Keep an eye on your partners schedule.

Sometimes we all forget a thing or two. Maybe we have something planned and we just blow it. You can do a very romantic thing and try to keep track a little of your partners schedule. Make notes when ever they tell you thinks they need to do. If they say, "I want to get to work early Thursday" You might remind them of that Wednesday night or give them the little shake Thursday morning and say, "Didn't you want to get to work early today?" This goes for social things to like birthday parties or things they are to do with friends. Especially things they don't want to miss. We all forget from time to time and you can be the hero if you remind your partner not to miss their best friends baby shower, or that they were suppose to meet the guys at the game. Don't make it seem like stalking make it feel like you are watching out for them. They will be so happy you might just get a great big kiss.

Take time from the Hustle and Bustle to show you partner how important they are.

Right now we all are scrambling to make sure we have everything in place for the big day of Christmas. We are wrapping presents, shopping, attending school functions. While this is great and the time is wonderful we sometimes put our relationships on the back burner. Think about it are you giving your partner they attention they need, at this time also. Never put your relationship on hold for the holidays. With that said you can incorporate it into your planning. You can do the twelve days of Christmas for you partner by doing twelve special things for them during this time of year. No!, don't go out looking for a partridge in a pear tree, and you don't have to find a gift each time. Get a calendar out and mark twelve days this month and each of those days make it a point to do something special for the one you love. It can be as simple as a back rub or buying some hot cocoa to share. The little things mean so much and show how much you care. Don't stop there go out and purchase a little naughty gift for the two of you a sexy santa outfit or maybe a new sex toy for the two of you to play with. It is okay to give sex to the one you love for the holidays, go out of your way to show them that you still think they are sexy. Finally do the basics to make them know you care, like holding hands while your shopping, laughing as you spend time together wrapping presents, get a little tipsy with them drinking rum laced eggnog. Memories made at this time of year seem a little more special so don't let the season pass your relationship by.

Give your partner a little playfulness at an unusual time.

Do you have events that just drive you mad. Maybe a family reunion, or a fundraiser that just seem to be so tense. Well if you find yourself at one of these type of events I have a suggestion to ease the tension a little. Give your stressed out partner a little playfulness. You might be shrugging your shoulders at this moment. Now let me explain. Nothing relaxes the mood of a situation as something your partner is not suspecting. Now you have to be very tactful about this, find a quite place, and don't do this out where anyone else can see. Women as you walk by your partner grab his penis or ass, don't say a word and just keep moving past. Men the same for you grab her ass or swipe her breast, no words just the action. Then act like nothing happened. Reject any advances they might make with one word, Later.

Now what have you done? Well you have taken their mind off the stressful situation and made them think about what you have in mind later. Plus they know that you understand their frustrations and are turned on by their attempts of making the event great. Now when you get them home you have to follow through on your earlier dealings. Don't even let them say anything about it before you act. Tell them how sexy they looked during the event and how turned on you were by them in that situation. After you show your appreciation suggest some of your favorite charities or events they might want to get involved in. You just might have found someone to volunteer based on your playfulness.