Does wearing something sexy to bed mean anything?

We a woman wears something sexy to bed does it mean anything? Here is my take on it, if she does it all the time then, no. Wearing sexy things to bed when they always do just means they want to feel beautiful when they are sleeping. Maybe they want you to notice them all the time but not in a sexual way. It might also just make them feel good. Now if they usually wear sweats and a t-shirt to bed and all of the sudden they are wearing lingerie that make them look like a supper model then maybe just maybe they are wanting more then sleep. If they parade around in front of you in it then the possibility becomes higher. Sexy lingerie doesn't automatically mean that intimacy is looming but it is a pretty good hint. Talk to your partner about it and get their feelings. Maybe they just feel different or want to wear something cooler, don't jump to conclusions. Ease into being sexy and judge their reaction if it is open then you can dive into the beautiful vision in front of you. If your advances are not met with such wonderful joy then back off and let it go. Play a little hard to get on your own and see what happens. Maybe just maybe laying in bed your partner might just have a change of heart and come out to coax you back to bed.

Get some new sunglasses.

Sunglasses can change your whole personality. Picking up several pairs for cheap can help you display the mood you are in. You can become a superstar with big hide your face glasses. Dark slim glasses can make you look mysterious. Super Trooper glasses can make you look dorky and fun while round lens glasses can make you look artsy. It is amazing how just by changing sunglasses you can look totally different. Different can be great in a relationship you can use it for a little out of the bedroom role play. Don' be afraid to get a style of sunglasses that you normally wouldn't get. Until you walk a mile in someone else's sunglasses you don't know how they feel.

Jack Canfield - Motivation that is not in your face!

Jack Canfield is in my opinion the best motivator on the planet. His work in The Secret interested me enough to check out several of his books. What I enjoy about Jack is his laid back style, he is not in your face telling you what to do. His works are ideas and suggestions that motivate you to put the effort into your future. Many of the other motivators make me feel like they are my Drill Sargent in boot camp. Jack, however maps things out and has specific plan for you to follow on your leisure or for when you want to reach your goals. On the romance side Jack is obviously dedicated to his wife and family and that makes a big deal to me. Jack teaches you how to have the desire to improve without forgetting about the little things that make the energy so great. Sit down together and listen to Jack Canfield speak or watch the movie The Secret together and pay close attention to his parts in the movie. As a couple you will feel the energy that he is giving off and it will want to make your excel as a couple as well.

Pictures Pictures Pictures.

One think I cannot express enough is that you need to document your relationship from the start. Maybe this might not be the relationship that is your last but what if it is? Wouldn't it be nice to have pictures from your early days together to share when you get older. Ones that would jog your memory and let you relive those wonderful days all over again. Cameras are great today you can make and save all your prints right at home. No worries about wasting film or having to take the film to the drug store to get them processed. You really have no excuse to not be taking pictures at every event you attend. If you have children you have to take pictures so that when they are grown and gone you can still remember them when they needed you most. Make an investment in your future and buy a good camera and start documenting everything that you can in your relationship and life.

Support in difficult times is Romantic

Have you ever had something happen in the middle of the night maybe a trip to the hospital or a sick child. Now in this situation does your spouse just roll over and go to sleep or do they drag their butt out of bed to help or see what is going on. The support you receive during these times is a wonderful indication of how much your partner cares about you and your feelings. Do they wait up to see what is going on if you have to leave in the middle of the night. We don't ever want both of us to be tired in the morning but there is a level of romantic love that you feel when you walk in from a tough situation to a loving hug. Maybe we want to be the strong one and not need anyone during these times of stress. Deep inside you need that support and a partner that understands that is a loving wonderful thing. Remember this, it is not weak to need a hand to hold you up, and you will always have your turn to be that helping hand.

Encourage Education.

One sure way to show someone how much you care about them is to encourage their education. Find out what they have interest in and encourage them to learn more about it. It doesn't have to be a full fledged college class. Maybe a course on photography or a dance class what ever their interest you can find a course or class somewhere to suit their desires. Now you can't just be supportive when they start their learning process you have to stay interested in what they are learning. Let them tell you what they are learning and if you have interest in the subject you might learn some new things too. Listen intently and try to understand their passion in this subject and be their biggest supporter. Now if you have a desire to learn about something do it also and share with them. Learning will never dampen your relationship and you both will be better off having the most knowledge you can. Pure love will flow from your heart when you mind is happy so educate and stimulate.

The simple way to be romantic!

The easiest way to be romantic is to use your eyes to look deep into someone's eyes. You might think that doesn't work but try it sometime. Right before you kiss your love look into their eyes as if you are looking at something deep inside them. Then after the kiss do the same thing. Now did you feel any connection there if not then you are not doing it right. Searching someone's passion starts with the look in their eye. Not only will this have an effect on you but your partner will notice and feel the power also. Using your deep look you will gain a better understanding of how your partner loves you as you pear into their soul.

