Showing posts with label stimulation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label stimulation. Show all posts

Saturday, September 18, 2010

Sometimes a little self starting helps the cause.


Sometimes you might not be quite in the mood to make a little love with you partner. You can see it in their eyes and you want to, yet your not quite in the mood. When this happens take a minute and give yourself some time. Head into the bathroom or a private area where you can start to stimulate yourself. Ladies loosen up that clitoris and men stroke yourself until you are starting to get hard. Your partner doesn't have to know you have done this but they will be the one reaping the rewards of it. Sometimes you just have to prime the engine a little bit and get yourself to that place so that you are ready.

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Forget about improving your size and think about your technique.


Gentlemen, you need to forget about wonder drugs that are going to make your penis larger and thicker. Most of these products are just gimmicks to get your money because everyone wants a larger penis. Instead of spending money on something that is made to boost your ego, why not put the money towards a better way of satisfying your partner. Pick up a book on love making techniques or positions. Learning new and exciting ways to pleasure your partner is a far better way to go about improving your relationship then trying to make your penis larger. Studies confirm that most women don't have vaginal orgasms. This tells us that a larger penis is not going to do the trick. Clitoral stimulation is the way to approach improvement in the bedroom. Learn all you can about this little pleasure button and to get the best results go to the source. Ask your partner what they like and let them guide you to a better and more fulfilling love life. You can learn a lot by watching her masturbate if she will let you, study her strokes and the pressure that she puts on areas.

Another great way to spend this money you are saving by not purchasing the incredible penis enlargement cream, is to spend the money going out and having fun. I will be the first person to tell you that if you can go out and have fun the chances of getting it on when you get home are a whole lot better.

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Olive Oil - the wonder oil.


We so often focus on the mind and body when we want to increase passion in our life. Sometimes we forget that what we put into our bodies also has a effect on the outcome. Olive Oil is one of the items that we can put into our body that will benefit our passion. Olive Oil helps our blood flow better which leads to better erections and genital stimulation in both male and female partners. Consuming Olive Oil also helps your overall health, which in turn helps your passion thrive. Think about it, if you feel better, you are going to want to do things you might not other wise. When picking an Olive Oil search for the virgin or extra virgin varieties as they have more of the items in them that are good for you. This might seem a little weird but you can also use Olive Oil as a lubricant. Many people swear by this practice and claim that the natural ingredients are much better then the ones that are made in the lab. You can also use the Olive Oil as a massage oil and it is great for your skin and hair. Just make sure to either cover your sheets or use ones that you don't care if they get stained. Now the next time you are in the store tell your partner you want to pick up something that will help improve your romance. Then watch their reactions as you head to the cooking oils section.

Thursday, January 28, 2010

Anal stimulation good for both of you.


His and Hers


When we talk about playing with our butts everyone seems to shy away a little bit, but why? The nerve endings in the anus are some of the most sensitive ones in our body. If you have ever tried stimulating this area you have most likely found it to be very pleasurable and that goes for men and women. You don't even have to penetrate to get the sensation just touching around the anus can send your feelings to a new level. So many people have admitted that stimulating the area around the anus makes for more powerful orgasms that you should be curious to try it at the very least. Everyone is different and it won't be for everyone but the majority of people who have tried it find that they like it quite a bit. For men getting over the homophobic aspect seems to be the main concern. Homosexual refers to your taste in partners not in your taste in feelings! You are homosexual if you prefer partners of the same sex. Now get over it and let your partner play with your bum a little. Most women find that playing with their partner in this way is exciting. Many manufactures make products for anal simulations, which leads us to believe that their are several hundreds of thousands of you out there enjoying this activity. The wonderful thing about it is that no matter your sex we all have an anus, so this is the one area that in common ground for both men and women. Take it slow at first and see what you like always have lots of lube on hand to be safe and don't be afraid to use plenty. Men this is also a great way to enjoy a milking of your prostate and can be not only feeling good but good for your health as well. Some word of caution as you get ready to try some anal play never use anything that doesn't have a flared base on the end and know what your toy is made out of use only non-pourus items that you can boil to clean. Have fun.

Monday, January 11, 2010

The Neck as an Erogenous Zone.


During foreplay we all focus on the parts we know will get our partner's engine running. Breasts, genitals, anus, and lips are great erogenous zones to focus on but they should come at a later time, closer to the actual love making. The neck my not seem sexy on the surface but it can be quite the erogenous zone if you stroke it just right. One of the best parts about the neck is that you can start on it without having to remove any clothing. If you partner has shorter hair the neck might already be exposed totally. Hair is easily pushed to the side to allow access to the neck. The neck is quick to send messages down the spinal column because it is so close. Light kissing on the neck can lead to some pretty quick shivers. All the areas of the neck are susceptible to the erogenous play. Most people claim the back of the neck to be the most sensitive and light kissing and touching drives their partner over the edge. Kissing the front of the neck might take a little more tender loving care but it also can contribute to those shivers we desire to feel. When kissing the front or sides of the neck you are in position to continue down the body with kisses. However kissing the back of the neck can lead you to several wonderful and playful positions to get into. While kissing from the back your hands will be free to roam the other erogenous zones on the front of the body allowing for double the sensation. Use your imagination and let your hands be a big part of this neck kissing. Actually let your hands be an extension of your lips as you continue to work the neck over. Everyone is different and you might find someone that isn't as fond of kisses on their neck so be advised not to push it if they are not receptive.

Saturday, June 20, 2009

Don't be afraid of Vibrators.


I think in today's society most people understand that sex toys are an aid to a better sex life. However their are still some of you out there that think a vibrator is a replacement for a penis. Silly men, while a vibrator helps women achieve orgasm you do not see women going around marring vibrators. You should embrace her when she decides that a little extra excitement in the bedroom is a good idea. Using a vibrator will help her relax and helps get her ready for sex with you. Most women need clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm so a vibrator can be a man's best friend. You may be scratching you head but think about it. If a woman can reach her climax she is most likely going to make sure you reach yours. Just as men enjoy being stimulated visually a woman needs foreplay to get stimulated in most cases. As always there are exceptions but the averages follow this mold.


If you are still scared here is some more things to make you feel better about having a vibrator in your relationship. Vibrators don't hold her after sex, vibrators don't call out her name when they are cumming, vibrators don't work by themselves, vibrators don't swell as they get excited, and finally when she wants dirty talk all a vibrator can do is hum. So get out there today and if she doesn't have a vibrator already, order one. I have put a link to Good Vibrations in the title post that has a wide variety of simulators for women. Hey don't feel left out they have some for men, too.

Pictured above is the laya vibrator available at good vibrations. Make sure to check out all their products I am sure you can find something for both of you there.