Pick out your own gift.

Does you partner have a gift that they want more than anything this Christmas? Do they have something that you can't pick out for them or they need to try on before you purchase it for them? That is okay you can do this for them and still make it a surprise. Once you have the item you need to think of an interesting way to wrap it, be it in a huge box or in a odd shaped package. Once you have it wrapped make a game of it with your partner and see how many presents they have to unwrap before they find it. You could even wrap up some dummy presents as I call them, thing like clothes that are theirs or something so silly no one would possibly want it like some giant sunglasses or an alarm clock that squirts water. If you partner has an idea of what they are getting from you for Christmas then it is your job to still make the unwrapping of presents fun and exciting. With that in mind you can start making your strategy on how you are going to fool your partner with your wrap job now.

Lights of Love

During the holidays we make everything we can a little more festive. Well one thing I think adds a lot of festivity to your Christmas tree is to use only candle light to light the room your tree is in. Yes you will have the lights on the tree but the soft flickering light of the candles will add a special touch to the room. Not only will it direct more attention to your tree but it will also make you more aware of each other. The normal bright lights we use make us think more of work and shopping then of the soft and wonderful feels of the holiday. When you have a day when the two of you can just snuggle down replace all your lighting with candles and see what happens. I am sure it will be a little more romantic.

Christmas Eve time for special presents.

All the focus during the Holidays is the big day of Christmas. Christmas eve is usually reserved for trips to Grandparents or parents houses for gift exchanges with your family. No one is expecting a blow out gift from Grandma who usually buys you something you wanted when you were twelve. However, this is one of the best times to get your lover a little something special. Wait until all of the festivities of the day are over and when the two of you are alone and about ready to settle down for your long winters nap, present him/her with a little special gift to go to sleep on. Now this can be a number of things but the things I find that work the best are jewelry, and sexual items. When you give on this night make sure it is one that you want a major reaction from like jumping up and down or just plane getting mauled by the receiver. You won't get the same reaction on Christmas morning when you partner opens that new sex toy in front of everyone. Nor will you get as many kisses from the nice necklace you purchased during the family feast. Plan out which gifts you would like to give in private then make a routine of giving these gifts on Christmas eve.

Attention, Attention we all crave attention.

Most of us are very different at heart and soul but the one thing we all need is attention. You might say that you don't need any or that you don't crave the spotlight. That however, is not what attention is about. Sure some people like to be the center of attention while others like a little one on one attention. When someone wants to be alone that is being attentive to yourself. So no matter what your state of attention desires are we all need some. Romance is a wonderful aid to help give people attention. Think about it do you like to receive flowers from your lover? What about when you see them after an extended trip or time apart, how do you desire their attention. We all have the urge to be wanted or important and receiving another persons attention validates that urge. Think about all the wonderful feelings in your life that you have experienced. How many of them have come because of someone giving you attention. The day you got married, the birth of your child, your first kiss, the list can go on forever, the point however is that we need attention in what ever state we enjoy. Maybe you get it while your partner massages your neck or when they wear something sexy for you to be seduced by. It all feels good and is part of a healthy and happy relationship. Keep giving attention to the person you love and you should get some in return.

Snow Angels and Snowballs

With the coming of the holiday season everyone where it can snow is hoping for loads of the white stuff for Christmas. When you do get enough of the glorious white stuff then grab your partner by the hand and run out side to make snow angels. People driving by might think you are silly or crazy but you will be doing this zaniness with your partner and it will give you a good reason to snuggle up together after the event. You can also pelt each other with snowballs or build a fort to protect yourself from would be attackers’. Challenge some of the neighborhood kids to a war, however a word of caution remember you are a bit stronger then most of them so don’t throw your hardest. Make sure to take pictures of your snow angels and fort and for a really neat idea use them on your Christmas Cards next year. If you live somewhere without snow then you have to improvise. Use sand or pour some fake snow on the lawn to get the desired effect. The point is to get out and enjoy the snow, we spend most or our time cursing it while driving, so when you get the chance check out how fun it can be for the two of you.

Take time from the Hustle and Bustle to show you partner how important they are.

Right now we all are scrambling to make sure we have everything in place for the big day of Christmas. We are wrapping presents, shopping, attending school functions. While this is great and the time is wonderful we sometimes put our relationships on the back burner. Think about it are you giving your partner they attention they need, at this time also. Never put your relationship on hold for the holidays. With that said you can incorporate it into your planning. You can do the twelve days of Christmas for you partner by doing twelve special things for them during this time of year. No!, don't go out looking for a partridge in a pear tree, and you don't have to find a gift each time. Get a calendar out and mark twelve days this month and each of those days make it a point to do something special for the one you love. It can be as simple as a back rub or buying some hot cocoa to share. The little things mean so much and show how much you care. Don't stop there go out and purchase a little naughty gift for the two of you a sexy santa outfit or maybe a new sex toy for the two of you to play with. It is okay to give sex to the one you love for the holidays, go out of your way to show them that you still think they are sexy. Finally do the basics to make them know you care, like holding hands while your shopping, laughing as you spend time together wrapping presents, get a little tipsy with them drinking rum laced eggnog. Memories made at this time of year seem a little more special so don't let the season pass your relationship by.

Puppy Love.

A wonderful thing you can do for your partner this holiday seasons is give them the gift that gives back so much. There are thousands of dogs and cats at your local humane society that could us a wonderful home and would be the most lovable thing you could give your mate. So if you have room in your place or your apartment accepts pets then thing about giving your partner their very own buddy. They come in all shapes, sizes and colors so you will surely be able to match up the right animal for your partner. This gift works well with the children also if you need a little something to get Christmas moving. I would strongly suggest picking a animal from the humane society that way you brighten two lives during the holiday season. Those animals at the shelter have nothing wrong with them beside that no one loves them.