Do something to get your lovers attention.

Today is a great day to do something to get your lovers attention. Well everyday is a good day for this, but today we are going to do it a little more wild. We are going to make them have to touch you in places that we hope will spark a little more intimate touching later. What you need to do is get a personal item of theirs that you know they will need. Such as their car keys, purse, or even the clothes they are getting ready to put on are good items to start with. Next you are going to place these items near a place on your body that would be a little more intimate to touch. For instance you could have the remote to the television tucked between your legs near you crotch area. Then when they need the item make them come and get it. When their hand reaches for the item make sure to move so that they have to touch you in the intimate area and see how they react to that. Men you can put things in your front pockets and make your partner dig for the item hopefully hitting all the right areas. Ladies you can put money in your bra for when you partner asks for a little cash, go ahead and let them search around your bra for it. Hold thing behind your back and make them have to reach around you to get it then wrap them up in a hug as they do. The possibilities are endless to be creative like the picture above you might be able to get your partner to switch their beer to buttwiser. Sorry couldn't resist the joke. Have fun and get it on.

Displaced Kiss

Today's Romantic tip is to kiss a place on your partners body that you don't usually kiss. See what kind of reaction you get from your lover, did you hit an erogenous zone or maybe just the fact you did something a little out of the norm might be a turn on. Kiss the palm of your partners hand, or his/her elbow or maybe even his/her knee. If you have the good fortune of being naked with them, then it opens up a whole bunch of areas to be kissed. The feet and toes are often a feel good spot for kisses as well as the joint areas such as the back of the knee or the area where you arm bends. During sex we focus on the genitals but what about the area above that where our pubic hair grows how about planting some kisses there? Make it a point to eventually kiss your partner on every inch of his/her body. You might just find a few hot spots that you were unaware of.

Exploring bodies

Intimacy is one of the best parts about being in love with someone. Sometimes however we quickly advance to the sexual part of intimacy without taking out time to explore our senses and bodies. Next time the two of you have the time or are getting ready to enjoy an evening of love making, I want you to spend some time enjoying each others body. Leave the lights on or put some candle light in the room and take turns even just looking at each others body. One of you lay down completely naked and let the other one go over your body. Checking out each delicate inch of our skin. Don't just focus on the genitals really look over their body making notes on things like birth marks or freckles. Kiss and touch your way around their body find out if maybe you are missing the any erogenous zones. Let them know constantly how beautiful they are and how much you enjoy their body. Set a time limit and then when the time is up switch and let them explore you body. No spots are off limits in this exploration, trust in your partner and let them have free range over you body. You might just find it an activity you can enjoy over and over.

The Neck as an Erogenous Zone.

During foreplay we all focus on the parts we know will get our partner's engine running. Breasts, genitals, anus, and lips are great erogenous zones to focus on but they should come at a later time, closer to the actual love making. The neck my not seem sexy on the surface but it can be quite the erogenous zone if you stroke it just right. One of the best parts about the neck is that you can start on it without having to remove any clothing. If you partner has shorter hair the neck might already be exposed totally. Hair is easily pushed to the side to allow access to the neck. The neck is quick to send messages down the spinal column because it is so close. Light kissing on the neck can lead to some pretty quick shivers. All the areas of the neck are susceptible to the erogenous play. Most people claim the back of the neck to be the most sensitive and light kissing and touching drives their partner over the edge. Kissing the front of the neck might take a little more tender loving care but it also can contribute to those shivers we desire to feel. When kissing the front or sides of the neck you are in position to continue down the body with kisses. However kissing the back of the neck can lead you to several wonderful and playful positions to get into. While kissing from the back your hands will be free to roam the other erogenous zones on the front of the body allowing for double the sensation. Use your imagination and let your hands be a big part of this neck kissing. Actually let your hands be an extension of your lips as you continue to work the neck over. Everyone is different and you might find someone that isn't as fond of kisses on their neck so be advised not to push it if they are not receptive.