Showing posts with label helping. Show all posts
Showing posts with label helping. Show all posts

Thursday, July 29, 2010

Do a chore as a thank you.


Did you partner do something wonderful for you? Maybe they got you a special little present, or took the kids so you could nap. When these type of unselfish acts happen you can show how much your appreciate them by helping you partner out. One good way is to complete a chore that they usually do. If he/she is the one that does the dishes then secretly do all the dishes, freeing them up for something they might like to do. This is a wonderful way to say thank you for a special service you partner has presented you with. Always remember what goes around comes around. When you partner does something nice for you, complete the circle and return the favor.

Wednesday, May 5, 2010

Support in difficult times is Romantic


Have you ever had something happen in the middle of the night maybe a trip to the hospital or a sick child. Now in this situation does your spouse just roll over and go to sleep or do they drag their butt out of bed to help or see what is going on. The support you receive during these times is a wonderful indication of how much your partner cares about you and your feelings. Do they wait up to see what is going on if you have to leave in the middle of the night. We don't ever want both of us to be tired in the morning but there is a level of romantic love that you feel when you walk in from a tough situation to a loving hug. Maybe we want to be the strong one and not need anyone during these times of stress. Deep inside you need that support and a partner that understands that is a loving wonderful thing. Remember this, it is not weak to need a hand to hold you up, and you will always have your turn to be that helping hand.

Saturday, May 1, 2010

Sometimes being romantic is as simple as helping out.


You know we think of romance as acts we preform for our partner or the one we are dating. One thing that many people say that they find romantic is when the person they care about helps others out. No matter if it is volunteering at the homeless shelter or helping a young child tie their shoes. The affect of your kindness seems very romantic for the person watching these actions. Plus it is a wonderful just to do, so you are working your magic it two ways by aiding someone. No matter what others say helping out is romantic and it makes you look more attractive to everyones eyes.

Sunday, March 7, 2010

When your love is sick, it is time to step it up.


How can you be romantic when one of you is sick. Well this is where pitching in and helping do other things becomes romantics. Doing chores so they don't get behind while your partner has to rest to get better is a great idea. This way there is not a load of things to do once your partner gets to feeling better. With the chores out of the way it allows you plenty of opportunity to catch up on the regular romance. This also shows how much you care, by just doing things to make their down time a little better. Cooking and cleaning don't sound romantic but when you are doing it to take some burden off your partner then the tables soon turn. Vacuuming the carpet might score you big points as you partner watched from the couch with their box of tissues and medicine.

Sunday, September 27, 2009

Be Nice to everyone!


One thing I find extremely attractive in a person is the way they treat others. Are you the type of person that helps others out in time of need or offers your assistance when someone you care about is in trouble. These type of qualities are factors that could possibly attract the person of your dreams to you. Haven't you seen in the movies where someone does something nice and it seems like they are rewarded with the person of their dreams. This can happen to you. Just start being nice to everyone even if they are nasty to you. Turn the other check if you have to and just say "I'm sorry you feel that way" and explain your side of the situation. Not only will this make you attractive to others, it will make you attractive to yourself. You will feel good and not carry baggage around with you in your daily life. Think of how many times you have let someone upset you, only to carry it around with you all day. Thinking about how you should have told them off or what you should have done to them. If you can let it roll of your back think of better use of your time you would have. Start today it is not to late, be nice.

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Comfort in time of Need



One of the most romantic things you can do for someone is just being there for them in a time of need. Everyone is different and some people want to be alone in a time of need. They will appreciate you for just holding your ground if that is what they need. Things like losing a parent or any family member are hard and a time when you need to put your partners feeling in front of everything else. Getting fired from a job is another time where you partner will need you to comfort them. It's is easy to feel rejected at a time like that, however a positive partner can change the situation around in a hurray.




Holding hands or just hugging make your arms a safe place to hide if only for a moment for you partner. When things like that happen you need to be the rock in the relationship. Put all your effort into helping any way you can. You be the one to go out and get dinner for the family at the funeral home. Help with the job search if your partner has just lost their job. Always be positive and show them you care. Most people find out just how romantic their partner is when times are tough. So don't be the person who runs away from the situation. Stand your ground and hold your partner up. After all you might need them sooner then you think.