Does Money Have A Strangle Hold On You?

We have had money battles for years.  Worrying about how we were going to have enough to pay the bills, and living paycheck to paycheck.  Well we have found something powerful!  Unlike most things that promise amazing results with little work, this process is based on how much work you put into it.  However the work is not hard, can you blog? or make a video?  Then you have the tools to start your process.

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Send her some Panties - (click here for a Panty of the Month Club)

If you relationship has reached an intimate level, here is a suggestion that might put more of the intimate into your relationship. I want you to get some sexy panties and send them via the mail to your partner. I know what you are thinking, "She will think I'm a stalker." Again this is not for a new relationship but one that is established. Hopefully if you are in an established relationship you have seen her in her panties. Make sure you get the size right and use a standard mailing envelope as it won't tip her off before she opens the surprise. Wait until she says something about the package, don't tip her off before she has a change to open this present. Don't be so excited that you ask her a hundred times "Did you get anything special in the mail?" If all works right, she should be showing you what she received in the mail and that will for sure put a smile on your face. You can include a small note if you like saying something cute like "I thought you would look good in these." or "These didn't fit me so I thought you might like them." Be witty and funny with your note and don't put any demands on the letter like "I want to see you in these tonight" Let her tell you all about her special package.

Now if your short on time or a little nervous purchasing women's underwear. Then you can use a mail order company and get the same results. There are many companies that will send your honey a pair of panties a month, and several of them you can personalize a note to be put inside the package. These sites usually present you panties in a very special way, but you pay for that. So if your budget is smaller do it yourself. I have put a link to a pantie of the month site in the title of this post. You can also go to Victoria's Secret to find some of the best panties made, believe me your special lady will love them and so will you.

Arguments, yes they are OKAY!

Differences in a relationship are normal and healthy! They are not road blocks. They are what makes him, himself and her, herself. Look at all the couples you know, even the ones you think are exactly the same, and I bet if you look hard enough you will see differences. For example, a couple might love to go to art museums together, but they might not enjoy the exact same type of art, and that is okay. These differences allow us to communicate, debate, and even argue. If we were both the same our conversations would be boring. We would both just say things like "Ya, I like that too." There would never be any questions. So these differences keep us sane in my opinion.

I love to debate things. Listening to others opinions and then giving your opinions is a wonderful tool for getting to know someone even if you have been married to that person for 50 years. You can always learn something new about a person. My personal opinion is that the best relationships happen because the two people involved understand they are going to have different opinions, and they don't love each other any less because of them. Arguments are going to happen from time to time in a relationship, but the one thing I feel is important is before the argument ends both parties say I understand you have a different opinion, but I still love you. Always try to see the other person’s point of view, even if you think it is wrong. Sometimes in my experiences it seems like we go through stages where we can't agree on anything and it seems like we just take the opposite side just to aggravate our partner. But, if you look closely you see that isn't necessarily the case. When you take two individuals and make them a couple people assume that they must be a perfect match. The perfect match comes from the understanding of each other not from liking the same things.

When you truly love someone you understand what is important to them, and if that is what makes them happy, you just roll with it. Now take a look at your relationship. Spot the differences in the two of you. Write them down. Put her likes and his likes down on the paper. Look at the other person’s likes, and circle the ones you have interest in. Put an “X” by the ones you have no interest in at all. Both of you study the list, take a step back and then debate things. For example, he wants to go to the baseball game and you have put an x by that. Well that would be a great thing for him to do with his buddies. Okay now, look on your list for his Xs, and find one that you could do with your friends. Bingo! You do that one while he is at the game with his buds. Here is the important part - find one on either list that is circled. Obviously this is one that you both enjoy. Either the next day or even that evening make sure the two of you have time to share that experience.

Lastly, don't be afraid to argue. It is not the end of your relationship. It is just a heated debate. If you have to fear losing someone because you disagree, then maybe you should rethink your relationship anyway. Even when you are in an argument you should never go to bed mad at each other. Snuggle up and remember why you love this person. You may resume the argument in the morning, but while you are in bed forget about it.

