French Kissing The New Workout

Okay for those of your that are addicted to your workouts.  French Kissing burns 2.6 calories per minute.  So an hour make out session could burn as many as 156 calories! 

So now there is more of a reason for those long make out sessions.  

Change your kissing position.

Well all know that changing sexual positions can improve your sex life. Have you thought that even changing angles and positions for kissing each other could do the same? Everyone I know kisses straight forward lip to lip and they don't think anything else about it. However if you change your angle or position from which you kiss it makes it much more different. The feel the approach gives kissing a much more exciting feel. Think about it kissing your partner on the neck or them leaning back into you to kiss your lips as you stand behind them. Enjoy how different their lips feel against yours in these different positions. Holding the person becomes a different experience also now you hands are not hanging out on their back you can explore the front of their body and see where your hands might lead you. In the Karma Sutra you see the drawings of people doing backbends and all sort of other positions to kiss and more. Try it out what can it hurt, just make sure you stretch before you try a pulled muscle really takes the wind out of your sail.

Romance is not just a job it's an adventure.

Being romantic is part of being in a relationship. Think about it you didn't even have to try and you were being romantic at the start of your relationship. Why, then, do we have to change that feeling once we have been in a relationship for a bit of time. Why do we stop opening doors, jumping into our partners arms, spend time kissing are all things that at the beginning of our relationship we didn't even thing about, we just did them. Why then do they fall by the wayside once our relationship is established. Think about how happy you were at the start of this relationship and think about your state of happiness now. I am sure you will say that your were happier when you first started dating your partner. This is because we put focus and energy into this new relationship and we get back what we put out. Does that sound right to you! it does to me. With the passing of time we forget to put that energy into our relationship and thus we expect nothing out of it. To improve your relationship you need to start by looking at yourself and getting your focus back on your relationship.

Time your foreplay!

Society today is so rushed. It seems like we rush from one thing to another. If you have kids then you add at least twice as much running into your schedule and usually more. Unfortunately we are also rushing in the bedroom. Our sex is hurried so that we can get to sleep and get up to start this cycle all over again.

Well it is time to break this cycle. I want the two of you to slow it down a little in your bedroom. Let's not rush the most passionate area in our relationship. This may sound a little silly but I want you to get one of those kitchen timers that dings when time is up. Now before you are ready for intimacy I want you to set it for at least 30 minutes. This is the amount of time I want you to spend on foreplay before intercourse takes place. No penetration can happen until the ding sounds on the timer. Spend time touching, kissing and licking each other up into a frenzy believe me this might seem a little strange at first but once the ding sounds and the actual intercourse starts you will be thanking me. The extra time spend stimulating each other will make your sex better then ever.

Now you might need to brush up a little on your foreplay. You don't want to spend 30 minutes just playing with nipples. Branch out and find the many erogenous zones on your partners body. Stroke different areas of the body and let your partner touch you in places you normal avoid. Experiment with the anus is has wonderful sensations for both men and women. Combine areas to create different sensations. Lick one area while you stimulate another area with your hands. I hope that this 30 minutes of foreplay will soon become a staple in your love making.

A missile of mistletoe

Here is a cute little idea to make sure your partner knows what your intentions are. Create a missile of mistletoe! That is right make a missile that contains the kissing plant, so that your partner knows you are ready to smootch. All you need is a tube from a paper towel roll or toilet paper roll, scissors, construction paper, mistletoe and tape. First construct your missile by cutting out the paper for the fins and top of the missile. Roll a piece of construction paper to form a cone that fits on the top of the tube you have. Insert the mistletoe into the tube then tape the fins and cone onto the tube. Creating your missile of love. Finally write on the side of your missile "Look inside" and you are ready to attack. Wait until your partner is relaxing for the evening and then launch your missile so that it lands in their lap. Once they open it up you might want to run and hide because the are going to be looking for you to cover you with kisses. Maybe hiding isn't a good idea if you are ready for the kissing to begin. Have fun and enjoy this little way show your partner what you want.

Make your kisses refreshing!

The thing people complain most about with kissing is bad breath. They say it is one of the biggest turn offs when kissing someone, even somebody they have been in a relationship with for a long time. Well it is an easy fix to correct this and with a little practice you won't have to worry about it ever again. There are several things on the market to help you in your quest for kissable breath. Items such as gum, breath mints, mouthwash, and the list goes on and on. Now all you have to do is pick which one of them you prefer and decide which one works the best. Don't forget to pick a flavor your partner enjoys also. Spearmint gum is one of my favorites, with cinnamon a close second. You have a great deal of flavors to choose from and for added effects I suggest picking a different one as many times as you can. Let your partner wonder what kind of kiss they will be getting today, it might just make them kiss you more often. While brushing your teeth is the best defense against bad breath, these other items will help when you can whip out your toothbrush and start cleaning. This can even be more exciting if your going for a little more passionate kissing. Flavors such as cinnamon, and wintergreen can give a little tingle if you happen to use your tongue as well. With all this said make sure to have these items on you all the time because at any given time your lips might be called to duty and you don't what nasty breath to slow things down.

Short and Sweet

This morning before getting out of bed reach over a gently touch your partners back. Lightly caress their skin for a few minutes, the give them a gently kiss on the back of their neck. Follow this up by whispering I love you. Then get up and start your day. My bet is that you have made someone else day start out great!

Romantic Needs

Romantic Needs

Gentlemen and Ladies let me start by saying that there is no map to creating a more romantic relationship in your life. Now that I have burst your bubble let me tell you why. Romance is an ever changing facit of your life. Just as in every other part of your life if you keep doing the same thing over and over it gets boring. So, don't think that you can read this blog one time and presto you are the most romantic person in the world. For example, if your partner loves to get flowers you can send her some and be Romeo, but if you send her flowers everyday, it just becomes creepy. She will probably begin to resent the flowers or maybe run in terror everytime she sees any. Help me out ladies and tell me about that fine line between the man of your dreams and the stalker.

So men there is no easy road map to this romance thing. You're gonna have to work at it the rest of the life of your relationship. Now stop sobbing. Dry those tears from your eyes and let's think. Remember when you were first dating and how all you wanted to do was please that specail lady in your life. Well do you still feel that way? Same for you ladies - has the romance left your relationship or are we just a little be lazy now that we are comfortable. Ahhhhh here lies the secret. You have to work at your relationship and putting romance into it. You have to remember why you fell head over heels for this person. Now roll up your sleeves, and let's get to work.

Think back to the things you did when you first started dating. Remember those days trying to find something fun and exciting to do everytime you got together. Well why did you stop doing that? Why when we get comfortable with someone do we forget how much fun we had wtih them? Now continue thinking about something you did that you both enjoyed and start trying to find a way to relive that. Maybe it was a magical night on the beach watching the sunset, or driving in the country and taking pictures, or something as simple as walking around your old campus holding hands. Never underestimate the power of the date rerun. Again, keep it within reason. The same date rerun done everyweek makes it a chore, and men we all know how much we hate those.

Remember Romance isn't a given. It's like a garden that must be pampered and watered and hold up hold up let me rephrase that so my fellow men can understand. Fellas, romance is like pizza you can put lots of different things on it but it's still a pizza and it still tastes good. So, until the next time, keep the romance alive. Oh by the way, does anyone have the number to the pizza place? For some reason I seem to be a little hungry now.