Showing posts with label notes. Show all posts
Showing posts with label notes. Show all posts

Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Set up a special email account.


Today with the ease of getting an email account you can quickly set up a special one. this email account will be a direct link between the two of you. You will only use this account to send special messages back and froth between the two of you. Treat it like a love line and only send messages of love and desire. Don't use this account to ask whats for supper or how are the kids. This email account is for you both to express your deepest love and passion for each other. Don't abuse this account but at least every three days drop a note to your love into it. You soon will find yourself anxiously checking your account to see how much your partner loves you.

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Check out those Victoria Secret Catalogs.


If you have ever ordered anything from Victoria's Secret you now most likely get a catalog in the mail regularly. Both women and men enjoy looking through the glossy pages of sexy and well crafted clothing. Here is something you can do to make your female partner know you are thinking about them instead of just drooling over the models. Take a marker and circle the items you find sexy. Then out to the side write things like, "You would look great in this!" or "I couldn't keep my hands off you if you were wearing this" Who knows maybe you will get a surprise later or your partner will order the sexy item to share with you later. You can do the same thing with the men's catalogs you get or even catalogs from you favorite sex toy store. I bet you never thought a catalog could bring your relationship closer! Time to start flipping through the pages.

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

The obvious drop.


We have all seen the old time movies where the woman would drop her handkerchief so the gentleman would pick it up. Thus allowing them to strike up a conversation. This is a pretty cheesy way to meet someone and I don't know if it ever really worked but we can use this tactic to our advantage. Write a small note about how you feel about your partner, then wad it up tight and put it in your pocket. Then when you partner is around let is slip out, act like you didn't see or feel it slip out and walk away from it. You partner will be curious and venture over to pick the note up. We are all a little nosey so I am sure you partner will open up the paper to see what it on it. Imagine his/her surprise when they read the wonderful things about them on the paper you have intentionally planted.

Saturday, May 22, 2010

Steamy Shower Notes


Here is a great little romantic way to surprise someone. Sneak into the bathroom while they are taking a nice hot shower and leave them a steamy message on the mirror. Tell them you love them, or they are cute. You might even make it a little sexy and write "Ditch the towel and come back to bed with me" Whatever you want to write that gets your feelings across is great. Think of it as texting your partner old school style.

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Exploring bodies


Intimacy is one of the best parts about being in love with someone. Sometimes however we quickly advance to the sexual part of intimacy without taking out time to explore our senses and bodies. Next time the two of you have the time or are getting ready to enjoy an evening of love making, I want you to spend some time enjoying each others body. Leave the lights on or put some candle light in the room and take turns even just looking at each others body. One of you lay down completely naked and let the other one go over your body. Checking out each delicate inch of our skin. Don't just focus on the genitals really look over their body making notes on things like birth marks or freckles. Kiss and touch your way around their body find out if maybe you are missing the any erogenous zones. Let them know constantly how beautiful they are and how much you enjoy their body. Set a time limit and then when the time is up switch and let them explore you body. No spots are off limits in this exploration, trust in your partner and let them have free range over you body. You might just find it an activity you can enjoy over and over.

Friday, April 30, 2010

Time to slip a note into a book.


Today your mission is to slip a note into a book your partner is reading. Get yourself a little post it note and carefully write a little sentiment on it. Something short and sweet like, "thinking about you", or "Wow, you are sexy when you are reading" Then find your lovers book and place it someplace ahead of where they are reading. Put it on a page that they won't get to right away and you might find yourself getting a kiss sometime later when you are not expecting it. This is one of those little things you can do to make everyday romantic.

Thursday, February 25, 2010

Being sexual without having sex.


I have heard it way to many times from couples. One partner is never in the mood as much as the other. With this problem we have to look a little deeper into our sexual being. You have to broaden your horizon on what constitutes sex. The partner that is desiring sex, shouldn't be left out in the cold just because the other partner doesn't have any desire on this day. The two of you need to work out some arrangements to meet both partners needs without either one of them feeling neglected or forced into anything. There are several forms of sex that one can perform on another without the actual sex happening between the two. Oral sex, hand jobs, and several other ways to get the person that desires the sex off is a great alternative. Masturbation is another get way to share without both of you having to participate fully. Let the partner who is urning for sex masturbate while the other partner watches and touches them. Make comments how how sexy it is and encourage them to talk also. The partner that is not in the mood might just change their mind as the event of masturbation is occurring. The in this point is to respect the other persons right to their feelings. Just because you are not in the mood doesn't mean that they have to not be in the mood also. With a little give and take you will soon find a happy place that makes both of you feel like your relationship is sexy and strong.

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Hide a note in their underpants.


A great way to let someone know that you care about them is to drop them a note from time to time. When you live with that person it becomes easier, as all you have to do is strategically place the note somewhere for them to find it. The best place in my opinion is in their underwear draw. You know they have to get in there at least once a day (at least we hope they get in there once a day). Most of the time they are getting in there while you are out of the room either getting ready yourself or already gone for the day. It is a great feeling to find a note left by your lover, it tells you that they care enough to plan out leaving this note, not to mention what they write upon the note. Put some thought into what you right, you can brighten your partners day with this simple yet meaningful action. If you have a favorite pair of underpants your partners wears you can even tape the note inside them so they won't see it until they begin to put them on. The simple words "YOU LOOK HOT IN THESE" would bring a smile to most peoples faces.

