Romance Your Lover With The Foreplay Platter

Our good friend Dr. Lori Ebert takes us into the kitchen to construct a Foreplay Platter that all we can say about it is.....YUMMY

It is important that you understand how vital your diet is to your sexual power.  That is what we also want to share with you our Sex Diet Book.  

Now you can Feast in Several Ways...

Learn how you can lose those unwanted pounds by having more sex?  Great Idea, huh.

Sex Diet  - iTunes

Sex Diet - Kindle

Sex Diet - Nook

Romance From Two Experts...

One of the biggest influences on Sexy Challenges was Laura Corn, her book 101 Nights of Great Sex sparked something deep inside me.  That desire to make love more passionate and romantic, yet making it fun and exciting all at the same time.  If you have never picked up a copy of Laura's book 101 Nights of Great Sex you should.  Because it started the amazing rise of Sexy Challenges.  Now you can enjoy both...

Get your copy of Sexy Challenges first 50 Challenges all in one book all for a super low price by clicking on the links below...

Sexy Challenges - iTunes

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Sexy Challenges - Nook

Romance In Chocolate

Karma Sutra's Body Paint lets You!

GET CREATIVE IN THE BEDROOM

Find your inner artist with this rich, decadent, kissable body paint. Paint this sweet treat onto your lover’s body with the included paint brush and create your masterpiece. Follow with kisses, savoring the sweet, delectable flavor.

• Delicious, kissable body paint with a smooth, creamy texture
• Inspires playful creativity
• Includes a soft, sensual paint brush

FLAVORS

CHOCOLATE CARESS

Classic milk chocolate, creamy and delicious

RICH CARAMEL 

Smooth, melt-in-your mouth caramel

CHOCOLATE RASPBERRY

Rich dark chocolate with a hint of luscious raspberry

Click here to get your delicious treat today!

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Erect Your Periscope!

Have you checked out our periscope yet?  We do one every morning at 9am EST.  We talked about different aspects of love, relationships, passion, and sex on the show.  However we have a couple of special treats on Wednesday we have Vinnie Nippletwist - The Crazy Workout Guy who brings you the strangest ways to keep yourself in shape.  Then on Sundays we let you attend, The Church of Sexual Energy where we get a little metaphysical about worshiping the booty.   So you are getting lots of great information form us only on Periscope.  So spread the word and help us spread the love. 

Now you can get trapped in a fantasy!!!

Book One of a Curiously True Trilogy: Trapped in a Fantasy: A Strong Desire Meets a Stranger

When recently divorced Karlee Christopher, a successful Midwest business consultant, solicits for a casual encounter on the internet and travels across the country to meet her selected candidate, she apprehensively steps into a risky and potentially dangerous night that will forever alter her life as a woman. 

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Fantasies Are All Around Us

One of our favorite insights to get are the ones form Lacy Green.   She has such an open mind and the right attitude to be open minded enough for our preference.   Fantasies are normal process in our life and trying to deny that we have them is wrong.   Now that doesn't mean we have to act on them but if you want to the choice is yours....

Now If your Trapped in a Fantasy

Book One of a Curiously True Trilogy: Trapped in a Fantasy: A Strong Desire Meets a Stranger  

When recently divorced Karlee Christopher, a successful Midwest business consultant, solicits for a casual encounter on the internet and travels across the country to meet her selected candidate, she apprehensively steps into a risky and potentially dangerous night that will forever alter her life as a woman.

  www.trappedinafantasy.com

Get Your Butt Off The Couch and Make It Sexy

To often we spend more time on our couch than we do anything else.  Let's kick that habit in the ass and get on to enjoying life and getting fit.

The Sofa 2 Sexy Foundation Course empowers women to embrace, ignite and radiate their own inner strength and confidence. We focus on bringing out the confident warrior within by making yourself a priority. Join our complimentary 28 day online course to uncover your most confident self.  

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Treat yourself sexy!

