Do the hokey pokey????

Last night we did a wonderful thing with our 3 year old. We jumped up in the middle of the living room and did the hokey pokey. It was sweet and innocent and the highlight of both our day. It is amazing the fun our little man had seeing mommy and daddy actually doing the hokey pokey. It went much deeper that that however. Not only did we have fun with our son but we also showed him what a parent should be doing. His little brain is going to save that information up and one day he will jump up and do the hokey pokey with his kids. I thank my lucky stars for the woman in my life because she is on the same page with me and wants to show our kids what being a parent is all about. If you look at the statistics most parents that have problems had parents that had problems also. So our kids learn from us, so if you are not the best parent look deep in your soul then ask for help. Attend classes, read books, and break that cycles of how your parents treated you. Because there is nothing more wonderful then watching you partner play and enjoy your children.

Invite the family over.

Want to make a splash with your partner then invite their family over. Plan a big get together with food and excitement. If you think his/her family would participate then get some games to play together. If games won't do it then you might think about planning the get together to watch the big football game or the latest movie out you can rent. Have lots of fingers foods to munch on and plenty of pop and tea. If you are going to serve alcohol then make sure you are ready to make sure the drinkers are not driving and to let anyone know when they have had to much. Alcohol can loosen up the party but it can also cause problems. I would suggest leaving the alcohol out until you find our more about the family. Set a time for the party to be over so that everyone knows when it is time to go. Don't leave it open or you might be having a crazy brother that won't leave. This family invite over will score you big points with your partner and help you to get to know his/her family better.

Do the little things to help improve your relationship

There are many things you can do to improve your relationship and most of them do not involve major changes in your life. It is sometimes the small things we do that make our romance improve. Things like not flushing the toliet when our partner is in the shower, helping with the chores that are not yours, fixing dinner, or even a gentle back rub while watching television. These simple little things can go a long way to improving your relationship. If you listen to people that are having relationship troubles you will see that most the time they will pick out these little things to show how their relationship has changed. Things like she/he doesn't hold my hand any more, or he/she doesn't shave on nights we are going to be together. When we stop attending to the little things soon we will have larger problems in our relationship. Now if you want to keep your relationship strong and health start with the little things and work your way up to major topics. Most likely they will be gone by the time you attend to the little things.

Mr. Softy

What do you do if you member suddenly becomes non responsive. You are in the middle of a great time and your usually stiff and ready friend becomes MR. SOFTY!!!! First of all don't panic, that is the worst thing you can do. Becoming concerned and freaking out will not help you get your erection back. First thing you need to do is stay calm and relax, play it off a little and tell you partner that they might need to wake your sleeping member up. Things that might work are playing with Mr. Softy, or other areas that usually excite you. Ask for stimulation on your taint or anus, maybe just kissing will do the trick or some mouth to mouth for Mr. Softy might work. I know we have all heard it before but it happens to most people at some point and time. If the problem continues you should see your doctor, because the last thing you want to do is let the effect you. Search the internet for home based cures that don't involve digesting disgusting things. This might also be a clue that something else is wrong with your body so again see your doctor. If you clean up your diet and avoid drinking alcohol you might see a quick change. There are several things that can lead to this problem like spending to much time on your bike to stress in your life. Try to think what has changed and begin eliminating those things one by one and see where that gets you. However I cannot tell you enough that going to see your doctor is the best advice and course of action.

Help, I need somebody!

Looking for someone to help you with a problem or question about your relationship. Well I am willing to offer my opinion on your subject. Drop me a line and I will privately get back with you. Maybe I can shed some light on something you had not thought about. If I can help, I will.

Rob