Keep a little stash in your drawer.

One thing that every couple needs is a little stash in their drawer. I am not talking about drugs here I am referring to some sexual aids. You need to keep a drawer full of sexy items such as lubes, vibrators, cock rings, etc. Make sure you keep the drawer close by so that you can have easy access to the items as the mood hits. Make sure the drawer is only accessible by the two of you. The last thing you want is your small children running around the house carrying a vibrator when grandma comes over. So find a way to lock your drawer and to your pleasure items.

Can Video Games be Romantic?

I am sure that sitting around playing video games isn't your idea of a great evening with your lover. However it can be very enjoyable if you are both on the same skill level. If the competition doesn't cause fights and you get to spar with each other then the games can release some tension that is built up in one or the other of you. I am curious do they have games for lovers, I mean we have board games that promote intimacy and passion, why not a video game. I would love to hear about any out there so if you make or have any let me know I would love to review or see how they work. This gets me thinking about the Nintendo Wii and the many applications that you would have with the motion controllers! :-) I remember hearing about a game that was hooked up to a vibrator many years ago but I am now curious as to if we have any for the Wii. Checking the internet all I find is videos for a game about rhythmic spanking with only audio and no video. Come on video game makers don't you see the amazing market for a product that will not only let us play video games but let us have sex with it as well. Great I have just inspired someone to make our lives even lazier. It still would be fun though.

Don't be afraid of Vibrators.

I think in today's society most people understand that sex toys are an aid to a better sex life. However their are still some of you out there that think a vibrator is a replacement for a penis. Silly men, while a vibrator helps women achieve orgasm you do not see women going around marring vibrators. You should embrace her when she decides that a little extra excitement in the bedroom is a good idea. Using a vibrator will help her relax and helps get her ready for sex with you. Most women need clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm so a vibrator can be a man's best friend. You may be scratching you head but think about it. If a woman can reach her climax she is most likely going to make sure you reach yours. Just as men enjoy being stimulated visually a woman needs foreplay to get stimulated in most cases. As always there are exceptions but the averages follow this mold.

If you are still scared here is some more things to make you feel better about having a vibrator in your relationship. Vibrators don't hold her after sex, vibrators don't call out her name when they are cumming, vibrators don't work by themselves, vibrators don't swell as they get excited, and finally when she wants dirty talk all a vibrator can do is hum. So get out there today and if she doesn't have a vibrator already, order one. I have put a link to Good Vibrations in the title post that has a wide variety of simulators for women. Hey don't feel left out they have some for men, too.

Pictured above is the laya vibrator available at good vibrations. Make sure to check out all their products I am sure you can find something for both of you there.