Romantic Resolutions

Today is the day, time to start the year out right by making that special resolution. I want you to make a resolution to be more romantic this year. Now, you might be saying well I am already romantic. There is always room for improvement, if you really thing about it you can either find different things to do or revisit some of your favorite romantic idea. Get into a routine of planning out romantic things to do for you partner. Get a calendar and mark all the days you do something romantic for you partner and then at the end of this year go back and see how many days during the year you were romantic. Romance is a constant improvement, you never reach the plateau where you don't have to worry about it anymore. You can start by checking our blog each and everyday to find out great romantic tips to help you out in this endevor. If your on the go a lot you can also pick us up on the kindle or the kindle application for the iphone. Have a great year everyone.

Take time from the Hustle and Bustle to show you partner how important they are.

Right now we all are scrambling to make sure we have everything in place for the big day of Christmas. We are wrapping presents, shopping, attending school functions. While this is great and the time is wonderful we sometimes put our relationships on the back burner. Think about it are you giving your partner they attention they need, at this time also. Never put your relationship on hold for the holidays. With that said you can incorporate it into your planning. You can do the twelve days of Christmas for you partner by doing twelve special things for them during this time of year. No!, don't go out looking for a partridge in a pear tree, and you don't have to find a gift each time. Get a calendar out and mark twelve days this month and each of those days make it a point to do something special for the one you love. It can be as simple as a back rub or buying some hot cocoa to share. The little things mean so much and show how much you care. Don't stop there go out and purchase a little naughty gift for the two of you a sexy santa outfit or maybe a new sex toy for the two of you to play with. It is okay to give sex to the one you love for the holidays, go out of your way to show them that you still think they are sexy. Finally do the basics to make them know you care, like holding hands while your shopping, laughing as you spend time together wrapping presents, get a little tipsy with them drinking rum laced eggnog. Memories made at this time of year seem a little more special so don't let the season pass your relationship by.

Do you have a sex night?

Several of today's relationship gurus believe that having a specific night for sex is a must for the majority of relationships. The consensus is that our lives are so busy that just letting sex happen leads to less sex in the relationship. We have heard for years that spontaneous sex is the best, but is it really? Not knowing what is going to happen or when doesn't seem to fit with today's busy lifestyle. Don't get me wrong if you are together and the feeling hits you don't deny it, and say well this isn't sex night.

I believe that sex night is a great idea. I think it could help build anticipation and lessen disappointment. If you know your going to have sex tonight, I believe that you would fantasize about it most of the day. You would work yourself up and the passion when you finally got to that point would be incredible.

Let me know if you have a sex night? I want to hear about how you picked that night and the reason. Maybe you have certain nights throughout the year that are also guarantied for sex. Let me know all your situations. I am very curious what the public thinks.