Pictures of the both of you.

The one thing I think all couples should do is get their picture taken together. I don't mean to go out and get a setting down with a professional photographer. I am talking about pictures of the two of you doing the thing in life that are fun to you. Vacations, cookouts, or just when you are being silly hand your camera over to someone and ask them to take your picture. These are the pictures you want to hang up around your house. These pictures so love and affection for each other and give you that feel good feeling you need as you glance at them. Plus viewing them makes you want to go out and have more fun together. Document your relationship and start taking pictures today.

Use your tongue more often.

The tongue is one of your greatest allis in the sexual revolution. Most people avoid the use of the tongue and use it only for kissing. Those poor poor people. Our tongue is one of our greatest muscles and should be treated like it an exercised. A strong tongue is a plus for performing oral sex and it quickly improves when you exercise it. There are several ways to exercise it. Just moving it in and out of your mouth or wiggling it helps improve you control of it. Having oral sex more often also is a work out for you tongue. Don't think that you tongue however is just for you partners pleasure. Your tongue is so sensitive to taste and feel that you can get enjoyment out of it also. Taste your partner get to know them in that manner, lick different areas of their body and taste the difference. Along the same lines feel the difference in the skin on different areas with your tongue you will soon find that this is erotic for both of you.

The good morning kiss

So often in our rush to get up for work and get ready we miss on of the most special times of the day. The good morning kiss, is an action that can turn the day around right from the start. It is not a passionate kiss but a little peck on the lips or check. The good morning kiss, gives us the feeling of love right from the start of the day. When we feel loved, we are more confident and passionate about everything we do. Now the next time the alarm wakes you to confront your day, make sure to lean over and kiss the person that brings love into your life. Not only will it start your day of by doing something nice but it might just make your partners day a great one.

Does wearing something sexy to bed mean anything?

We a woman wears something sexy to bed does it mean anything? Here is my take on it, if she does it all the time then, no. Wearing sexy things to bed when they always do just means they want to feel beautiful when they are sleeping. Maybe they want you to notice them all the time but not in a sexual way. It might also just make them feel good. Now if they usually wear sweats and a t-shirt to bed and all of the sudden they are wearing lingerie that make them look like a supper model then maybe just maybe they are wanting more then sleep. If they parade around in front of you in it then the possibility becomes higher. Sexy lingerie doesn't automatically mean that intimacy is looming but it is a pretty good hint. Talk to your partner about it and get their feelings. Maybe they just feel different or want to wear something cooler, don't jump to conclusions. Ease into being sexy and judge their reaction if it is open then you can dive into the beautiful vision in front of you. If your advances are not met with such wonderful joy then back off and let it go. Play a little hard to get on your own and see what happens. Maybe just maybe laying in bed your partner might just have a change of heart and come out to coax you back to bed.

Mondays are tough enough.

Monday morning for most people mean back to work blahs. Not many people are thinking about romance on Monday mornings when the alarm goes off. Well it is time for you to help out your partner shake those Monday morning blahs. Make sure they get their week off to a good start by strategically placing items to boost their feelings around. Maybe a little love note on the bathroom mirror. You could pack a special lunch for them writing I love you on a something inside. No matter what you do the point will be for them to take a little love along with them on the wonderful day we call Monday. You could even send them a text message at lunch letting them know that Monday is half over. Anything you can think of to get a little smile from them would work. Make Monday night an early date night or movie night something to spice it up a little so that you are looking forward to it rather than dreading it. Being romantic isn't always about both of you sometimes it is just about brightening someones Monday.

Today is a great day to have sex!

We so often put things off and sex is one of the most put off things in a relationship. Why? It can make you feel good and can help you sleep better when done on a regular basis. There are also chemicals released during sex that helps your body feel better. The old adage of "Not tonight I have a headache" is so sill being that it is proven the sex and help improve headaches. There are so many studies on the benefits of sex that I don't understand the reason people avoid it. Today is the day to start improving not only your relationship but your health also.

Feeling needed!

A wonderful feeling that accompanies romance is the feeling of being needed or helpful. Have you even felt this emotion? It can bring your soul up from the depths of dispare and make you feel like an important part of life. Now how can we work this feeling into romance? Thing about it can you make your partner feel needed, are there things in your life that it would be helpful if your partner participated in them. We all have a power struggle that makes us want to take care of everything yourself. Maybe you could ask your partner to help you do your taxes, or help you figure out the best exercises to be doing. The point of these things is to make them feel like not only you want them but that you need them in your life. There is not a single soul out there that doesn't like to know that they are needed. What better person in your life to express that to you than you partner. Sure both of you could live without the other person that is not the point and we don't want you to give up your Independence. We just want you to show your partner that they are important to you and not just an accessory in your life.

Who is the most romantic in your relationship.

Our readers seem to be the dominant partner as to who is the most romantic. 66% of your readers consider themselves as the most romantic in their relationship. This tells me that they are on the net looking for more ways to be romantic. For those of us that feel romance is very important the quest never ends. Because there is no one thing that will always be romantic at all the time. The only advice I can give you on this topic is keep it up, I am proud of your.

