Showing posts with label playing. Show all posts
Showing posts with label playing. Show all posts

Sunday, January 10, 2010

Dress up like a favorite characters to add a little excitement to your romance.


We all have are fantasy, we would love to act out. Dressing up for a little role play may seem a little difficult for some people. They are nervous about what to dress up as or if it will be perceived as perverted or not. First of all nothing you find exciting is perverted it is your preference. Second dressing up can be as easy as watching a movie. You can pick something that you really like or if you are observant watch your partners reactions and see what they really like. Movie characters often give us fantasy from the start so you can use that to build your own fantasies on. For instance the other night we watched Night at the Museum 2 and I personally couldn't take my eyes off the rear end of the young lady playing Ameila Earhart the pants she wore really drew attention to her butt. I pictured by partner wearing such pants and us having a little Ameila Earhart fantasy. I made some hints to my partner so maybe one of these day Ameila Earhart will bring her sexy little pilot pants into my life. I have heard several movie fantasies that people have from Princess Lea in Star Wars to Mel Gibson in Braveheart. Don't be afraid to share these fantasies with your partner as they most likely have some of their own. You can take turns acting them out and portraying your favorite characters.

Thursday, October 22, 2009

Choose your sexy Halloween costume wisely.


We all remember the thrill of going trick or treating, and getting more candy then you could possibly eat in a year. Well times have changed and the kids today don’t get to experience the great times we did. They are left will only going to place they know for sure and having parents drive them around instead of walking on this hallowed night. The costumes are however today are much better then we ever had. I use to get the mask with the stretchy sting on it that would sit most of the time on the top of your head because it didn’t allow your breath to escape out the little tiny hole they made on the front of the mask. Here is where I get into the romantic part of Halloween, since these costumes are readily available and come in sizes for adults also this gives you a chance to relive your trick or treating days at home with your lover. Get yourself a sexy costume and let your partner pick one out also then don’t tell each what you have picked. Then later on in the evening during Halloween trick or treat with each other. Meet in your bedroom wearing your costume and let the fun begin. You can spend a little or a lot on your costume depending on your finances. Not much money to splurge with then get a wig and some stockings or men get a fake mustache or a little fire fighters hat. These are they type of things that keep your relationship fresh and exciting. It is so easy to say no to these types of fun but you are not only short changing your partner but yourself also. Want to really get crazy then dress up your genitals as well get a little outfit for you penis or spray paint your public hair a wild color. Couples that experiment in this time of activities have much stronger relationships. So, with that said go out get your costume and get ready to laugh and enjoy a hot steamy Halloween with the person you love.

Monday, September 14, 2009

Introduce you partner to your childhood



A fun and romantic thing to do is discuss the toys you had when you were growing up. Tell your partner about your favorite toys and how you use to play with them. Don't be ashamed I am sure the both of you have played with things you might have been embarrassed by in the past. This helps you partner get a inside look at the way you were raised. If all you played with was sports equipment then they will understand a little better why you love to play golf all the time now. If you had barbies and had a hundred outfits for them they might understand why you closet is so full now. Believe me you will see some correlation between the past and the present. Give it a try tonight.

Friday, July 10, 2009

You don't have to break the bank to find great toys!


Say you want to heat up your sex but don't have the money to go out and purchase that expensive sex toy you've been dreaming of. Well don't fret you probably have a love of sex enhancers laying around your house. Are your eyebrows raised, well I will give you a view examples. Do you have a string of beads around? You know a necklace will work and this can be used on both partners. Take the string of beads and run in around the outside of her pussy, pushing it around the lips and perineum. Same for his penis, run the beads around his shaft and let them dangle around his balls. The excitement of something new touching you will drive you wild. A word of caution though never insert something into your partner that doesn't have a flared base for safety, you don't want to be explaining at the emergency room how your wife's pearl necklace ended up your anus.


Another thing some people find exciting is food items such as whip cream, or chocolate. These are find to play with but just make sure you wash extra good before having sex. You don't want to get food items inside either of you. A feather duster (new of coarse) can add delight to your partner as you run it across them and their genitals. A heating pad can really warm up your sex life also. By placing it in strategic places you might get a warm reaction. Ice packs can similarly be used to enhance you intimacy. Washable markers can make your lover a canvas. A bean bag chair allows you to find several new positions. I think you are beginning to get the idea. Be creative but be safe also. Again never stick anything inside your partner with out a flared base on it or making sure the material it is made out of is safe for insertion.


Have fun and I am going to throw out a challenge to all of you. This month I want to see if you can make love in every room in your house or apartment. This might take some planning if you have children but where there is a will there is a way. Good luck and have some great sex, it is one of the most beneficial things you can do for your relationship.

Friday, April 17, 2009

A drink or two! (Thats it) - Click here to learn how to make almost any drink


I know all the problems that alcohol can have on a relationship and by know means do I encourage excessive drinking. However, sitting down with your sweetie and picking out a drink to try can be fun and exhilarating. I personally might have a drink 2 or 3 times a month but I think it is fun to try different drinks. In my title line I have put a link to Alex's Cocktail Recipes it is an extensive list of drinks. Once you have found a drink to try make it together or if your into a little role playing pretend one of your is the bartender and the other is trying to pick up the bartender. Have fun with it and after the drink is made sit down together to try it. You might end up spitting it our but at least you tried it together. As always get creative, buy special glasses, look for the little umbrellas to put in the drink, or when you are picking out your drink just pick a color or word and find a drink that matches.
Words of Warning - DON'T DRINK AND DRIVE EVER! and if you find yourself desiring the drink more than the company of your partner, get help.
It is okay to drink and have sex, but drinking during sex can get a little messy!!