Valentine's Day Gift Idea - Gift Certificate to Adult Toy Store

Valentine's Day is a great time to branch out and find new ways to show your love for each other. This gift adds a sexual feel to your gift and also gives you a little insight into what your partner might be curious about. Think about it, one of the hardest things to do is to bring up something new to try in your bedroom. You are afraid you will be rejected or worse feel like your a pervert. The way you can do this for Valentine's Day is to purchase your love a gift certificate for an online sex toy store. Then all you do is give your partner the store's catalog and the gift certificate and let them pick out their items in privacy if they like or with you if they are more outgoing. The only stipulation is that the package has to be sent to you. This way when you get the box and open it up, you see what they are wanting to try and they don't have to come out and tell you. Believe me when I tell you that the person who picks out the items will be so excited waiting for the package to arrive that they will almost jump into your arms when you approach them with the item or items. If you get something out of your comfort zone then you need to sit down and talk about the item never just say no to your partner but find a way to accommodate both your passions.

Check out one of my favorite toys stores - Eden Fantasies for some great ideas and to get your gift certificate. You can click on the title of this post to take you to their store front.

Attention, Attention we all crave attention.

Most of us are very different at heart and soul but the one thing we all need is attention. You might say that you don't need any or that you don't crave the spotlight. That however, is not what attention is about. Sure some people like to be the center of attention while others like a little one on one attention. When someone wants to be alone that is being attentive to yourself. So no matter what your state of attention desires are we all need some. Romance is a wonderful aid to help give people attention. Think about it do you like to receive flowers from your lover? What about when you see them after an extended trip or time apart, how do you desire their attention. We all have the urge to be wanted or important and receiving another persons attention validates that urge. Think about all the wonderful feelings in your life that you have experienced. How many of them have come because of someone giving you attention. The day you got married, the birth of your child, your first kiss, the list can go on forever, the point however is that we need attention in what ever state we enjoy. Maybe you get it while your partner massages your neck or when they wear something sexy for you to be seduced by. It all feels good and is part of a healthy and happy relationship. Keep giving attention to the person you love and you should get some in return.

What is the best small romantic gift to give?

Our romantic readers have responded to what is the best small romantic gift to give and the winner is flowers getting 40% of the votes. Second place was a tie, all receiving 20% of the vote, those answers were Wine, New Underpants, and a picture of the two of you.

The Love Check

You know one of the biggest things couples fight about is money. Well I want you to go up and either steal a check out of your checkbook or use one the you have extra. I want you to write it out for love. Yes, you heard me right! I want you to put your partners name on it as the receiver. Now fill in the rest of the check. In the amount box put love, kisses, hugs, or whatever message you want to sent to your partner. Little drawn hearts are nice or X's and O's work well to. Then write it out just as you would a regular check. Sign your name and add a memo, something like "Making sure Jim knows I love him" Next time you see your partner give them the check and tell them this is what I owe you. On a side note you could even mail the check to them, so that they get it when your not around.

Just make sure you make note of the check your removed. That way, come time to balance the checkbook you know what it was used for.