Don't be afraid of sex toys!

Romance happens all around us and yet we still want to ignore some pretty obvious part of romance. While intimacy isn't all romance it is a part of it and I am amazed at the number of people that have never tried any sex toys to enhance the experience. At least people are talking about them more often and the sex toy industry is booming so things are getting better. It is also easier to get these items one of my favorite is Eden Fantasy's and you can use my advertisement at the side to purchase some great items from them. Experiment a little an find just the right one you need, get something for beginners or more advanced if you are! Quite being shy about it. It is natural and wonderful so enjoy and have fun.

Book Suggestion : TANTRIC SEX FOR BUSY COUPLES

We all want to get closer and be more connected with each other. However in this day and age our lives seem to be spinning out of control. Tantric Sex for Busy Couples by Diana Daffner, M.A., offers a solution to the lack of time it seem we all have. Giving you quick way to deepen your passion while learning to understand each other and your feelings better. This is not a full fledged devotion to Tantric practices but it does give you some great help in getting closer and also for letting you know if you are interested in diving in deeper to Tantric Sex. I would suggest this book to any couple that might not be connecting as well as they should, heck I would suggest this to any couple it is fun and gets the two of you closer. Nothing wrong with that!

Moonlight Drive

Have you ever just gotten out late at night and took a drive together? No reason, no purpose, just the wind blowing and the darkness only penetrated by the moonlight. If you haven't you need to schedule one in today. If you have a convertible or a car with a sunroof you can add to your drive by opening it up and enjoying the moonlight on your entire drive. Take your time and find road that are less traveled and have lots of places to stop and enjoy the quiet calm of this moonlight night. Find a wonderful spot up on a hill overlooking your town or city and watch the hustle and bustle from your secluded spot. Enjoy each others company and get into some deep conversation before you head back. If you lucking and the conversation is good then you might just be seeing the sunrise from your wonderful spot, also.

Do you touch each other while you sleep?

I an curious about how much people touch while they are asleep. I am a huge fan of touching and the comfort of it while I sleep. However, my partner isn't so we battle back and forth on the subject. She tries to touch and times I try not to but I think that maybe it is each individuals make up. We all know that touch is important in our daily lives studies have shown the touch is a very positive thing to us. But is it when we are sleeping? I would love to see a study done on this topic and see what the conclusions are. Chime in yourself and let me know how you feel about touching during sleep. Is it a comfort or a annoyance to you? Does it help you sleep or does it keep waking you up? Lastly, how do you touch during sleep stages, are your arms around on another, head on chest, or do you feet touch? I am curious and would love for you to send me your feelings on this subject to thecouplesspot@gmail.com Now go get some sleep.

Jack Canfield - Motivation that is not in your face!

Jack Canfield is in my opinion the best motivator on the planet. His work in The Secret interested me enough to check out several of his books. What I enjoy about Jack is his laid back style, he is not in your face telling you what to do. His works are ideas and suggestions that motivate you to put the effort into your future. Many of the other motivators make me feel like they are my Drill Sargent in boot camp. Jack, however maps things out and has specific plan for you to follow on your leisure or for when you want to reach your goals. On the romance side Jack is obviously dedicated to his wife and family and that makes a big deal to me. Jack teaches you how to have the desire to improve without forgetting about the little things that make the energy so great. Sit down together and listen to Jack Canfield speak or watch the movie The Secret together and pay close attention to his parts in the movie. As a couple you will feel the energy that he is giving off and it will want to make your excel as a couple as well.

Being Selfish

Is there a time to be selfish in a relationship? Of coarse there is we all need to have and want our needs and desires met. However how do we accommodate this type of thinking when we want to attend to our partners needs also? Well it is a give and take process you have to feel when it is all right for you take and know when it is time for you to give. How in the heck do you know when those times are? Believe me you will know your body will tell you when you need things and your mind won't let you forget about them. As for you partner all you have to do is love them and you will feel their needs and desires also. It is not an exact science but neither is life itself. The learning process goes on for ever and understanding that you will constantly be given new and fresh challenges in your relationship is a calming notion that when you come to grips with all things sort of fall into place. So be a little selfish when it is your turn and be ready to let your partner be selfish at time just make sure it is a 50-50 split to get the best results.

Steamy Shower Notes

Here is a great little romantic way to surprise someone. Sneak into the bathroom while they are taking a nice hot shower and leave them a steamy message on the mirror. Tell them you love them, or they are cute. You might even make it a little sexy and write "Ditch the towel and come back to bed with me" Whatever you want to write that gets your feelings across is great. Think of it as texting your partner old school style.