Make a plan for sex.

Anticipation is a great tool when you put it into your intimacy. Here is what I want you to do. Tell your partner that in, lets say three days you are going to make the most passionate love to them. Now for the next three days you have to tease them into a frenzy. Don't give in and make love early take the full three days to excite your partner. Now you have set the image of some great sex coming their way so you have to make good on your promise. Plan out the best sexual adventure you can think of and then spring it on them on the day you have set forth. Most likely if you have teased them enough they will be like jello in your hands. Fun ways to tease them might be kissing then sexually then saying that was great but wait until our special day, or having a count down, letting them know it is only 2 more days until they are going to get it. Whatever the way you want to tease is okay and it will help build your anticipation, too. This way you both will be primed and ready for the amazing sex you will have.

Get excited about the gifts you are giving.

Do you have a special gift you are giving your partner for this Christmas? If so you need to get excited about it so that you can build up the anticipation of the person you are giving it to. Hold it up for them to see and tell them how you can't wait to see them open it on Christmas day. Show you excitement to give it to them, it is contagious. Sparking that anticipation in your partner will make them more excited as the big day gets closer. You might find them shaking the present some time or studying it's shape and size. The anticipation is what makes Christmas so exciting, think back to waiting for Santa to come when you were younger and running down the stairs on Christmas morning. What was it that drove you then? It was the anticipation so use this feeling to increase the romance at Christmas time.