Start planning your Valentines Day Activities today.

It might seem a little early but Valentines Day is just around the corner. Valentines Day is the greatest holiday for people who are romantic. You get to show your love and desire to the whole world. Cards, presents, candy, and hot passionate sex should be on your agenda for a great night. But with a little planning now you can make the night one to remember forever. Start looking for things to do or attend. Maybe you can find some tickets to a future show or event to give your sweetheart on Valentines day. Maybe you can book that special hotel with the mirrors on the ceiling and the whirlpool tub. Heck maybe you can even surprise them with a trip out of town. Today is the day you need to start planning to knock the socks off your partner on Valentines Day and with any luck you might knock the rest of their clothes off also.

Keep an on going wish lists

Christmas is past and gone with it are the thoughts of purchasing presents for your beloved. Not so true, their are several more holiday in which gifts are usually exchanged. Valentines Day is just around the corner, birthdays, anniversaries, and so forth are just a sample of holidays that we purchase gifts for, plus sometimes we just want to buy the person we love a little trinket to show them we are thinking about them. To help with this process both of you should keep a wish list available for your partner to be able to view anytime they wish. Maybe you could make a special file on your computer or even keep a shared document available for the two of you both to get into and change the list as needed (Google documents allows this feature). When you see something you would like to have go ahead and put it on the list. This way when you partner is getting ready to purchase a gift for you, what ever the occasion they will have a list available without having to ask you that dreaded question, "What would you like for our/your..." Not only do you get what you want but they can also surprise you without your input. Make sure to keep the list updated regularly so you don't get things you have already purchased or decided you didn't really want. This will make all your holiday even more special plus help with the frustration of your mate trying to find something to purchase for you.

Get your relationship back into shape.

We all have problems keeping the extra weight off during the holidays. All the extra food and drink can really make it hard for you but as soon as the holidays are over most people begin some type of regimen to lose the extra pounds tacked on at this type of year. What about your relationship? Does it take a back seat during the holidays, because you have so much to do. I mean it is hard to call shopping and rushing around from family to family any type of date. Now is the time to put your relationship back on the front of your to do list. Take a weekend and reconnect with your partner, get a hotel room, find some exciting things to do and spend the evenings making love. Put all your effort into impressing the person you love, because even though you most likely bought them several wonderful presents how much time did you really take away from them during the Christmas experience. I know I spend time wrapping presents, shopping, and visiting family that I would have spend being with the person that makes my heart sing. So now it is the time to revisit and fall in love again.

Tokens of your love for Christmas.

Merry Christmas Romantic People!!!! Today is your day to shine, giving the person you love tokens of your love and passion. Take your time and truly enjoy the watching of your partner unwrapping the gifts you have picked out for them. Take inventory of all the wonderful gifts that you get and make sure to thank you partner for each and every one of them. I have always heard it is better to give than to receive but I never truly understood it until I had someone to love. Giving gifts to the person that makes you heart sing is far better then getting things yourself. As a child I was always excited about what I was going to get but now I am more excited about seeing the reactions that the presents I picked out get. Enjoy your Christmas and try to keep the feelings and gratitude going for the rest of the year.

Use pet names on Christmas Tags

Want a great way to slow down the unwrapping of Christmas presents on Christmas day? Well don't use real names on the gift tags. You can use pet names or secret codes to make your love sort out who the present is for. Make up silly names that have some impact on your life things like, if your partner loves to ski then you could put Snow Bunny as the name of who the present is for. Not only does this slow down the day it also makes you be creative and think of things your partner likes. In turn this might help you pick out other gifts for you partner. Make sure you don't hint to the present inside, don't use the Snow Bunny name on a new pair of skis. Other things you can do is number the presents and have your partner have to figure out a math problem to see which presents are theirs. You can also put the name of a Christmas Carol in the place of the name and then sing that song when it is time for them to open up their present. If you have children in your life you can work them into this also by suggesting presents they should unwrap. You could say, "Open one with blue paper" or "Open one with a picture of Santa on it" to let them join in the fun. The point to all of this diversion is to make Christmas last a little longer and if you are anything like me you know that Christmas is one of the most romantic days of the year.

Christmas Eve time for special presents.

All the focus during the Holidays is the big day of Christmas. Christmas eve is usually reserved for trips to Grandparents or parents houses for gift exchanges with your family. No one is expecting a blow out gift from Grandma who usually buys you something you wanted when you were twelve. However, this is one of the best times to get your lover a little something special. Wait until all of the festivities of the day are over and when the two of you are alone and about ready to settle down for your long winters nap, present him/her with a little special gift to go to sleep on. Now this can be a number of things but the things I find that work the best are jewelry, and sexual items. When you give on this night make sure it is one that you want a major reaction from like jumping up and down or just plane getting mauled by the receiver. You won't get the same reaction on Christmas morning when you partner opens that new sex toy in front of everyone. Nor will you get as many kisses from the nice necklace you purchased during the family feast. Plan out which gifts you would like to give in private then make a routine of giving these gifts on Christmas eve.

Great Christmas Ideas - Get something you can share.

When you go and pick out a present for you lover you try to find something that they will love and use. Have you ever thought about getting something for the two of you to share? Things such as a wonderful bottle of wine, a romantic movie, or tickets to an event are ones that come to mind. It might sound a little selfish but by doing this you insure that the two of you will spend some quality time together. Put a little note in the present that makes sure that your partner is to enjoy this will you. Other items that might fit the bill of presents you can share would be sex toys, gift cards for your favorite restaurant, trips, or even items to make a scrapbook. Once you find the perfect gift to share sit back and enjoy the extra time the two of you will get to spend together using or attending this present.