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Leave a special book mark.

Does your partner love to read? If so there is a great idea that will help you tell them you love them as the read along in their favorite book. All you need is a little post it note and a pen. Write or draw a little love note on the post it note. When you partner is not looking slip the sticky note onto a page that they have not read yet. Imagine their feelings when they find the note as they are just reading along. I am sure it will make them smile and feel all warm inside. It doesn't have to be something long just a short note to tell them you are thinking about them will do. The picture is a perfect example.

Thursday, July 2, 2009

Dig up some old love notes.


If you want to rekindle some romance, all you have to do is dig up some old love notes. You know the ones you might have written when you first started dating. It might sound silly but by doing this you refresh you mind as to the way you felt about your partner when you first fell for them. The notes might be sappy or corny but they will tell you how much you wanted to be with the person you are with. One problem might be that all your conversations were done via email. Well just today I dug up some old emails between my wife and myself. I never thought I would see them again but during our recent move they serviced again. Bringing back a lot of memories of the little things we have done together. Doing this will make you look at your partner as you did back then. Don't be surprised if you find yourself smiling at them a lot during the day, just make sure to share the notes with them so they can smile back.
Special thanks to Andrew Burgess for the picture from Creative Commons and Flickr

Sunday, April 26, 2009

Send her some Panties - (click here for a Panty of the Month Club)


If you relationship has reached an intimate level, here is a suggestion that might put more of the intimate into your relationship. I want you to get some sexy panties and send them via the mail to your partner. I know what you are thinking, "She will think I'm a stalker." Again this is not for a new relationship but one that is established. Hopefully if you are in an established relationship you have seen her in her panties. Make sure you get the size right and use a standard mailing envelope as it won't tip her off before she opens the surprise. Wait until she says something about the package, don't tip her off before she has a change to open this present. Don't be so excited that you ask her a hundred times "Did you get anything special in the mail?" If all works right, she should be showing you what she received in the mail and that will for sure put a smile on your face. You can include a small note if you like saying something cute like "I thought you would look good in these." or "These didn't fit me so I thought you might like them." Be witty and funny with your note and don't put any demands on the letter like "I want to see you in these tonight" Let her tell you all about her special package.

Now if your short on time or a little nervous purchasing women's underwear. Then you can use a mail order company and get the same results. There are many companies that will send your honey a pair of panties a month, and several of them you can personalize a note to be put inside the package. These sites usually present you panties in a very special way, but you pay for that. So if your budget is smaller do it yourself. I have put a link to a pantie of the month site in the title of this post. You can also go to Victoria's Secret to find some of the best panties made, believe me your special lady will love them and so will you.

Thursday, April 9, 2009

Start a Conversation!

We hear it all the time conversation is a key to any relationship. Well next time you are just hanging out with your partner start a conversation. This sounds really simple but the secret is to find a topic that is discussable not just "What cha doing". Go online, I suggest USA today online, you can get there by clicking on the title above. Pick something that interests you or you think might interest your partner. Then just bring it up in casual converstaion. You can do this at the dinner table or even in bed before you go to sleep. Good conversation is like good foreplay it enhances the mood and improves the total of the relationship. Just remember that opinions are different for everyone so understand that and make it a point to try to find out why your partner feels the way they do about a subject.

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Sunday, March 22, 2009

Notes

A great way to let your special someone know you care is to drop them little hints from time to time. In this day and age there are so many ways you can do this. I will go over a few with you now.
First of all, there is the classic note written on a piece of paper and put somewhere for your love to find later. The places you can leave these notes are limitless. You can put the note in his/her underwear drawer, on the mirror while he/she is taking a shower, in his/her briefcase, in the pocket of his/her pants, on his/her soda can in the fridge, or if he/she does the laundry put it in the dryer. I could go on and on, but I think you get the picture. You always want to make sure he/she gets the note when you're not around. Not only does this add to your romantic status, but it gets your partner thinking about you when he/she might not normally be. The basic notes are great. You can use a regular sheet of paper or one of my favorites is to use post-it notes. They are just big enough, and can stick to those things that might not be normal in size.
As I mentioned above, in this day and age there are a multitude of ways to get someone a note. With your computer you can email that special person your sentiments or you can get online and find some companies that have special egreeting cards. Yes, some of them you have to pay for, but if you really hunt you can find free ones. If your love uses the computer at home, you can just open up a Word page and type your message. Leave it open. Your note will be displayed when that special someone first moves the mouse. Computers, along with the Internet, have an unlimited supply of ways to send messages. So don't be shy - get online.
When I think of all the advances in technology the one that I think is best for sending little notes to your love is the cell phone. For starters you always have it with you and it is quick and simple to use. You can even use the voice mail feature and leave your love a voice recording telling them how special he/she is. However, my favorite feature of the cell phone is the texting option. You just type in your message, send and bam your love is reading the message no matter where he/she is. You can send steamy messages when he/she is in a board meeting, knowing he/she probably cannot answer at that moment, but you can almost feel the smile gracing his/her face as he/she reads your message. Texting can also let you note back and forth with replies, which can lead to a virtual game of tag.
No matter which way you love to do your notes, the underlying messeage is the same. You are trying to make someone feel special! Email us with the interesting ways you get your point across to your loved one. We would love to hear them.