Showing posts with label enjoy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label enjoy. Show all posts

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Quite eating fast food and save the money for date nights.


Here in America most of us eat way to much fast food. It is easy and it tastes good but the terrible part is that it is expensive and is not at all healthy. Why don't the two of you as a couple make an effort to avoid it altogether. Make a commitment that when every you feel like grabbing a burger the both of you remain strong and make a grilled cheese or turkey sandwich at home. Then the money you would have spent eating something bad for you and put it in a jar marked, "Date Night" Continue doing this until you have enough in the jar to experience your favorite activity together. Heck you could even save for a trip if you are strong enough. Make a penalty also so that if you do go out and eat fast food you have to replace the money you spend from your jar. You will soon start thinking about just grabbing fast food all together. Not only will your body thank you but your can both thank each other when you are sitting on the beach somewhere special.

Saturday, October 2, 2010

love yourself first!


An interesting concept that has taken me a while to understand is now an important fact in my life. To love you have to love yourself first. For years I have always thought that my love for my partner is the most important thing. However you cannot give your love away if it is not in you to begin with. I am not say that you need to do things differently in the way you treat your partner but you need to treat yourself differently. Make you that you are getting the things to make your happy and then your happiness will spread to your partner. They will start picking up on your happiness and if they truly love you then, they will feel more love towards you and you can share you love easily with them. It is a circle and once you understand it your love will really start to pick up speed.

Friday, October 1, 2010

Breast Cancer Awareness Month!


Do your part to promote Breast Cancer Awareness Month. Cancer affects so many people and we can do our part to help out in this area. Donate, do self checks and spread the word. The more people we get talking about it the more we will help. We have created a sexy challenge to help out also so check it out at the link below and save the TA TA's.

Wednesday, September 29, 2010

The drums have it.


Next time it is time to get a little frisky try to find a drum beat that is a little tribal. Pick out something from Hawaii or Africa and let your imagination run wild while you enjoy the rhythmic beat of the drums and let your love making get in tune with the beats. You might just find it a spiritual practice in itself.

Thursday, September 23, 2010

Romance has tempos


Your romance can have a tempo just like music. It can be fast and upbeat or slow and sweet. Just like music you need to mix it up a bit. Somedays you want the fast upbeat type of romance. Dancing, laughing, being silly are examples of what I consider upbeat type of romance interactions. On the days you prefer slow and sweet romance, I would suggest snuggling watching movies or having a candle lit dinner. You then also have the wide range in between the two. So your romance should never hit the boring aspect of life. Keep mixing it up and don't stop being romantic what ever tempo you decide on today.

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Don't forget to have quite time.


We spend so much time talking and learning about each other that sometimes we forget that just being present with each other is a blessing in itself. Enjoying that quiet time with each other just laying next to your love or lightly touching each other is a wonderful way to relax and enjoy each other without having to worry about bring up something interesting or new. You can just be together and soak up each others energy without saying a word. Sometimes this is just what the doctor ordered on those days that seem a little harder that others. Try it sometime don't speak just relax and enjoy and feel your partners presence.

Saturday, September 18, 2010

Sometimes a little self starting helps the cause.


Sometimes you might not be quite in the mood to make a little love with you partner. You can see it in their eyes and you want to, yet your not quite in the mood. When this happens take a minute and give yourself some time. Head into the bathroom or a private area where you can start to stimulate yourself. Ladies loosen up that clitoris and men stroke yourself until you are starting to get hard. Your partner doesn't have to know you have done this but they will be the one reaping the rewards of it. Sometimes you just have to prime the engine a little bit and get yourself to that place so that you are ready.

Sunday, September 12, 2010

Tension Build up


Tension is a great cause of relationship problems and the tension might not be from something you have done. Believe it or not the tension might be from work, children, or a number of other sources. However it allows you a great way to show compassion and care for you lover. When you notice this tension building up it is your time to act. Have you partner sit in front of you and massage their neck and shoulders. This area is a major holder of tension and can cause headaches as well as other problems. You might not be able to relieve all the tension but the effort and the concern you show for you partner will go a long way. Never miss a chance to enjoy touching your partner even if it is an attempt to make them feel better. This type of touch is not only great for them but it is beneficial for you also.

