Turn off the TV to turn on your partner.

Do the two of you spend the night watching countless hours of television? Have you ever thought of all the time you waste doing this or all the commercials you happen to view during this time watching. Have you ever thought of turning off the little box sitting in your living room and trying to turn each other on. Their are so many benefits to sex and getting your blood pumping and their are no benefits to watching that much television, the only one I can think of is education and that is if you are watching a educational program and most of the ones I have seen are far from that. Break your habits today and start spending more time pressing your partners buttons instead of the ones on the remote. If you really need to acting that you see on television, then do a little role playing, if it's sports that you can't seem to live without, make your lovemaking a heart raising event. Don't let your love life pass you by as you sit and watch some brainless television show. Get naked and get busy, you will feel much better afterwards.

Survey Results - Number of Drinks on Date

Our Survey results for how many drinks are acceptable on a date are in. Your report shows that Romantic Antics viewers are in better control them most other people when it come to drinking and dating. There was no question as to the fact that drinking should be kept to a minimum on a date. Here are the percentages.

82% Said you should only have 1-2 drinks on a date.

18% Said you should not even drink on a date.

0% suggested more then 3 drinks on a date.

Way to go Romantic Antics Viewers you are definitely ahead of the curve on this one.

Here is your ration of kisses.

Today we are going to work on a little self control. I want you and your partner to ration out your kisses. Pick a number at the start of the day and that is all the times you are allowed to kissed during the day. Make it a realistic number say 25 or so. Then count them every time you give each other a peck. You might be surprised how many times a day you kiss. To make this exercise work you have to stick to the number don't decide later you need to add. Start out slow and make sure you are both on the same page. See how many you can save until the end of the night. If you are good you might have several saved for the end of the night if this happens, neither of you can go to sleep until all the kisses are used. This might lead to some other nightly activities. It is cute and fun to do and only the two of you know you are playing this little game.

If you don't think you kiss enough you can do this exercise in reverse and set a number of kisses to achieve during the day. Which could be just as fun. Try it and let me know what you think and what numbers you are comfortable with.

Pucker up for the team.

Shower Talks

Here's a little test in self control. Next time your partner is taking a shower, and you have the time, just slip into the bathroom, sit on the stool and talk with them. It is a big test of your self control because you know he/she is naked on the other side of the shower curtain, and you know you want to peak in on them (at least I know I want to see my wife.). Strike up a conversation about something other than your relationship; it could be about your kids, work, church, or anything other than them being naked. This exercise raises trust as your partner is naked and in a vulnerable state. You are trying to mind your Ps and Qs, and not just ripping open the shower curtain and attacking. To me this feels like when you used to talk on phone as a teenager. You were wondering what the other person was wearing or what he/she was doing at this point of day. Talk to your partner for a while, but make sure that once he/she is ready to get out of the shower and dry off you are out of the area. Give him/her some privacy. If you were in the middle of an in-depth conversation, make sure to pick it back up when he/she is finished. You can also do this activity while your partner takes a bath, shaves or grooms himself/herself in some fashion. Conversation is good for the relationship. If you can focus on the conversation when your partner is completely naked, then you have a sound foundation in your relationship. Special note: Don't try this while you are trying to be intimate. Think of intimate things to talk about during that time. Talking about your mother during sex is a real buzz kill. Focus on the task at hand in this situation. :-)

Now, head for the shower and some good conversation.