When you feel sexy yourself your whole attitude changes. People want to be around you and things just seem to go better. Think about it when you are down in the dumps or stressed about things, do others flock to you? Most likely you answered no to that question. The reason being is that you give off a bad vibe and everyone picks up on that. When you are confident and feel sexy you give off the opposite vibe, that is when people want to get to know you or want to be with you. This is true in relationships also, your partner is more likely to want to be around you when you feel comfortable and confident. It just goes hand in hand then that when you feel sexy your partner will view you as sexy and desire you more often. It is the law of attraction, put out what you want and it will find you. It is important for you well being to happy and by being confident and secure in your wants you will find all the happiness you desire.

Making it easier to be apart.

There are times in our relationships when we have to be apart for extended periods of time. These are not easy on our relationships. It is important to express you love before you leave for this time apart. Think of it as making up in advance for lost time. You have to look at it as trying to fit part of your relationship that you are going to miss into the time frame before you leave. For example if you normally have a date night every Friday night then you need to try to slip in two date nights the week before you leave. Same goes for sex you need to put a little extra effort into your intimacy before you leave. This makes the leaving easier on the partner staying home because it shows that you are going to miss the time together, also. Then the same thing goes for when you get back, which always seems a little easier. Your relationship shouldn't have to suffer because you have to be gone. Doing it right can build your relationship stronger. Being apart allows you to have some alone time and it also can build desire as you anticipate the return home. Use the time apart as a building exercise instead of a absence.

Make a fun drink on a hot day.

The weather is hot right now here where we live. This makes it hard to stay cool let alone want to snuggle down. The two of you can beat the heat a little by making a fun drink using ice cubes and whatever fruit you like. Just grab a blender and take turns picking fruits to put in the blender as some ice and blend away. This will make you a fruit slushy that is sure to cool you down a little bit. Make silly combinations like blueberries and bananas, or strawberries and peaches. It doesn't matter what you put in the drink as long as it is cool it will quench your thirst and help relax you. Check out the store for some crazy fruits to try like papaya or starfruit. Heck if you have the time try out several different combinations. If you of legal drinking age you could even add a little rum to make it a little more festive. What ever you choose I am sure it will help keep you cool on these dog days of summer.

Flash a little skin from time to time.

You know that your partner has desire for you. Use that to your advantage to tease them a little. Flashing them a little skin from time to time will make the remember how much they desire you. This can be done by both men and women and is as simple some times as bending over. Ladies you have the advantage here however because of a little thing called cleavage. When your boobs are half showing turns us guys on tremendously we can't let half our penis hang out that just looks like were not paying attention and have clothes that don't fit. Cleavage on the other hand can compliment any outfit, casual or dressy. My suggestion is to let your skin be shown around the house. When you get out of the shower and are walking to the bedroom pull your towel off a little quicker to let your partner get a quick shot of your wonderful bottom. Ladies wear that lose fitting top and no bra then bend over so that your partner can get a gaze at your wonderful rack. Just run to the bedroom completely naked acting like you forgot something. Believe me your partner will be thankful and you will get the reaction you desire. Who knows your partner might even catch you as your run through the house naked.

Make special scents around the house.

We all know how wonderful smell can be. They can take us back to our childhood or remind us of wonderful times that we have had. Scents can take us to specific times like Christmas or vacations past. Why not put the amazing power into your romance. Go to the store and find the aisle with the scented plug devices in it and start browsing. Look for scents that might remind your lover of past experiences. Like if you have been to Hawaii or just desire to go then pick up some coconut or pineapple scents. Want to make it feel a little more like Christmas time then maybe some pine scent or sugar cookie scent will take you there. Surprise you partner and put the device in when they won't be home for a while. Upon return watch their face as the pick up the scent. You might be able to take away a little of their daily stress by taking them away with these triggers.

Romantic visions help to promote romance in your life.