Saturday, September 11, 2010

Use your tongue more often.


The tongue is one of your greatest allis in the sexual revolution. Most people avoid the use of the tongue and use it only for kissing. Those poor poor people. Our tongue is one of our greatest muscles and should be treated like it an exercised. A strong tongue is a plus for performing oral sex and it quickly improves when you exercise it. There are several ways to exercise it. Just moving it in and out of your mouth or wiggling it helps improve you control of it. Having oral sex more often also is a work out for you tongue. Don't think that you tongue however is just for you partners pleasure. Your tongue is so sensitive to taste and feel that you can get enjoyment out of it also. Taste your partner get to know them in that manner, lick different areas of their body and taste the difference. Along the same lines feel the difference in the skin on different areas with your tongue you will soon find that this is erotic for both of you.

Thursday, September 9, 2010

Do the hokey pokey????


Last night we did a wonderful thing with our 3 year old. We jumped up in the middle of the living room and did the hokey pokey. It was sweet and innocent and the highlight of both our day. It is amazing the fun our little man had seeing mommy and daddy actually doing the hokey pokey. It went much deeper that that however. Not only did we have fun with our son but we also showed him what a parent should be doing. His little brain is going to save that information up and one day he will jump up and do the hokey pokey with his kids. I thank my lucky stars for the woman in my life because she is on the same page with me and wants to show our kids what being a parent is all about. If you look at the statistics most parents that have problems had parents that had problems also. So our kids learn from us, so if you are not the best parent look deep in your soul then ask for help. Attend classes, read books, and break that cycles of how your parents treated you. Because there is nothing more wonderful then watching you partner play and enjoy your children.

Tuesday, September 7, 2010

Experience small towns.


Another great and fun thing to do is to get out and experience small towns. Not just drive through them get out and walk around their main drags. Get to feel how they feel as they you walk and talk with them. Experience the small places to eat and the local shopping. Don't under estimate the feels of welcome that a small town has to offer. When picking a place you might look for towns with a college and enjoy their campus also. This is a great way to get to know the lay of the land and maybe find some new places you might want to return to some day. Look for walking trails the weave through the city and get you places out of the way. Then enjoy all the sights hand in hand and heart in heart.

Friday, September 3, 2010

text each other while sitting next to each other.


A fun thing to do and open up lines of communication is to text each other while sitting next to each other. Be a little flirty and don't use spoken words. Go back and forth and get a racy little conversation started. Before you know it you both will be dropping your phones and attacking each other. Plus it makes you feel young. Start learning the abbreviations now so you can save time later for this fun activity.

Saturday, August 28, 2010

Strong love is give and take.


When you have strong love in your relationship. You understand the balance of give and take. You know that for every thing you take you must replace an item into your relationship. For example if you need time to yourself you need to put that time back into your relationship later by doing something special for your partner. Say for example that your partner takes the kids out to play because you are feeling stressed with the noise in the house, later you need to repay this kindness to your partner with something they would truly enjoy. Maybe it could be a back rub or an intimate evening saying thank you. This balance is important in your relationship as well as your life. Keeping this balance will keep your relationship healthy and strong for your entire lifetime.

Saturday, August 21, 2010

Love is what you make of it.


Love is a many splendid thing and it means so many different things to so many people. I think the one thing we miss is that love is everything. It isn't just romantic love, or passionate love it is all around us everyday. So put love into everything you do and you will get so much more out of life.

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

Appreciate the fact you lover is working hard.


Sometimes we all have to put in extra time at work. Maybe you work has a busy season or you are working on beating a dead line. When we are in a relationship we need to understand and appreciate our lover for going the extra mile. Having a job to support a relationship is a wonderful way to say I care about this love we have. Putting effort into work, as long as it isn't over the top, shows commitment that you want in your relationship also. When you know these times are coming for your lover then make it easier on them by understanding and making the best of it. If you partner has to work late, stay and and wait for them to come home and meet them at the door with a kiss. If they are working from home make sure all it quiet for them to get the most out of their time. Ask for a break for the two of you to get some time together. Set a time limit on it so as not to delay the work getting done. Lastly reward you partners hard work. If they are fighting to meet a deadline, then give them incentive. Tell them when the project is done you will make mad passionate love to them, or plan a romantic weekend away. Show your partner that they are loved and you appreciate the hard work they put into your relationship and their job as well.