Shaving...down there?

Most men learn to shave at the onset of puberty, at least their face. It takes many of them years to shave their scrotum or around their penis. Now you will find some ladies that enjoy the rough but most enjoy playing the coarse on a smooth well groomed surface. Most ladies surveyed said that they will give more attention to the genitals of a man if he is groomed nice around the area. Clicking on the title of this post will take you to a wikihow site that tells you how to shave in the genital area. So if it is your first time, you might not cut yourself too bad.

Shaving around your penis allows your partner more access to the penis and scrotum. This makes it easier for them to play around down there. Shaving also gives your penis the illusion of being longer. Contrary to what Zohan says I don't think the cushion of a large bush thrills the ladies. Some studies have concluded that saving of the pubic hair reduces sweating, and that can be a big plus for some guys.

Gentlemen treat your ladies right and get rid of the caveman mentality.

A Thesaurus is not a prehistoric beast. It could be your best friend.

Gentlemen, here is an activity for you to try, which will surely get you rave reviews. It is a very simple task. All you need is a thesaurus. Make a list of the words you most often use to describe your partner. For example, every time she is getting ready to go out you might say "Honey, you look beautiful." I want you to take the word "beautiful" and look it up in your thesaurus. Find all the synonyms for beautiful. The next time your partner looks beautiful slip in some different words, which you have recently acquired from the thesaurus. Here are a few of my favorite words to replace beautiful: stunning, ravishing, picturesque, exquisite, and attractive.

Use this exercise on other words, which you use regularly. Not only will it increase your vocabulary, but it will make you look much more intelligent and interesting in your partner’s eyes and ears. Ladies, you can use this tactic, too. Just make sure your fellow knows what the words mean. You don’t want him to think you are calling him something bad. If you enjoy doing this, branch out and use it in your everyday life. Just pick a word and vow not to say it for a week. Replace it with another word that means the same thing.

Teach an old dog a new trick!

Sometimes we settle into the same old routine day in and day out. Well, it is time to teach that old dog a new trick. Routines are fine but every once in a while you need to branch out and learn or try something new. Our relationship with our partner is no different. Status quo is okay but throwing in some excitement from time to time adds a little flavor to the relationship. Now, this can be something radical or it can be something that just changes the way you look at things. Tailor this activity to meet your personal preferences and hers.

Your first step is go to a bookstore either online or an actual store and browse for a while. Check out the aisles of things you might have interest in or that your significant other has interest in. Look for books that are simple and straight forward on the topic, I like to start with the dummies series, you know like "Computers for Dummies." These books are simple in getting you started on the topic. The Dummies series actually helped me start blogging. If you don't find anything in those aisles, check out the self-help aisle. There is a broad range of topics, and this area of the store is usually quite busy. After searching and finding the perfect topic, simply buy the book and begin reading. Make sure you lover knows you’re reading it. Leave it lying around or read it in front of her. It is bound to strike up conversations. See if she is interested in learning about the topic also. If so, you can learn about it together. After all, that may help ensure you will put your new knowledge to work. I have learned so much from reading self-help books, and even though I don't necessarily use all the information from each book I take what appeals to me and put it into my life.

Now I know you might feel a little apprehensive about doing this. I enjoy actually going to the bookstore and looking at all the different topics, but if that makes you uncomfortable use an online store like Amazon. Amazon's site is very user friendly and they have every topic you can think of. If you’re still having some trouble getting into this activity, I have listed below some topics that have been of interest to me. Feel free to use them if you need to. Now teach that dog some new tricks, and add them to your relationship. Get out of your rut.

Here are some topics I find interesting that might spice up your relationship: exercise, yoga, food preparation, travel, tantric practices, photography, wine tasting, tandem biking, hiking, sexual practices or positions, massage, karma sutra, astronomy, dancing, trivia, the paranormal, classic movies, or anything you can share with someone else would be perfect.

With Romance you never reach the pinnacle you just have to keep climbing.