Have a drink ready!

Have you ever had a time where you partner is having a bad day at work? Maybe they called you at lunch or texted you during the day to tell you how terrible of day they are having. We all have these days where nothing seems to go right and every time you turn around it seems to get worse. This is where being a kind and loving partner comes in. You can turn their day around as soon as the walk through the door. Have their favorite drink ready for them and give them a big kiss as the walk through the door. Encourage them to sit down and talk to you about their day, let them get it off their chest so that they can put it behind them. Maybe, just maybe you will make their night a little better and they can forget about the terrible day they have had. Within each and everyone of us there is the power to lift our lovers up. Be it with compassion and praise, or listening and understanding, we can turn the tides for them. Make them feel special the rest of the night, make sure to touch them often as touch is a soothing reminder of the love you have for them. If the time is right have induce a little sexual release from them and let them enjoy your wonderful love for them. We cannot change the past but we can make the present a different place.

Talk sexy when you leave a voicemail for you sweetie.

When you call your partner and they don't answer do you just try to call them later? Well if you are then you are missing a chance to be a little flirty with them. Why not leave a sexy message or a seductive little blurb for them to enjoy later. Men deepen your voice and use words like Baby, Honey, or Sweet several times during the message. Slip in compliments, or feelings you have for your partner anything that will make them feel good. Ladies talk sexy and flirt a lot let you partner know how important they are to you. These little flirty sexy messages will go a long way with your partner. It might even brighten their day. You can even plan out a message and call when you know they will not be able to answer their phone. You can even steal their cell phone for a few minutes and call them up and leave a message while they can't find their phone.

Hide a note in their underpants.

A great way to let someone know that you care about them is to drop them a note from time to time. When you live with that person it becomes easier, as all you have to do is strategically place the note somewhere for them to find it. The best place in my opinion is in their underwear draw. You know they have to get in there at least once a day (at least we hope they get in there once a day). Most of the time they are getting in there while you are out of the room either getting ready yourself or already gone for the day. It is a great feeling to find a note left by your lover, it tells you that they care enough to plan out leaving this note, not to mention what they write upon the note. Put some thought into what you right, you can brighten your partners day with this simple yet meaningful action. If you have a favorite pair of underpants your partners wears you can even tape the note inside them so they won't see it until they begin to put them on. The simple words "YOU LOOK HOT IN THESE" would bring a smile to most peoples faces.