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Work!

When you and your partner perform a task together that benefits both of you should reward your partner in some way or other. Take them to dinner, massage their back, or simple put make them feel really good.

Don't be afraid of Vibrators.

I think in today's society most people understand that sex toys are an aid to a better sex life. However their are still some of you out there that think a vibrator is a replacement for a penis. Silly men, while a vibrator helps women achieve orgasm you do not see women going around marring vibrators. You should embrace her when she decides that a little extra excitement in the bedroom is a good idea. Using a vibrator will help her relax and helps get her ready for sex with you. Most women need clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm so a vibrator can be a man's best friend. You may be scratching you head but think about it. If a woman can reach her climax she is most likely going to make sure you reach yours. Just as men enjoy being stimulated visually a woman needs foreplay to get stimulated in most cases. As always there are exceptions but the averages follow this mold.

If you are still scared here is some more things to make you feel better about having a vibrator in your relationship. Vibrators don't hold her after sex, vibrators don't call out her name when they are cumming, vibrators don't work by themselves, vibrators don't swell as they get excited, and finally when she wants dirty talk all a vibrator can do is hum. So get out there today and if she doesn't have a vibrator already, order one. I have put a link to Good Vibrations in the title post that has a wide variety of simulators for women. Hey don't feel left out they have some for men, too.

Pictured above is the laya vibrator available at good vibrations. Make sure to check out all their products I am sure you can find something for both of you there.

Stand behind each other Naked!

Laying in bed together we have a normal feeling about each other. We reach over and caress our partner, kiss them, and look in their eyes. Well today I want you to get behind them. No, not stand up for their cause. I want you both to get buck naked and take turns standing behind each other and feeling the others body. Push your chest into their back and run your hands around their chest. Reach down and feel the muscles in their legs. Touch their lips and face from this positions. Then finally reach down and feel their genitals. Doesn't' it feel a lot different from the normal facing each other way.

If you are comfortable with your images you might even do this in front of a mirror. So the person in front can see your hands exploring your body in a different way. Kiss the back of their neck while you perform this exploration and rub your face over their back. When you are the one in front you will find sensations feel a little different when you are not face to face. Trusting your partner to feel your body in this way might help you become closer and spark some feeling that might have been hidden for a while.

Ladies make sure to use your breasts and rub them against your partner in places that you would not have thought about when standing in front of them. Like on their butts or the back of their legs. Men use your penis and rub it around your partners butt or on the outside of their hips. Both of you can preform a reach around on the other. Ladies you can really get the feel of how a man masturbates in this position and vice versa. Men you can maybe get a better feel at stimulating your partner at the angel in which they do it.

Experience each others touch and you can't go wrong. If you are self conscious of your body image, simply turn off the lights and feel the touch.

Confidence, confidence, confidence!

Guys here is a secret that woman want you to know. They love it when you have confidence in yourself. They love it when you make decisions and have the air about you. Now don't take this over the top. Today's woman doesn't want a caveman beating her over the head. She does however want you to speak up and tell what's on your mind. Believe me it saves so much time when you are on a date. You know how you spend several minutes going "What do you want to do", "I don't know what do you want to do" Instead of doing this just blurt out a suggestion and go from there. Believe me if she doesn't want to do what you suggest, she will tell you.

Confidence in the bedroom is also a big turn on. Try different thing and let her tell you if she likes them or not. The problems arises when you ask her what she wants. If she tells you something then she has to wonder how you are gonna view her based on this. Play around a little and as your relationship progresses the communication can and should get better. Never assume your partner is going to just yell out what they want. It doesn't work that way. Believe me sometimes you both want the same things but both are afraid to start the ball rolling. My wife and I had one of these moments just a few weeks ago. We did something a little different then we usually do. Then in discussing it later we found out we both have wanted to try it for a while now but were afraid to ask.

Confidence is a big boost even if you fail, with confidence on your side at least you tried. Confidence makes you stand up taller, look better, feel better, and sexier!!! So get confident today. If you need assistance you might look for some assertiveness training to help you out. It can be a big change for a person and might take some time to accomplish. So don't delay get confident today.

Lather her with riches. (Click here to find luxury soaps)

During one of your shopping sprees take some time to find a really high quality soap. Not your normal soaps you pick up at the local discount store. Find the ones that might be a lot higher in price but are suppose to be excellent for you skin. I have added a link at the top of the page that might help you out. Present her with the high end soap before her next bath or shower. Tell her that you want only the best to be placed on her body. After she showers make sure to take some time to caress her skin and tell her how great it feels. Nothing makes a woman feel more special then pampering her a little bit. Experiment a little and find out what she like and dislikes for future purchases.

Some words of warning make sure not to pick up something she might be allergic to, that will really kill the thought. Don't be afraid to ask a sales person to help sometimes as a man we don't particular think the same when we pick out soaps as our partner does. A woman's input will help you out.