I would suggest leaving the alcohol out until you find our more about the family. Set a time for the party to be over so that everyone knows when it is time to go. Don't leave it open or you might be having a crazy brother that won't leave. This family invite over will score you big points with your partner and help you to get to know his/her family better.

Replace something that is not healthy.

Today is a great day to replace something that is not healthy with something that is. For example instead of buying that sugary kids cereal try replacing it with a healthy alternative. You could take a morning stroll instead of sitting watching sports highlights. You could even get up 10 minutes earlier to do some sit up or push ups. Once your partner starts seeing you take steps to improving your lifestyle or health then they will follow suit. Together you can accomplish more with support and encouragement. Use the buddy (partner) system to accomplish things like exercise, shopping, and cooking. You will soon find that not only your health is improving but you relationship will starting to improve, also.

Working together.

Some of you might think that working together is a wonderful idea, and some of you think that work is your separation time. Well it can be both. Recently my partner and I were offered a position to run a retirement neighborhood. The pay was really good and we would have gotten free housing, now a problem arouse that there were not enough bedrooms for our children, so we had to decline. The thought of working together was a wonderful challenge for us. The more and more I thought about it however I realized that even though we would essentially be working together we would spend most of that time apart. Doing different things and marketing would keep us busy most of the day. I feel like we would have still had lots to talk about later in the evening and would still have the coming home feeling. It is to bad this didn't work out I think that as in our relationship we would have made a great team in business. Where does your relationship stand as of work? It is okay if you need that space from you partner, however think about if you could work together with your partner and what that says about your relationship. A big question for working together is can you leave the work behind? Will you drag it into the bedroom or worse yet will it cause problems in your personal relationship. If you can keep business separate from your personal relationship there is no problem.

Get pictures of the two of you!

One thing I notice when I go to other peoples houses is how few pictures they have of them as a couples. If they have kids you see many pictures of the kids on the wall and several of one partner with the children but if you do see a couples photo it is usually a professional one. Were are the pictures of the couple enjoying vacation together or just hugging on the couch. I suggest you start focusing on ways to get pictures together weather you ask strangers to take your pictures or teach your children to use the camera. With digital cameras now a days you can let the kids practice and then erase all the ones that are of your feet or just the top of your heads. Once you get the pictures you want then start posting them around your house as a reminder of how fun and important your relationship is.

Take a break together.

During you time together do you ever feel like it is rush rush rush? Do you feel like the two of you are together but distant because of the hurried schedules that you keep? Well I suggest taking a break. Just like a break at work make it a specific time and amount of time. Make it at noon and for a half hour. Then during that time become absorbed with each other. Focus on being a couple kiss, hug and be happy in the moment. It might take a little practice but it is well worth the effort. After all you don't have a problem when they call break at work do you. Stoping what you are doing and getting a little snack or drink. Well it shouldn't be that hard to do for your relationship either.

Do a Buddy Challenge with your partner!

Buddy Challenges are a fast growing part of our culture, that promote fun and excitement rather then sitting around being bored. What better way to tell you partner that you care about them then to ask them to get in on one of these with you and your other friends. One thing that usually happens in a relationship is that we start separating our friends from out partner. We have time for our friends and then we have time for our partner. When what we need to do is find a common time for both. Just make sure to find alone time for you and your partner but include them in with all your other dealings and they will not only create some bonds with your friends but get closer to you in the process.

Buddy Challenge can be found on Amazon, for the kindle and any kindle application for your computer or device. The software for you device is free so that is awesome. The challenges are cheap but worth their weight in gold. Click the title of this post here here to get the newest buddy challenge.

Skin on Skin

One of the most romantic feelings is when you touch your partner skin to skin. For me the rear end is on of the best skin places to touch. It is soft and sexy and is one of those areas that you don't just see all the time. This makes the butt a wonderful area to feel and view. Now here is a question for you. How often do the two of you touch rear ends not with your hands but butt to butt. Think about it why not see how it feels you both most likely desire to touch the others butt. So why not see how it feels. Skin on skin no underwear, use it as foreplay or just as a fun activity to try. Who knows where it will lead and what will happen but if nothing else you can never say you haven't done it before. THE (rear)END

Sometimes you just have to do nothing at all!

Everyone has those days when you just don't feel great or you might be a little depressed. These are the days you don't want to do your normal routine. You don't want to work out, you don't want to mess with cleaning the kitchen you just want to wallow in your sorrows. Most people might think this is not a healthy activity. I feel like a little bit of this is good for you it keeps you grounded. Now if this is happening everyday you might need to seek some help. One day of this is not going to drive you over the edge. Take the time and do nothing at all, watch some bad television and just hang out together. Don't analyze what is going on just take time to reflect. Think of the good things in your life as you are dealing with the bad, the theory behind this is that once you start thinking of the good things the bad won't seem that bad. I remember a particular tough time in my life where I found myself in a lawyers office. I was depressed and sad about the things going on and I remember my lawyer telling me, "Everything is going to be all right" Then he went on to say "I lost my daughter last week in a car accident, now that is something to mourn for" That statement hit me like a ton of bricks and it really got me understanding how to put things in perspective. Don't make a habit of it but embrace the times you don't feel great and happy and then reflect on them and see that they are really most likely not as bad as they are making you feel.