Treat yourself sexy!

When you feel sexy yourself your whole attitude changes. People want to be around you and things just seem to go better. Think about it when you are down in the dumps or stressed about things, do others flock to you? Most likely you answered no to that question. The reason being is that you give off a bad vibe and everyone picks up on that. When you are confident and feel sexy you give off the opposite vibe, that is when people want to get to know you or want to be with you. This is true in relationships also, your partner is more likely to want to be around you when you feel comfortable and confident. It just goes hand in hand then that when you feel sexy your partner will view you as sexy and desire you more often. It is the law of attraction, put out what you want and it will find you. It is important for you well being to happy and by being confident and secure in your wants you will find all the happiness you desire.

Friction is bad.

One thing that is important to avoid in a relationship is friction. Friction causes things to run hot in a bad way. Friction is the energy that is expelled when two forces rub against each other. That can be in an argument or in the contact between your skin. Oil up your relationship to avoid friction. Obviously oiling up your bodies when they are going to be in contact for a long time is a wonderful feeling. Sliding against each other instead of dragging against the other person skin is so much better. Lubrication is a important part of intimacy and lubrication in your everyday life is important also. Think of ways to make your life smoother. Maybe getting up early to get your shower done so you are out of the way in the morning. Starting your partners car on a cold morning or just making them a wonderful dinner are great ways to add lubrication to your relationship. When you are looking for ways to lubricate your relationship look for those things your partner enjoys and express interest in their desires and you should receive the same treatment back. That is how a well oiled relationship runs and avoids problems.