Saturday, January 2, 2010

Time to practice your touching.


This is the time of year of extra clothing and not much skin showing. Which also means that you don't touch each other as much, at least on the skin as you do during the warmer months of the year. With this said you have to take full advantage of touching when you get a chance. Whenever you snuggle up together under a blanket make sure to find your partners skin and caress it (make sure you hands are warm, first) Make it a point to give each other massages and use lotion to chase away dry skin that is ever present during this time of year. Make sure to touch areas of their skin that is exposed even it is not a normal place you touch, places like the face or ankles give a deeper meaning to touch.

Touch is an important part of our relationships. It keeps us close to our partner it gives us that feeling of confidence and empowerment in the fact that someone cares about us.

Friday, January 1, 2010

Romantic Resolutions


Today is the day, time to start the year out right by making that special resolution. I want you to make a resolution to be more romantic this year. Now, you might be saying well I am already romantic. There is always room for improvement, if you really thing about it you can either find different things to do or revisit some of your favorite romantic idea. Get into a routine of planning out romantic things to do for you partner. Get a calendar and mark all the days you do something romantic for you partner and then at the end of this year go back and see how many days during the year you were romantic. Romance is a constant improvement, you never reach the plateau where you don't have to worry about it anymore. You can start by checking our blog each and everyday to find out great romantic tips to help you out in this endevor. If your on the go a lot you can also pick us up on the kindle or the kindle application for the iphone. Have a great year everyone.

Thursday, December 31, 2009

Practice that New Years Eve Kiss


Want to get the New Years Eve kiss just right? Well the only way to perfection is through practice. To get enough practice in you need to ask for a practice kiss several times during the day today. That what you will primed and ready as the clock strikes midnight tonight. Happy New Year everyone out there that is romantic.

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Hide a note in their underpants.


A great way to let someone know that you care about them is to drop them a note from time to time. When you live with that person it becomes easier, as all you have to do is strategically place the note somewhere for them to find it. The best place in my opinion is in their underwear draw. You know they have to get in there at least once a day (at least we hope they get in there once a day). Most of the time they are getting in there while you are out of the room either getting ready yourself or already gone for the day. It is a great feeling to find a note left by your lover, it tells you that they care enough to plan out leaving this note, not to mention what they write upon the note. Put some thought into what you right, you can brighten your partners day with this simple yet meaningful action. If you have a favorite pair of underpants your partners wears you can even tape the note inside them so they won't see it until they begin to put them on. The simple words "YOU LOOK HOT IN THESE" would bring a smile to most peoples faces.

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

A snuggie are your serious.


This is the time of year when the best part of living in areas that get cold is snuggling under a blanket with you partner. There is not comparison to the warmth you feel when you are soaking up someone else's body heat. One thing that helps you out in this struggle to keep warm is great blankets. The better the blanket the warmer the two of you will be under it. Plus the warmer the blanket the less amount of clothes they two of you will have to have on underneath the blanket. I am amazed at how cold it seems when I get into bed naked, but once in there and I start to soak up the warmth from my naked partner and the cold goes away rather quickly. We all know that the more amorous we get the warmer we can make it. Now it your chance to get close to your partner and save money on your heating bill. Go out and purchase some thick warm blankets and smile as you offer to share with your partner. I don't know if they make a snuggie for two but if not maybe they should!!!

Monday, December 28, 2009

Men if you are tired of getting excuses then it is time for some training.


Men are you tired of hearing your partner say they are not in the mood or that they don't feel like it tonight? Well if you are hearing that way to often then you need to do something about it. Think about it if sexy didn't feel good to you and you didn't get satisfied would you enjoy doing it that often? Now put the shoe on the other foot, is you partner getting what they need from this experience? Everyone gets bored with their sex life from time to time, so to fire it back up you need to learn something new. Purchase a new toy or ask you partner what they would like to try that is different. You might be surprise at how anxious they will be if you give them what they want. Study up and learn new oral sex techniques or try out some different positions. You might not be able to use your new technique right away but when you get a chance, be ready to perform your new talent. Be patient and wait for the right time. Here is an especially good idea. Why not let yourself get off until you let your partner. Yes you heard me correctly put them first make it a point let them be the center of attention and you will most likely get a return. You sex life is a funny thing, we seem to lose track of the other persons feelings as we focus on our own. Remember this is for the both of you and once you convince your partner you are focusing on their pleasure they will start focusing on yours. Good luck and good sex to you.

Sunday, December 27, 2009

Turn off the TV to turn on your partner.


Do the two of you spend the night watching countless hours of television? Have you ever thought of all the time you waste doing this or all the commercials you happen to view during this time watching. Have you ever thought of turning off the little box sitting in your living room and trying to turn each other on. Their are so many benefits to sex and getting your blood pumping and their are no benefits to watching that much television, the only one I can think of is education and that is if you are watching a educational program and most of the ones I have seen are far from that. Break your habits today and start spending more time pressing your partners buttons instead of the ones on the remote. If you really need to acting that you see on television, then do a little role playing, if it's sports that you can't seem to live without, make your lovemaking a heart raising event. Don't let your love life pass you by as you sit and watch some brainless television show. Get naked and get busy, you will feel much better afterwards.