Showing posts with label up. Show all posts
Showing posts with label up. Show all posts

Tuesday, February 25, 2014

Warm Up It Can Be Sexy


Olympian Kate Hansen using dance to warm up before here Olympic Luging.  You could use this same strategy to warm up before making love.  

Monday, August 16, 2010

Play dress up


Do you spend most of your days in shorts and t-shirts around the house? Is you basic dressing up putting on a polo shirt and a nice pair of jeans or wearing a matching sweat outfit. Well as a romantic gesture I want to suggest breaking out the dress clothes and going out on the town. I do mean dressing up suit and tie or dress and heels. This is a great way for your partner to see you and it will make them see how great you look dressed up. Most people say that their partner looks awesome when they are dressed up, but do they say that when you put on your normal clothes. I am not suggesting you dress like this all the time but every once in a while will remind your partner what you look like when you get all dressed up. Go out to a fancy restaurant or just go walk around expensive places to see how it feels. Get yourself comfortable in your dress clothes. Plus it is good to put them on from time to time to make sure they still fit. This way you have a heads up before you need them for a job interview or a wedding.

Monday, August 9, 2010

Sometimes it is just best to stay out of the way.


As your relationship grows you will start to sense times when you need to leave your partner alone. It might be a certain time of the month or a certain day of the week. It could also be sporadic in nature but you can just tell by the way they are acting. On these days it is better just to stay away from the subject of making them feel better. For example if Mondays are a bad day because it is back to work time, then give them the space. Don't try to make them feel better only to get them upset with you let them roll around in their anger. Don't give them the chance to direct the anger towards you on these days that you know they are going to be upset. If you partner is female, then track her menstrual cycle to see the days that might be a good day for you to hang with the guys. You don't always have to cheer up your partner. This has taken me many years to understand but sometimes you just have to let them fume for them to get over it.

Saturday, December 5, 2009

A little Elfin Magic


Okay we all need a little stress relief during the holidays, some laughter and even a little sex to ground us. So, I have whipped up a suggestion to help you lighten the mood and hopefully get a little. Either partner in the relationship can create this and present it to the other partner. What you need to do is go out and pick up some green felt at any of your local discount or craft stores. Then take it home and cut out a triangle and roll it up into a cone. Either use some glue or tape to hold it together and presto you have a little elf hat for your penis or your partners penis. Imagine the fun you will have with a elf hat on your penis. I can think of several little lines that would lighten the mood. “Santa send a little helper to relax you” or “My Elf has been working so hard making toys, I better take care of him” Have a little fun with it you could even get a little more creative and make some clothes for the little guy so he doesn’t get cold. The important thing about this little craft is it will help get things out in the open, (HA HA) and should help your get it on a little. Good luck to you and those elves out their looking to score.

Thursday, November 19, 2009

Worst Pick up lines ever!! (Click this title for more)


Guys we need to cut out the corny pick up lines. Never have I heard of a one-line opening that worked well. Especially the ones that jump straight into “I want to have sex with you” Do yourself and all the ladies out there a favor and introduce yourself and tell them you would like a chance to get to know them. If you get a phone number or some conversation congratulations you are doing wonderful. These corny pick up lines only get you punched or kicked in the groin so if you’re into the abuse thing here you go. Check out the link attached to the title of this post for some of the worst all time pick up lines in the history of modern dating. Below is in my opinion one of the worst of the worst.

“I may not be a Flintstone, but I can sure make your bed rock” Scary that someone would use that.

Tuesday, August 11, 2009

How do you dress at home?


We all love to dress comfortable when we are at home. But is comfortable okay with your partner? Are old sweats with holes in them okay to spend the time with your partner in? This is a great debate question and I think the answer lies somewhere in the middle ground. We spend all week dressing up to go to work and yet the person we most want to impress we usually dress down for? Now I am not suggesting that you wear a three piece suit or a evening gown when you are running around the house. We need to find some happy medium. Go shopping and check out some of the nice looking work out gear or both men and women. You can find some really nice athletic gear that doesn't make you look like a slob. Brands such as Under Armor and Nike have some excellent choices that will keep you comfortable and looking like someone that would be great to snuggle down with. Some of the new materials are even great to feel so maybe if you find some of these items your partner might have a hard time keeping their hands off you. Don't throw away all your bumming clothes, keep them for days you don't feel well so that your partner knows you don't want to be bothered on these days.

Thursday, August 6, 2009

Keep the Peace!


I understand some of you are in a new relationship and that maybe you haven't had any disagreements, yet! Well they are coming let me tell you. If you think that you will not have an argument at any time then you live in la la land and need to get help. Actually disagreements or fights are good for a relationship, after they are over you realize that you can disagree and still love each other. This is where a lot of people get confused. They think that because their partner doesn't agree with them they are doomed. Think about it this way do you stop being friends with your best friend because they like a different sports team then you? or they don't order the same meal as you? Differences are great in a relationship so embrace them and know that is what helps you keep your identity in the relationship.


When you do have that big blow up you need to know when it is time to let it go. Things can get heavy and I have seen couples not speak to each other for days. This is the silliest thing I have ever seen. A relationship can overcome a lot but you have to know when it is time to give up on standing your ground. Think about is your view more important then your relationship. Realize it is okay to have different opinions. Compromise if neither one of you can be swayed, it's not hard people, you just have to give a little. If you partner is important to you that shouldn't be that hard to do.


Keeping the Peace is a challenge sometimes, I will not kid you. It is however worth the struggles and effort to not let little differences keep your relationship from being it's best. Know that it is okay to fight all couples do it from time to time but just know when it is time to lay down the guns and hug each other.