Treat yourself sexy!

When you feel sexy yourself your whole attitude changes. People want to be around you and things just seem to go better. Think about it when you are down in the dumps or stressed about things, do others flock to you? Most likely you answered no to that question. The reason being is that you give off a bad vibe and everyone picks up on that. When you are confident and feel sexy you give off the opposite vibe, that is when people want to get to know you or want to be with you. This is true in relationships also, your partner is more likely to want to be around you when you feel comfortable and confident. It just goes hand in hand then that when you feel sexy your partner will view you as sexy and desire you more often. It is the law of attraction, put out what you want and it will find you. It is important for you well being to happy and by being confident and secure in your wants you will find all the happiness you desire.

Let the smells of outside in.

Fresh mowed grass, the gentle wind, the people next door cooking out are all great smells that come from the outside. Instead of the musty smells that can accumulate during the days of the windows being shut. Take advantage of the cool mornings and let the wonderful smells of the outside inside. You might just find that opening the windows is liberating to you and your nose and senses. Try it today and see how much you mood increases.

Get some new sunglasses.

Sunglasses can change your whole personality. Picking up several pairs for cheap can help you display the mood you are in. You can become a superstar with big hide your face glasses. Dark slim glasses can make you look mysterious. Super Trooper glasses can make you look dorky and fun while round lens glasses can make you look artsy. It is amazing how just by changing sunglasses you can look totally different. Different can be great in a relationship you can use it for a little out of the bedroom role play. Don' be afraid to get a style of sunglasses that you normally wouldn't get. Until you walk a mile in someone else's sunglasses you don't know how they feel.

Surprise Haircut!

Today I am going to get my haircut. This might not seem romantic but I am going to do something different and my partner will not see me until it is done and over with. It is a little exciting for me to do something drastically different. I know that when my partner comes home with a different hairstyle I find myself wanting to get to know her all over again. On the outside she looks like a different person, and I wonder what sparked the change. I think it adds spice to you relationship and mixes things up a bit. Nothing wrong with that, how many people have you known that still have the same hairstyle from when they were in high school! For us guys it's a little different their are not that many hairstyles out there. One thing my wife doesn't have to worry about is me having the same hairstyle from high school. Why? because I had a mullet.

Do the little things to help improve your relationship

There are many things you can do to improve your relationship and most of them do not involve major changes in your life. It is sometimes the small things we do that make our romance improve. Things like not flushing the toliet when our partner is in the shower, helping with the chores that are not yours, fixing dinner, or even a gentle back rub while watching television. These simple little things can go a long way to improving your relationship. If you listen to people that are having relationship troubles you will see that most the time they will pick out these little things to show how their relationship has changed. Things like she/he doesn't hold my hand any more, or he/she doesn't shave on nights we are going to be together. When we stop attending to the little things soon we will have larger problems in our relationship. Now if you want to keep your relationship strong and health start with the little things and work your way up to major topics. Most likely they will be gone by the time you attend to the little things.

Okay men it's our turn to find something sexy to wear.

Nothing thrills me more then my partner to wear something sexy to bed. One it makes her feel beautiful and it also makes me feel great. Knowing that my partner is thinking of looking sexy for me and her is a great turn on. For men however this is not a easy as it sounds. We are kinda limited in what we can wear to bed with our partner. We don't want to wear our normal everyday underwear but we don't want to look like a really bad stripper either. Where can a guy find nice sexy underwear that isn't on the edge of sleazy? I think the first thing you can do is buy some underpants that you only wear on special dates. Pick a day when you partner will see you in your unusually underpants and get them wondering, "where did he get those" Surprising them with something they have not seem before might just turn them on a little. If that doesn't work then pick up a different style of underpants that you don't normally wear. If you are a tighty whitey guy then pick up some silk boxers, or even boxer brief are nice. Get some it bright colors or with different patterns on them so they draw attention to your package. Let you partner touch and feel them as you are wearing them not only for yourself but for them also. hisroom.com carries several different types of underpants for you to choose from and you can click on the title of this post to be whisked away to that site.

Notice changes in your mate

One thing you need to put focus on is watching for changes in your partner. Have they been working out, did they get a new outfit, or change their hairstyle. Noticing these simple little changes tells your partner that you are paying attention to them. Try to keep track of things such as hair appointments, and workout times that your partner keeps. Compliment them on their changes or progress often. This helps them keep motivated to keep up the workouts or trying to impress you! As hard as it is sometimes be honest when they ask your opinion. However always be positive about something they are doing. Sometimes it takes a while for a new change to grow on you. Reserve your right to your opinion for a later date if you are unsure. One thing that you need to keep in mind is that when your partner changes something drastically it might just be because they want to catch your eye. With that said the next time your partner gets a drastically different hair style, new clothes, or starts working out (especially in front of you), they might just be looking to catch your eye. Maybe you need to step back and see if you are giving them the attention that they need. I love when my partner changes something about her it makes me take even more notice of how much I love her.

Set in a different chair tonight!

Most people in a relationship have a very normal routine. You most likely sit in the same place every time you eat dinner or watch television. Well tonight mix it up a little and surprise you partner by sitting in a different chair at both dinner and while you watch some television. Not only will this break the monotony of your normal routine, but it will make you look at your partner in a different view. You can always switch back to your normal sittings tomorrow but for tonight let it ride. You might even be able to make a game out of it do a form of musical chairs where everyone sits in their normal spot and then someone yells change and everyone finds a different chair. If you have children they will love it. This function might just get you thinking outside the box and get you to try other things you might not try otherwise.

Change the words

Have you ever been caught sitting watching television together when there is nothing really on you want to watch? If you end up in this situation here is what you can do. Turn the volume down on the show and make up your own words. Make up the most absurd things you can think of and challenge you partner to answer your remarks. This can be a real test to your wit. It also helps you become quick on your feet at answering questions. It can also help stimulate your brain power and get you thinking, instead of just sitting absorbing useless junk. Do it during the commercials also they can end up being really funny.

The best part about this is that it will get you laughing together. As I have said many times laughter is great medicine and it actually helps you live longer. So find a show that looks serious and ad lib so silliness into it tonight.

Romance Game

Here is a simple game of romance. Take turns telling each other what you feel is romantic. Be it places to go, or just things to do together. Start out slow maybe saying "I think the most romantic place in the world is...." Then the next person says their feelings on the subject. Elaborate on each output and tell why you thing it would be romantic. This is a great way to get to know your partner better. You would think you would only have to play this game once. Well I am here to tell you, that you should make a point to play it at least a couple of times a year. People change and as we get older so do our needs and wants. So at 18 I might think making love on the beach would be the best thing ever. Now that I am old I think about the sand and where it would end up. Nothing is set in stone, make notes but use a pencil as the changes happen.