Serendipity - Great Romantic Movie.

Today I would like to suggest a great romantic comedy for you to watch. Serendipity stars John Cusak (a favorite of mine) and Kate Beckinsale. It is a magical movie of how love finds it way even when you think it is lost. It showed me that you can't force love you have to let it follow it's path even though that path might be a long one. Plus there is a lot of comedy in the movie to give you a good chuckle or two. Purchase the movie below at amazon today and see how Serendipity can effect your love life.

The obvious drop.

We have all seen the old time movies where the woman would drop her handkerchief so the gentleman would pick it up. Thus allowing them to strike up a conversation. This is a pretty cheesy way to meet someone and I don't know if it ever really worked but we can use this tactic to our advantage. Write a small note about how you feel about your partner, then wad it up tight and put it in your pocket. Then when you partner is around let is slip out, act like you didn't see or feel it slip out and walk away from it. You partner will be curious and venture over to pick the note up. We are all a little nosey so I am sure you partner will open up the paper to see what it on it. Imagine his/her surprise when they read the wonderful things about them on the paper you have intentionally planted.

The slightest touch can mean so much.

Touch is one of the things that most people desire. We want to feel that warmth of another human being putting their hands on us. The touch of a child is also very therapeutic with in their innocents. Even the slightest touches can mean so much to your partner. Think about how comforting the simplest of touches can be. When you touch feet in bed at night says I am here for you. The touches that just happen without warning like when you just brush each other as you pass. The soft caress on your arm as you are sitting together. The tingles that are sent up and down your body with the excitement of these touches is a joy that everyone should feel. Brushing away your partners hair as you look in their eyes or even just the touch of when you have to get something in front of them, says so much in a relationship. You hands are a wonderful tool for showing and expressing your love, so touch and enjoy.

Break out the Christmas Shows from your past.

It doesn't matter if her 18 or 65 you still have some type of Christmas show that you watched when you were younger. The one I can remember the most is "A Charlie Brown Christmas" I couldn't wait of it to come on when I was younger. I even saw that it is still on today. One of my sisters and I would always stay up late on Christmas and we would watch an old Bob Hope movie called "The Lemon Drop Kid" If you go searching now a days I am sure you can find a dvd of your favorite Christmas Show or better yet find out your partners favorite and pick one of those up. Give it to them on Christmas Eve and watch it together before retiring for the night. Sad to say but a lot of people associate time frames with what was on television at that time. This action might just put him/her back into a time frame where magic happened.

A little Elfin Magic

Okay we all need a little stress relief during the holidays, some laughter and even a little sex to ground us. So, I have whipped up a suggestion to help you lighten the mood and hopefully get a little. Either partner in the relationship can create this and present it to the other partner. What you need to do is go out and pick up some green felt at any of your local discount or craft stores. Then take it home and cut out a triangle and roll it up into a cone. Either use some glue or tape to hold it together and presto you have a little elf hat for your penis or your partners penis. Imagine the fun you will have with a elf hat on your penis. I can think of several little lines that would lighten the mood. “Santa send a little helper to relax you” or “My Elf has been working so hard making toys, I better take care of him” Have a little fun with it you could even get a little more creative and make some clothes for the little guy so he doesn’t get cold. The important thing about this little craft is it will help get things out in the open, (HA HA) and should help your get it on a little. Good luck to you and those elves out their looking to score.

Figure out Likes and Dislikes

One thing that is very important to a relationship, is getting to know each other. Start today, if you haven't already, a mental list of your partners likes and dislikes. When you got to a restaurant pay attention to what type of entree they order. Is it chicken, beef, pork, or vegetarian. Knowing their preference scores big points in the romance department. This doesn't just apply to food. Get to know their likes and dislikes in everything. Which team is their favorite, what type of alcohol do they like, what brand of clothes do they prefer, the list goes on and on. Now the only thing you need to understand is these preferences can change over time. For example, you partner might enjoy beef at one point in their life, then switch to being a vegetarian during another point. If you serve them beef after they become a vegetarian you might get a raised eyebrow.

One word of caution, if you have something you really enjoy don't assume that they will enjoy it as much as you.  You cannot make someone have the same passion for what you enjoy.  For example I enjoy going to baseball games and while my wife enjoys it also she doesn't have the same passion for it I do.  She will tolerate it but doesn't have to be there.  She could find many other things she would enjoy doing herself.  Once you figure out some of you partners likes and dislikes you now are faced with the challenge of making sure you both get to enjoy things you like.  As long as you share these feelings you will have no problems.  Just like anything in a relationship it is give and take.  I like to say it is sharing, that sounds a lot better.

Special Thanks to MarkPritchard for the photo from creative commons flickr