Showing posts with label daily. Show all posts
Showing posts with label daily. Show all posts

Wednesday, January 6, 2010

Compliments.


If you don't already you need to make it a point to complement your partner on a daily basis. You don't have to go overboard because that will just be overkill. However a simple, "You look nice" or "Your so Handsome" is a great way to start your partners morning. This simple little compliment could possibly change they way their day goes. Boosting your partners confidence is a great way to make your relationship better, plus it shows them you really care. Mix it up a little and spread you compliments out during the day. When ever you have something negative to say make sure you always follow it with a compliment. For instance, if you partner makes the worst dinner ever, simple say "This meal is not nearly as tasty as the one you make last week, now that was delicious" or "That really didn't feel very good for me, but I loved it last time when you did this" Not only do you express your true feelings but you also let them know what your really enjoyed or liked. Now listen up this is an important part of this post on compliments. When ever you partner goes out of their way to do something like dressing up or doing extra housework you need to make it a point to let them know how great they look or did. Go overboard at this point "WOW, you look so wonderful, everyone is going to have their eyes on you" or "Oh my god, the house looks wonderful" followed by a long kiss. This is how we are suppose to be addressed when you go out of our way to accomplish something. Now you have the tools to make your partner feel like a million buck with only the use of words and actions.

Monday, December 21, 2009

Fill your lovers stocking.


I know most of you think that stockings are for children from Santa, but it can also be a great way to show someone how much you care about them. For adults stockings can be very different from the ones children receive. Think about the things you will put in them for starters give them things that they will use on a daily basis. Items such as shave cream or hair care products. Lotions, oil, deodorant as well as sexual aids such as condoms, lubricants, or underpants will make awesome additions to the stocking set. Gift cards are another great idea since they fit very nicely into the stocking. You can also make up coupons, you have made, to fill up their stocking. You can make one that is for a night at the movies, or breakfast in bed just make sure you follow through later when they try to use their coupon. If you partner likes a certain kind of candy you can include it also or if they are more healthy then you could add some nuts or fruit to the package. If you have the time you could even make a them stocking. If you partner loves golf then you could put all the things needed to play their favorite sport such as tees, golf balls, passes to the local course, or even golf gloves. The only thing I would like to pass along is that you make the things in the stocking useful don't purchase things that will never get used, fill the stocking with things that will make them think about you for the rest of the year.

Monday, October 26, 2009

Tongue Exercises, Now that is Romantic.


You tongue is one of the most used muscles in your body. Not only does it help us talk, sing, eat, and taste. The tongue is also one of the best sex toys in your arsenal. Yet how many of you do any type of tongue exercises. You can greatly improve the stamina of your tongue by doing simple exercises during the day. I personally do mine when I am in the bathroom. Just stretch your tongue out as far as it will go then pull in back several times. You can also try moving your tongue as fast as you can for several seconds. Make sure to stretch your tongue in all directions as this will improve your control over you tongue. For a better listing of techniques you can click on the title of this post. You tongue is so important to your everyday life and sometimes we forget that. Aside from the sexual aspect you can improve several areas of your life by getting in the habit of doing this exercises daily. I know several speakers and singers that swear that tongue exercises have help them in the pursuit of their craft. So if you want to excel at the Karaoke Bar you know where to start. Remember the tongue is a muscle and it is one you use more often they you think. Now do yourself and your partner a favor and start getting your tongue in shape.

Sunday, May 3, 2009

Star Trek (Click here to go to the earth sky website - To find out whats going on in the heavins tonight)


Here is a quickie that will be a wonderful event between you and your partner. Find some cushions, bean bag chairs, or even a blanket, and on the next clear warm summer night head outside. Arrange whatever sitting or laying device you have brought out and position it so that you can gaze skywards without straining your neck. Also, make sure that in this position you can touch or hold your partner. Then simply relax and enjoy the greatest light show in the universe. This is a great stress reliever also as it seems to put some perspective into your life. You could even brush up a little on your astronomy or even purchase a book showing the constellations so that you and your partner can enjoy trying to point them out to each other. If you have a quiet back yard, you might even bring out a little mood music or even just a taping of a waterfall or rain. But, first and foremost relax, take your time and enjoy searching the cosmos with your love.


Not a night person? You can do the same thing during a warm summer day, but instead of stars use clouds. Point out clouds and what their shapes look like to you, and then see what your partner sees in the same cloud. It is quite interesting to see the differences in your ideas. Don't be afraid to involve your children in this too. I love to hear the perspective of a young child, and this will bring you closer as a family, which will bring you closer as a couple.