Warm sexy sleepwear?

Is there such a thing as warm sexy sleepwear? At first thought I would have to say no, most of the sleepwear that turns me on has to show lots of skin and be as skimpy as possible. However then I ponder a little bit longer and some images pop into my head. Long underwear if the right kind and worn correctly can be a turn on as well as flannel PJ's with a sexy surprise underneath. As I dig deeper into this myth I realize that if my partner is warm to begin with it might just be a little easier to warm him/her up for a little more then just sleep. Next time your partner slips into bed wearing the plaid flannel don't be disappointed instead use the fabric to create a little heat. Begin to rub them in a manner that warms up their body using the flannel as an aid in this, with any luck soon your partner will be so warm that they might have to slip out of their flannel wear. Once out then they are going to need a lot more attention to stay as warm as they were.

Body Art

We all know how popular tattoos have become, that is no secret. Why not put the erotic nature of tattoos into your foreplay or just into your life by trying a little body art. Many places sale body paints that are easily washed off. Imagine the fun you can have finger painting with your partner as the canvass. It is amazing what some people can do with a little body paint, not only is it sexy but touching each other is never a bad thing. You can also stimulate your partner with the use of brushes or other means of putting paint on things such as drippings, or sponge dabbing. No matter how you do it make sure it is fun and each of you get a turn at this erotic form of art. You can click the title of this post to go to Silly Farm a online store that carries body paints. Okay Picasso, now is your time to show off your artistic side.

Find a scent your partner enjoys!

There are thousands of perfumes and colognes out on the market today. However not all them appeal to everyone. What you might really like the smell of your partner might find annoying to the senses. When you put on your perfume/cologne you want your partner to notice in a good way. This can be a daunting task if you use the trial and error method not to mention expensive. My suggestion is the next time they two of you are out together take a few moments to visit the perfume/cologne shop. Most of your malls will have a store dedicated to making you smell good and they usually have samplers available for you to try out before you purchase. This way you can see what you partner enjoys and if your lucky you might find one that turns them on. The most important thing to look for is something that is pleasant for them to smell but also pick the one that turns them on for those nights of passion. Our sense of smell is one of the last things we plan for in our love life but it might just be the first one that hits us. Scents can set the mood for many things so don't over look it.

Anal stimulation good for both of you.

His and Hers

When we talk about playing with our butts everyone seems to shy away a little bit, but why? The nerve endings in the anus are some of the most sensitive ones in our body. If you have ever tried stimulating this area you have most likely found it to be very pleasurable and that goes for men and women. You don't even have to penetrate to get the sensation just touching around the anus can send your feelings to a new level. So many people have admitted that stimulating the area around the anus makes for more powerful orgasms that you should be curious to try it at the very least. Everyone is different and it won't be for everyone but the majority of people who have tried it find that they like it quite a bit. For men getting over the homophobic aspect seems to be the main concern. Homosexual refers to your taste in partners not in your taste in feelings! You are homosexual if you prefer partners of the same sex. Now get over it and let your partner play with your bum a little. Most women find that playing with their partner in this way is exciting. Many manufactures make products for anal simulations, which leads us to believe that their are several hundreds of thousands of you out there enjoying this activity. The wonderful thing about it is that no matter your sex we all have an anus, so this is the one area that in common ground for both men and women. Take it slow at first and see what you like always have lots of lube on hand to be safe and don't be afraid to use plenty. Men this is also a great way to enjoy a milking of your prostate and can be not only feeling good but good for your health as well. Some word of caution as you get ready to try some anal play never use anything that doesn't have a flared base on the end and know what your toy is made out of use only non-pourus items that you can boil to clean. Have fun.

Trust

One of the most important things in a relationship is trust, everyone has heard this a million billion times. Not only is trust an important for finding someone to love but it is also important later in your relationship. Keeping a friendship in your relationship is a thing most people don't feel is that important. When you have trust in your partner you also view them as a friend telling them things that you would only tell a friend. This way the two of you can laugh and joke around together, which is a staple of any long term relationship. The days of co-habiting are numbered as people are starting to realize that life is way to short to be unhappy. Trust is also important in your sexual relationship. As your relationship grows you may want to try some different things in the area of sex. If you trust your partner you will have no problem telling them of the desires and fantasies that you have. This will create new dynamics in your sex life and in turn build an even stronger relationship between the two of you. Trust also comes into play as you get older and need that rock to stabilize you. You might need someone to take care of your and a trust worthy partner is the best at this. Life is not easy but with the trust of your partner it is definitely more fun and exciting.

It's okay to be a couple.

If you are like me when you are out with the members of your same sex, all they seem to want to do is bash on their partner. They talk about how they don't do this or how this annoys them. I am challenging you to break out of this mold. Next time you find yourself in this situation instead of joining in to bash on your partner to the opposite. Find something that you really enjoy about your partner and tell your friends about that. Maybe it was the great birthday present you got or how when you were sick how your partner took care of you. See if you can change the tides and get the water flowing in the opposite direction. Stay away from telling them about your sex life, for that is private even with your best friends. Who knows maybe you can help improve another relationship by helping them find good things instead of focusing on the things that bother them.

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Do the little things to help improve your relationship

There are many things you can do to improve your relationship and most of them do not involve major changes in your life. It is sometimes the small things we do that make our romance improve. Things like not flushing the toliet when our partner is in the shower, helping with the chores that are not yours, fixing dinner, or even a gentle back rub while watching television. These simple little things can go a long way to improving your relationship. If you listen to people that are having relationship troubles you will see that most the time they will pick out these little things to show how their relationship has changed. Things like she/he doesn't hold my hand any more, or he/she doesn't shave on nights we are going to be together. When we stop attending to the little things soon we will have larger problems in our relationship. Now if you want to keep your relationship strong and health start with the little things and work your way up to major topics. Most likely they will be gone by the time you attend to the little things.