Spring Training for Romance

With spring right around the corner it is time to get your romance in shape for the coming good weather. Things like walks, outdoor activities and cookouts are almost here. Are you ready to start sharing these things with your partner. Do you know what they like cooked on the grill, do you have areas of your community picked out for your warm weather walks, and do you have a list of outdoor activities planned for the two of you. You need to have a plan in place so that when you get a day with excellent weather you are ready and don't sit around wondering what to do. Keep an eye in your local paper for festivals and events that will start popping up and are great outdoor activities. One of the first signs of spring you might think are flowers but the local youth baseball players will hit the field first. Go out and attend a game even if you don't have any children you will get a good feeling after you watch a game of 5 year olds play. Romance doesn't lay dormant like a lot of things do during the winter but it gives it a different feel when you can spread your romance to outdoor activities.

Attend all weddings you can.

Something that always seems to get people in the mood for romance is a good wedding. I guess it is just the fact of the special day and two people expressing their love to each other that gets our romance juices flowing. We either visualize our wedding day from the past or our hope that someday we will get married. It is my understanding that there is also a such a thing as wedding sex, where you are more likely to have intimacy after attending a wedding then many other events. Maybe it is the romance in the air or the booze they serve during the reception. Which ever one it is don't miss a chance to get your wedding groove on.

Romantic Move for Men at a wedding : Men if you want to score big points, during the vows, reach over and hold your partners hand, and squeeze it a little during important parts of the vows.

Romantic Move for Women at a wedding : After you form the line to send the bride and groom off on their honeymoon, whisper in your partners ear, "Let relive our honeymoon when we get home!"

Good luck to you and your wedding adventures.

Do the little things to help improve your relationship

There are many things you can do to improve your relationship and most of them do not involve major changes in your life. It is sometimes the small things we do that make our romance improve. Things like not flushing the toliet when our partner is in the shower, helping with the chores that are not yours, fixing dinner, or even a gentle back rub while watching television. These simple little things can go a long way to improving your relationship. If you listen to people that are having relationship troubles you will see that most the time they will pick out these little things to show how their relationship has changed. Things like she/he doesn't hold my hand any more, or he/she doesn't shave on nights we are going to be together. When we stop attending to the little things soon we will have larger problems in our relationship. Now if you want to keep your relationship strong and health start with the little things and work your way up to major topics. Most likely they will be gone by the time you attend to the little things.