It's okay to be selfish every once in a while.

Being selfish is not the quality that everyone wants to have associated with their name. However, every once in a while it is okay be be the selfish one. Now we are not talking about all give and no take but we are saying that it is okay to speak your desires. Tell you partner what you want be it a certain supper or an activity in bed that you want to perform with them. Be confident and express you desires. By doing this you will seem a little selfish but you will also get your point across and maybe you might get what you want. Be careful with you selfishness it can be a very bad thing if used way to often so use this power very sparingly.

Trust

One of the most important things in a relationship is trust, everyone has heard this a million billion times. Not only is trust an important for finding someone to love but it is also important later in your relationship. Keeping a friendship in your relationship is a thing most people don't feel is that important. When you have trust in your partner you also view them as a friend telling them things that you would only tell a friend. This way the two of you can laugh and joke around together, which is a staple of any long term relationship. The days of co-habiting are numbered as people are starting to realize that life is way to short to be unhappy. Trust is also important in your sexual relationship. As your relationship grows you may want to try some different things in the area of sex. If you trust your partner you will have no problem telling them of the desires and fantasies that you have. This will create new dynamics in your sex life and in turn build an even stronger relationship between the two of you. Trust also comes into play as you get older and need that rock to stabilize you. You might need someone to take care of your and a trust worthy partner is the best at this. Life is not easy but with the trust of your partner it is definitely more fun and exciting.

Wish on a star!

Tonight I want you both to go outside and look up at the stars. Then makes some wishes for the two of you as a couple. Weather it be to get married in a couple of years, or to buy your first home together. You can wish for silly things like hoping he wears his sexy boxers to bed tonight or the mailman will bring a huge check to your house. Have fun with this and dream a little spend sometime thinking about where the both of you are heading and the special things you want to enjoy together. Things such as trips, or children, or even pets might be great things to wish for. The big test of this is to set goals that we are calling wishes her but they are things you can strive for together. Now hopefully it will be a clear night wherever you are. If not jump on the internet and pull up some pictures of the stars.