Romantic visions help to promote romance in your life.

We all want as much romance as we can handle in our life. How come we hide things away that remind us of romance. Romantic pictures on the wall are one way that you can remind yourself daily to do your part of romance. Hang sexy or romantic pictures in areas of your house that you will have to view often. This way every time you see these images it will spark you mind and bring romance to your thoughts. Most of us try to keep our romance a secret and by doing that we hide it away from ourself. Keeping it in the dark makes us forget about the romance that would make our life so much more enjoyable. Start today and hang romantic pictures in areas of your house that will remind you at the appropriate time that romance need to be your concern. In the hallway on the way to your bedroom, in the bathroom, or even put some pictures in the bedroom itself to work as a constant reminder.

Sometimes you just have to do nothing at all!

Everyone has those days when you just don't feel great or you might be a little depressed. These are the days you don't want to do your normal routine. You don't want to work out, you don't want to mess with cleaning the kitchen you just want to wallow in your sorrows. Most people might think this is not a healthy activity. I feel like a little bit of this is good for you it keeps you grounded. Now if this is happening everyday you might need to seek some help. One day of this is not going to drive you over the edge. Take the time and do nothing at all, watch some bad television and just hang out together. Don't analyze what is going on just take time to reflect. Think of the good things in your life as you are dealing with the bad, the theory behind this is that once you start thinking of the good things the bad won't seem that bad. I remember a particular tough time in my life where I found myself in a lawyers office. I was depressed and sad about the things going on and I remember my lawyer telling me, "Everything is going to be all right" Then he went on to say "I lost my daughter last week in a car accident, now that is something to mourn for" That statement hit me like a ton of bricks and it really got me understanding how to put things in perspective. Don't make a habit of it but embrace the times you don't feel great and happy and then reflect on them and see that they are really most likely not as bad as they are making you feel.

Change your kissing position.

Well all know that changing sexual positions can improve your sex life. Have you thought that even changing angles and positions for kissing each other could do the same? Everyone I know kisses straight forward lip to lip and they don't think anything else about it. However if you change your angle or position from which you kiss it makes it much more different. The feel the approach gives kissing a much more exciting feel. Think about it kissing your partner on the neck or them leaning back into you to kiss your lips as you stand behind them. Enjoy how different their lips feel against yours in these different positions. Holding the person becomes a different experience also now you hands are not hanging out on their back you can explore the front of their body and see where your hands might lead you. In the Karma Sutra you see the drawings of people doing backbends and all sort of other positions to kiss and more. Try it out what can it hurt, just make sure you stretch before you try a pulled muscle really takes the wind out of your sail.

Seafood is it the Chicken of the sea.

We all know that seafood is good for us. Plus with as abundant as the sea is we should not really deplete the oceans as we have the other areas of the world. However, us humans are pretty good at not knowing what we are doing until it is almost to late. My point her however is how romantic seafood is. Oysters have always been known for their romantic boosting abilities. There is just something about seafood that is sexy to me. Lobster, crabs, fish, shrimp, to me say great night out and a romantic stream flowing down my pallet. Maybe it is because I live no where near the ocean, in the middle of the United States of America. So, I wonder if people that live on the coast view their seafood as such a romantic dish as I do? I would love to hear your views. Send them to me at thecouplesspot@gmail.com Here in the middle of the country chicken and beef are normal everyday meals to us so I wonder is seafood the chicken of the coast line or do they still hold seafood as a romantic special meal? Looking forward to hearing your feelings.

Love takes many forms.

When we think about love we think of kissing and physical touching. The last things that pop into our mind is the deep deep love we feel for each other. The love that will make us do amazing things when our partner most needs us. I have heard the stories of people picking up cars when their loved one was in danger and I believe that the heart can do amazing things. We have also been told to think with our heart which didn't hold much meaning to me until I listened to a podcast that talked about it. When we are conceived our heart is the the first thing to form in our bodies! then the brain starts to form so in theory you should always follow your heart because it beget all the other parts of your body. Plus how many times have you rethought your path and wished you would have done something different or you should have followed your heart. Love means so many different things it would be impossible to list them all, things like making sure your partners stay healthy, that they get things they want, we want them to experience lives treasures and the list goes on and on, love is infinite so much so that we are just able to touch the tip of it in our existence. Don't try to put love into a measurable unit because it is impossible the best thing you can do is let the love flow like a river. It will twist and turn but it will get to where you need it to.

Experience a new town.

Want to go on a romantic adventure? Well if your funds are limited like most people today, why not just go someplace that you have never been. Pick a near by town you have never been to maybe they might be having a festival or a special event going on that you can check out. You don't have to have an agenda. Just go explore the town, walk around downtown and experience how the community works. Find the local hot spots and pick a local restaurant for lunch to get a better feel for the town. Take your time and spend a good portion of the day taking in the sights, finding parks or trails, take in all you can and bank it for future references. Who knows you might find a place that you would like to move to at a future time. Make sure to take your camera and document your findings, heck make a scrap book of your adventures.

Birthday Surprise!

Today is my birthday and I love being the center of attention. From a romance position today I want the romance focused on me! Sounds a little selfish, but you only have one birthday a year and it is okay to wish for your desires. If it is your partner that is having the birthday you can use romance to make it their best birthday ever. There are lots of things you can do and if your short on cash romance can cost nothing but get better results then an expensive present. Make their birthday an all day romance event. Wake them up with sexy caresses, and if they are in the mood start with a little morning sex, offer to make them breakfast or take them out for breakfast to get their birthday morning started out right. If they have to go to work keep the fire burning by slipping notes in their pockets or sending them sexy text messages to let them know their birthday is going to be a hot time. You can then either make dinner, or go out, making sure to have some sort of cake. You can put a candle in a Twinkie if you like after all it's the thought that counts. Once home if you got them a present let them unwrap it. The it is time for them to unwrap their best present. Ladies find something sexy to wear, men slip into silky boxers and over to give them a massage. Tantalize but avoid the erogenous zones until later. Once you get them warmed up with the massage time to submit to their desires. Ask them what they want sexually and unless it is totally out of your comfort zone give it a try. All of these things will combine to form the best present they have ever had. Heck you can keep this up all night after all it is a celebration.