Invite the family over.

Want to make a splash with your partner then invite their family over. Plan a big get together with food and excitement. If you think his/her family would participate then get some games to play together. If games won't do it then you might think about planning the get together to watch the big football game or the latest movie out you can rent. Have lots of fingers foods to munch on and plenty of pop and tea. If you are going to serve alcohol then make sure you are ready to make sure the drinkers are not driving and to let anyone know when they have had to much. Alcohol can loosen up the party but it can also cause problems. I would suggest leaving the alcohol out until you find our more about the family. Set a time for the party to be over so that everyone knows when it is time to go. Don't leave it open or you might be having a crazy brother that won't leave. This family invite over will score you big points with your partner and help you to get to know his/her family better.

Football Together!

I know some of you out there think Football is stupid and a waste of time to watch. However if you have a partner who enjoys watching it you might be needing to do a little research. Football at this time is one of the biggest spectator sports in the USA. The majority of people love it and if one of them is in your relationship it is time you gave it a try. The typical football game lasts about 3 hours and has a halftime of about 20 minutes. The next time your partner is sitting down to watch the game get into a chair in the same room and act like your going to do something else. The first time you do this just watch, pretend your going to read a book and watch the game a little. Watch how he/she gets into the game. Then each week gradually get a little more into the game and a little closer to your partner. Watching football offers a great time for the two of you to snack and partake of a few drinks together. Don't asks to many questions however as it will take away from the game if he/she has to spend several minutes explaining each play to you. If you really want to get into it find out your local team or his/hers favorite team and get a jersey to watch the games in. Women they also make jerseys with a female cut so you don't look like your shirt is 3 sizes to big. You can also find underwear and sexy outfits to add a special touch. Unless you partner just enjoys alone time watching the game he will be glad you are joining him. Now you need to start getting into the game to show you are really giving it a chance, you might just find out it is enjoyable.

Once you become comfortable their is so much more you can put into the game. Make plans to fool around a little at half time or get a routine going like always order pizza from the same place on game day. Not only will this bring the two of you closer, think about all the adrenaline rushing as you watch and get excited. You know that energy has to be used somewhere after the game. So maybe watching football can help you get lucky.

Wine a little today!!

Make today wine day.  Go out and purchase a bottle of your partners favorite wine and then surprise them with it when they get home.  If you partner doesn't like wine maybe champagne will do.  Don't get beer let's make this a special day.  Since we are going with a little more class you might try to get special wine glasses also.  Plastic cups with graphics on them are not quite as romantic as a nice steemwear glass.  If your partners doesn't like alcohol then you can find a non alcoholic juice or beverage in a bottle that looks like wine.  Toast to each other and make sure to tell your partner how much they mean to you.

Lawn Chairs and Boat Drinks

It's time to enjoy summer.  So lets break out the lawn chairs and boat drinks.  You can enjoy the sun and spend some time together no matter where you live.  If you live in the city take your island paradise up to the roof of your building and hang out suntanning and drinking.  Just don't get to close to the edge of the building.  If you live in the secluded country you can just find a spot where the sun is available and pitch your little set up there.  If you way out in the boondocks you could even remove you suits for an all over tan.  Make sure to use sunscreen, because burn genitals are not fun or fashionable.  Make up a pitcher of your favorite beverage and just sit and sun.  Enjoy the sun, the booze, and that wonderful person sitting beside you!

A drink or two! (Thats it) - Click here to learn how to make almost any drink

I know all the problems that alcohol can have on a relationship and by know means do I encourage excessive drinking. However, sitting down with your sweetie and picking out a drink to try can be fun and exhilarating. I personally might have a drink 2 or 3 times a month but I think it is fun to try different drinks. In my title line I have put a link to Alex's Cocktail Recipes it is an extensive list of drinks. Once you have found a drink to try make it together or if your into a little role playing pretend one of your is the bartender and the other is trying to pick up the bartender. Have fun with it and after the drink is made sit down together to try it. You might end up spitting it our but at least you tried it together. As always get creative, buy special glasses, look for the little umbrellas to put in the drink, or when you are picking out your drink just pick a color or word and find a drink that matches.

Words of Warning - DON'T DRINK AND DRIVE EVER! and if you find yourself desiring the drink more than the company of your partner, get help.

It is okay to drink and have sex, but drinking during sex can get a little messy!!