iphones and ipod touch are great relationship builders.

If you have the funds to get either an iphone or ipod touch, these two devices are great fun and a wonderful building tool for relationships. Yes you can call and text each other but that is not the part that makes them so great or different from normal cell phones. It's the applications that make these two wonderful items a success. You can find an application for almost anything and relationship issues and helpers are not excluded. They have applications for tracking your period, great date ideas, recipe guides to cook great food, not to mention you can get movies to watch snuggled up together, and the list goes on and on. I can't possibly touch on all the applications that would be useful in a relationship but I will give you some of my favorites. Ambiance sounds is one I like where you can have the sounds of ocean waves or rain storms playing in the back ground as you go to bed or do other things in bed. Romantic hints helps you come up with ideas to make your life more romantic, hum just like this blog. That reminds me you can also get on the Internet and check out this blog for great ideas on you device. No matter what you interest for building the romance in your life there is an application for it. You can get a great deal on any of these devices by clicking on my amazon sidebar and searching for them, so don't delay get one today. (I'm a poet)

Great Listening tool!

We have talked and will continue to talk about ways to improve your ability to converse with your partner. Communication is and always will be the foundation of your relationship. With that in mind I came across a method of communication that improves your listening skills. The IMAGO method of conversing is a great way to really hear what your partner is saying, and it is totally simple. What you do is basically repeat what your partner is saying when they want to speak to you about an issue they are having in your relationship. Simply put you quietly listen to what your partner has to say and then you repeat it. You don't comment on it or interrupt while they are talking you just listen and repeat. Sounds to simple to work doesn't it. I suggest you try it sometime it truly is an amazing way to hear and understand the message. Have you partner make sure you repeat the message exactly as they did so you get the full effect. Number one with you speaking this concern you hear it in a different manner and it registers better in your head and by not addressing or speaking on the issue it gives you time to think about what they and you are saying. For more on this topic click on the title of this post and learn in more detail how the IMAGO method can help your relationship. You can also pick up the book "Getting the love you want" or "Getting the sex you want" for a more detailed instruction on the subject.

Lawn Chairs and Boat Drinks

It's time to enjoy summer.  So lets break out the lawn chairs and boat drinks.  You can enjoy the sun and spend some time together no matter where you live.  If you live in the city take your island paradise up to the roof of your building and hang out suntanning and drinking.  Just don't get to close to the edge of the building.  If you live in the secluded country you can just find a spot where the sun is available and pitch your little set up there.  If you way out in the boondocks you could even remove you suits for an all over tan.  Make sure to use sunscreen, because burn genitals are not fun or fashionable.  Make up a pitcher of your favorite beverage and just sit and sun.  Enjoy the sun, the booze, and that wonderful person sitting beside you!