Steamy Shower Notes

Here is a great little romantic way to surprise someone. Sneak into the bathroom while they are taking a nice hot shower and leave them a steamy message on the mirror. Tell them you love them, or they are cute. You might even make it a little sexy and write "Ditch the towel and come back to bed with me" Whatever you want to write that gets your feelings across is great. Think of it as texting your partner old school style.

Singing in the shower!

Nothing can brighten you morning then cutting loose with a great song in the shower. Not only will this help you get your day off to a good start but it might just help anyone that hears you. Okay so maybe your not the best singer, but hearing you in a good mood and having fun will entice others to do the same thing. Think of the smiles you will put on your partners face as they hear you tyring to sing a song in the shower. It might just make their day. By singing you create a magic wonderful place in the shower and who knows maybe you might just get some company to sing a duet with you. Some great songs for singing in the shower are "Splish Splash", "I love to feel the rain in the summer time", and "Singing in the rain" just to mention a few.

Where have our viewers made love? The results are in.

In our resent survey of where our viewers have found and preformed intimacy, we learned some pretty interesting things. First of all a no brainer 100% of our viewers have made love in bed. 57% have experienced the thrill of sex in the shower / tub or in their car. Now this one really surprised me 42% of our viewers that responded have ventured into their office or work to experience a little overtime. Another surprising thing is that 28% have made love outside while 14% have made love in a public place. Seems like our viewers like to get outside the house. Again thanks for the input and help us help you by sending us your questions (they are confidential and private, no names will be used) you can email them to us at romanticantics@gmail.com

Why is watching someone shave so damn sexy?

If you want to really turn your partner on, let them watch you shave. There is something about shaving that is really sexy. Be it a woman or a man they both get the same reaction. When a woman props her legs up to shave and that sexy muscle is showing I just want to melt. Same goes for when a man runs that razor across his face, women just want to touch the smooth parts he as just shaved. As a woman glides her razor across her sleek and sexy legs it is just damn sexy. With all this said make sure the next time you are shaving to leave the door open a little and see if your partner is peaking in to see the sexy show.

Fanning the Flowers!

Have you ever been in the middle of a shower of flower petals? Well if you haven't sit down for a minute I am going to tell you how to make it happen. This is a very cute idea that doesn't take anytime to set up, however the rewards are tremendous.

For starters you need to get a good amount of flower petals. You can get them from a flower store or you can get fake ones from your local discount store. You can usually locate them in the craft department. I like to use the fake ones because they are cheaper, and reusable. The next step is to find a ceiling fan in your house that the both of you can stand under. Get yourself a ladder or step stool and with the ceiling fan off place all your flower petals on the blades of the fan. That is all for the set up, pretty simple huh.

Now all you need to do is coax your partner into standing under the fan. Once in place either have them turn on the fan or you turn it on. Watch as the petals begin to fall down upon the two of you. The sight is quite amazing, the first time I tried it I didn't think it would work very well. To my surprise it works really well. We didn't have a fan above our bed, but I am sure that would be a great vision as you were laying in bed. Now that is romantic.

Steamy Mirror Notes (click here to see a steamy application for the iphone)

Next time your lover is in the shower slip in a leave them a little note. It helps if they take an extremely hot shower. Use the mirror and write a note on it using the steam the shower has created. You have to be quick because if you do it to soon then the shower will steam it over. I suggest trying to time it to just when they shut the shower off. Slip out of the bathroom and you won't be able to see them smile as the read the message. You will however most likely be able to sense it.

Shower Talks

Here's a little test in self control. Next time your partner is taking a shower, and you have the time, just slip into the bathroom, sit on the stool and talk with them. It is a big test of your self control because you know he/she is naked on the other side of the shower curtain, and you know you want to peak in on them (at least I know I want to see my wife.). Strike up a conversation about something other than your relationship; it could be about your kids, work, church, or anything other than them being naked. This exercise raises trust as your partner is naked and in a vulnerable state. You are trying to mind your Ps and Qs, and not just ripping open the shower curtain and attacking. To me this feels like when you used to talk on phone as a teenager. You were wondering what the other person was wearing or what he/she was doing at this point of day. Talk to your partner for a while, but make sure that once he/she is ready to get out of the shower and dry off you are out of the area. Give him/her some privacy. If you were in the middle of an in-depth conversation, make sure to pick it back up when he/she is finished. You can also do this activity while your partner takes a bath, shaves or grooms himself/herself in some fashion. Conversation is good for the relationship. If you can focus on the conversation when your partner is completely naked, then you have a sound foundation in your relationship. Special note: Don't try this while you are trying to be intimate. Think of intimate things to talk about during that time. Talking about your mother during sex is a real buzz kill. Focus on the task at hand in this situation. :-)

Now, head for the shower and some good conversation.

Lather her with riches. (Click here to find luxury soaps)

During one of your shopping sprees take some time to find a really high quality soap. Not your normal soaps you pick up at the local discount store. Find the ones that might be a lot higher in price but are suppose to be excellent for you skin. I have added a link at the top of the page that might help you out. Present her with the high end soap before her next bath or shower. Tell her that you want only the best to be placed on her body. After she showers make sure to take some time to caress her skin and tell her how great it feels. Nothing makes a woman feel more special then pampering her a little bit. Experiment a little and find out what she like and dislikes for future purchases.

Some words of warning make sure not to pick up something she might be allergic to, that will really kill the thought. Don't be afraid to ask a sales person to help sometimes as a man we don't particular think the same when we pick out soaps as our partner does. A woman's input will help you out.