A special way to say I love you on Valentine's Day : Wear a thong

Nothing tells your partner your in the mood for a little loving like wearing a thong. Set up your show by finding a time where they will notice your thong and get their motor running. Bend over in front of them knowing that they will be checking out your rear end. Then make sure your thong is exposed and that is enough to get blood flowing for most people. Now when the opportunity arises remove your pants and let them enjoy the entire scenery making sure to put it right where they can see it. The rest is up to you but with any luck you won't be in that thong for long.

Take turns undressing each other.

There is an art to getting undressed for your partner, but it is even more fun and exciting to let your partner undress you. This can be the start of foreplay if you take turns undressing each other. Go back and forth let each other take off one piece of clothing then let your partner do the same to you. Go slow this is not a race, sometimes it is fun to rip his/hers clothes off but this time I want you to take your time. Enjoy each and every part of your lovers body that you expose. Try to give them cold chills with the removal of each item. The anticipation and excitement will build to a very high level as you get them closer and closer to being naked. Make it a game if you want, play strip poker with the other person getting to remove your clothes and throw them on the table. Use your hand to explore each and every inch of their skin with light and delicate touches. I am sure this suggestion will have you more then ready to proceed with intimacy after the clothes are gone. Make it last set a time limit like you can only remove a piece of clothing every two minutes and you have to continue to massage or touch the area the last piece of clothing was removed for the remainder of the time. You can also do this in front of a mirror for a little added effect. Last but not least enjoy getting each other naked it should be fun.

Making Sense of Scents

Do you have special scents that remind you of specific times or places in your life? I know several that stick out in my mind. The smell of the ocean, fresh pineapple in Hawaii, the perfume my wife wears, or the smell of our freshly changed sheets, all remind me of special times. Now how do you incorporate that feeling into being romantic. Simple, you just find out what smells are triggers for you partner and do a little searching on the Internet for candles with that scent and bingo, bango, bongo, your romantic. Imagine your partner coming home to a house that smells like the ocean on your last vacation. What about pumpkin pie smell in the fall or pine tree around Christmas time. If you click on the title of this post you will be directed to the Candle-Licious web site where they have several scents to choose from.

Don't go for the normal scents try to find something that is specific to your relationship. Maybe your partner likes the smell of leather well Candle-Licious has that scent in their catalog. Put some time into finding the right scent and set the mood for the two of you to remember things from your past.

Start Journaling.

I think a very romantic thing for a couple to do together is journal. Not together but as separate entities. Buy your love and yourself little cheap journals at your local discount store and begin writing down the everyday things in life that make you happy or sad depending on the day. Now here is the romantic part. Find a special time where the two of you can sit down together and write your daily feelings out. Then make it an event make some coffee or pour a class of wine and sit down together and journal. If you want to go paper less you could use your computer, just make sure to store you journal either on a service that keeps them for you our on some removable media so that they are not only on your computer. We all know to well what happens when your computer crashes. There are several types of journal you could keep if you don't just want to write down diary entries. You could keep a gratitude journal of all the things you are grateful for or you could keep a expense journal to keep track of your finances a little better.

If you want to journal together you can use it as a means of communication. People who have problems expressing their feeling sometimes have a better time writing them down. This works great if one partner is a talker and the other is more reserved. This allows the more reserved partner to get their feelings out without getting interrupted. You can keep a sex journal and list all the things the two of you have done that have worked or not. When you keep a journal together you both read the others entries and learn from them. This way you really know how your partner felt about what the two of you did together. Then you know if you should do it again or abandon that idea.

Journaling also helps keep everything in perspective. Sometimes when your feelings are running high we don't make the best decisions. If you write down these feelings then go back and read over them you might see that the way you were feeling was just silly and because your emotions were high you were not thinking clearly. So go out today and pick up some journals it can make your life a whole lot better.

Fanning the Flowers!

Have you ever been in the middle of a shower of flower petals? Well if you haven't sit down for a minute I am going to tell you how to make it happen. This is a very cute idea that doesn't take anytime to set up, however the rewards are tremendous.

For starters you need to get a good amount of flower petals. You can get them from a flower store or you can get fake ones from your local discount store. You can usually locate them in the craft department. I like to use the fake ones because they are cheaper, and reusable. The next step is to find a ceiling fan in your house that the both of you can stand under. Get yourself a ladder or step stool and with the ceiling fan off place all your flower petals on the blades of the fan. That is all for the set up, pretty simple huh.

Now all you need to do is coax your partner into standing under the fan. Once in place either have them turn on the fan or you turn it on. Watch as the petals begin to fall down upon the two of you. The sight is quite amazing, the first time I tried it I didn't think it would work very well. To my surprise it works really well. We didn't have a fan above our bed, but I am sure that would be a great vision as you were laying in bed. Now that is romantic.