Showing posts with label teasing. Show all posts
Showing posts with label teasing. Show all posts

Monday, July 19, 2010

Make a flirty promise.


Today I want you to make a flirty promise to your lover. Either promise them some great sexual experience or a romantic get together. Then you have to follow through on your flirt. You can pull them aside and tell them, text them, or just leave a note for them to find. State in your note what you are going to do, when you are going to do it and how much they are going to enjoy it. Now if you have obstacles in the way such as children you can get around that by putting the time as soon as the children are asleep. Make it a point to keep your promise but if something comes up you need to quickly put a rain date on your plans. Say you are sorry and quickly state the rain date and them them that you will even make it more exciting on that date. This little build of excitement actually helps your partner in more ways than you think. Not only will they benefit from the health aspect of sex but they will also benefit from the great mood it will put them in. Remember, sex is a very important part of your relationship and it should take priority at times. Not only because it is great for you but because it is great for your relationship, also.

Sunday, May 2, 2010

Make a plan for sex.


Anticipation is a great tool when you put it into your intimacy. Here is what I want you to do. Tell your partner that in, lets say three days you are going to make the most passionate love to them. Now for the next three days you have to tease them into a frenzy. Don't give in and make love early take the full three days to excite your partner. Now you have set the image of some great sex coming their way so you have to make good on your promise. Plan out the best sexual adventure you can think of and then spring it on them on the day you have set forth. Most likely if you have teased them enough they will be like jello in your hands. Fun ways to tease them might be kissing then sexually then saying that was great but wait until our special day, or having a count down, letting them know it is only 2 more days until they are going to get it. Whatever the way you want to tease is okay and it will help build your anticipation, too. This way you both will be primed and ready for the amazing sex you will have.

Sunday, November 22, 2009

A little surprise that says I want you!


As we near the holidays there will be lots of opportunities that will give you a chance to tell your partner that you want them, when they can't respond. Call it teasing, or maybe foreplay but one thing it does do is let your partner know that you want them and they will have to wait. You can do this at any function that you both are attending, and great times are during family gathers that include Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Years. All you have to do is a quick grab, pinch or squeeze that cannot be detected by others at the function. Maybe you squeeze your partners butt as you waiting for the door to be answered. You out grab their crotch under the table at dinner. Anything that is suggestive will do. After you do what ever you decide to get your partners motor running you will see it in their eye. They might get mad at you at first but believe me as long as no one else sees it they will be anxious to get home. Words of warning be discreet and it has to be quick and to the point, don't be surprised if a retaliation grab might come later. Remember this is good fun and it will be something to talk about for years to come. This might give new meaning to the term "Happy Holidays"