Thursday, August 12, 2010

Keep a little stash in your drawer.


One thing that every couple needs is a little stash in their drawer. I am not talking about drugs here I am referring to some sexual aids. You need to keep a drawer full of sexy items such as lubes, vibrators, cock rings, etc. Make sure you keep the drawer close by so that you can have easy access to the items as the mood hits. Make sure the drawer is only accessible by the two of you. The last thing you want is your small children running around the house carrying a vibrator when grandma comes over. So find a way to lock your drawer and to your pleasure items.

Monday, July 12, 2010

Play the Newlywed Game


Do you remember the old game show the Newlywed Game? If not the premise of the show was to see how much each couple new about each other. They were awarded point for each right answer and then the couple with the most points won, usually a trip somewhere. Now I am sure you cannot offer yourself a trip but it is fun to see how much you know about each other. Sit down sometime and write out questions to ask your partner. Have you partner do the same then exchange the papers and write down your answers to each question. Then together go over each question and see if your partner can pick which answer to gave. Make the question multiple choice to see if your thoughts are lining up. Have some good laughs and learn about your partner who knows maybe one day these will actually help you win a trip.

Sample Question Might be :
Which superhero does your partner remind you of, A-Superman, B-Batman, or C-Super Chicken

Actually there are several versions of the newlywed game you can click on our amazon sidebar and pick up a copy if you don't want to write out your own questions.

Friday, July 9, 2010

Shopping together can be fun.


Most couples hate going shopping together. Can you see the images of one partner holding the bags while the other one tries on a hundred different outfits. Maybe its the other way around and one partner wants to go to the power tool store and spends hours looking a drills. The good thing about shopping is it can give the two of you some time out together. You usually have to have lunch out which is a good thing for the two of you to share. My suggestion for the other stuff that drives us nuts is to set time limits before you enter a store set a time limit. Mark you watches and the other person just has to bear it for that section of time. Then when the time is up you go to the other person store with the same time restraints. This way both of you get the same feelings and the same amount of time looking at what you want. Another option is to split up and then make it a game to find each other. Send clues via text messages to each other as to where you are, this can be a fun way to enjoy your shopping a little more. Lastly find some things that interest you both. Maybe a store that carries items for you home or on that carries intimate apparel that way you end on common ground. With a little work and imagination shopping can be fun for both parties.

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Random acts of Couples Kindness


Most of you have probably heard of Random Acts of Kindness (RAK). Why not put some RAK into our relationships. You can do the normal simple things like bringing home flowers or kissing at special times. However, I want you to think a little outside the box and see what happens. Here is one I like to do. You know how good it makes you feel when you find money in your pockets you didn't know was there. Well use that for you RAK find our what your partner is going to wear that day and while they are in the shower or eating breakfast slip a five or ten in the pocket of those clothes. Watch their reaction as they find it, you have just started their day in a good way. Another great thing to do is take their car and get it washed or fill it up with gas, without them knowing. Whatever you do don't let them know and plead the 5th when they question you about it.

Saturday, June 5, 2010

Ladies give in a do some guy things!


Ladies want to do something romantic for you partner? Try doing some quote guy things with him. I know in this day and age that sounds a little out of place. There are however things that men seem to prefer on average than women. On of the biggest ones is sports. Try to enjoy a game with him be it at home or if you can secure tickets to a game even better. Make it a date but use it more as a friendship building activity. Cheer, laugh and have a good time weather you are at home or at the game try to get into it. Ask him questions to try to understand the game if you don't but not to many questions as you don't want to turn in into a class. What if you guy doesn't like sports? Well then watch and see what activities he enjoys with his friends and ask him sometime to let you enjoy it with him. Maybe he like photography, if so go with him and let him show you how to take wonderful pictures. No matter what things he likes to do try it out it doesn't mean you have to do it all the time with him but make the effort to understand it. When we think about romance we most often think of kissing and dating. Finding common interests is a very romantic and can build a relationship or make it stronger in a hurray.