We all want as much romance as we can handle in our life. How come we hide things away that remind us of romance. Romantic pictures on the wall are one way that you can remind yourself daily to do your part of romance. Hang sexy or romantic pictures in areas of your house that you will have to view often. This way every time you see these images it will spark you mind and bring romance to your thoughts. Most of us try to keep our romance a secret and by doing that we hide it away from ourself. Keeping it in the dark makes us forget about the romance that would make our life so much more enjoyable. Start today and hang romantic pictures in areas of your house that will remind you at the appropriate time that romance need to be your concern. In the hallway on the way to your bedroom, in the bathroom, or even put some pictures in the bedroom itself to work as a constant reminder.

If you know what I mean....

If you remember the Drew Carey Show : Who's Line is it anyway then you know the game they played called "If you know what I mean" Where they used as many sexual innuendos as they could during a skit. Now I am not saying you try to use as many as you can. What I am suggesting is that you make up your own little saying that is just between the two of you that means you are interested in sex. Things like "I would really like the dust your seat, if you know what I mean" or "I would love you to fill me with excitement, if you know what I mean" Personalize your own saying and have fun with it. Change you saying from time to time to create a little more fun and excitement. Watch the clip above to get an idea of sayings you could use. Good luck and I hope this post puts a little bang in your relationship, if you know what I mean!

Love thy self!

When we think of romance we think of doing kind things for the person we love. Sending them flowers, giving them massages, hand in hand walks and passionate love making fill our heads when we think about romance. I want to tell you that by loving yourself you are setting up the romance in your life to become way more better. When we are comfortable with who and what we are we give of a confidence that is like a drug to others. They catch on to the feeling and want and desire to have it for themselves. I am not talking about conceit I am talking about honest to goodness feeling good about yourself. Conceit is trying to show everyone how great you are while loving yourself is an content within yourself. These people that love themselves are never alone and have tons of energy to give to creating romance in their lives. It might sound a little crazy but to get the most out of your romance make sure to love yourself first. If you find trouble doing this make a list of all your characteristics that you think others find appealing to you and read them often to confirm the reasons why you lover yourself. You are a special person and someone somewhere will see that in you also.

The penis the joystick of love

The penis is obviously the key to a man's ultimate sexual pleasure. However playing with his joystick can launch you enter several different levels of love. When you free the man from his desires for sex you give him the ability to focus on other things. Things that might just make your relationship much better then ever. Ladies if you want your relationship to flourish start with quenching his desires and see how much other time you have for the things you want in your relationship. It is common knowledge that a man spends most of his time thinking about sex not on purpose but it is his make up, so what is he going to think about once sex is no longer a question? So if you want more quality time with you male mate this is the way to get it. Next time you wish your male partner would care more about chores, dinner, or playing games with you start by satisfing his ultimate desires, by putting this first you will free up a lot of time for the things you would like to focus on. Ladies the joystick is in your hands do you want to reach a new level or be satisfied playing the same one over and over again?

How many times is to many times to say I love you?

A debate about how many times is the perfect amount of times to say I love you during a day. Some people would say that 1 time is enough a day, while others need those words more as it gives them support and encouragement. I do believe that there is not certain answer to this equation. Everyone is different, however the trick to this is finding the balance between the two individuals. In this matter you need to find a place where it doesn't annoy one partner but is enough for the other partner. The only way to do this is through a little trail and error. Which ever person you are in the relationship you need to either add or subtract the number of times you tell your partner you love them. Continue to do this each day until your partner no longer rolls their eyes at this or in the other case stops pumping your for more. Once you find that medium then stick with it and you can put this debate to bed.

Replace Sugary treats with kisses and love.

During the holidays it is so easy to find comfort it food. There are so many wonderful items to partake of during this season. Cookies, snacks, and rich foods make up the items that people make during the holidays that we don't usually find during the other times of the year. If you want a way to avoid falling into the Christmas treat trap, you need to look no father then your partner. They can be the support you need to fend off these sugary treats. Make a pact with your partner that every time you feel like picking up a cookie, rice crispy treat or any other sugary item that instead you will stroll over and give them a kiss instead. This will soon become a conditioned response and you will find yourself doing it without even thinking. You might just walk by some cookies and feel a desire to kiss your partner. The nice part about kisses is they don't have any calories and they can lead to lots more fun things to do around the holidays. Plus kisses taste a whole lot better!