Saturday, July 31, 2010

The Nipple is the Clitoris of the breast.


Here is some timely tips for playing with breasts. Most everyone wants to dive in and attack the nipple. This can cause the recipient to pull away as the sensation might be to much. You have to treat the nipple like you do the clitoris and work your way up to it. Start by massaging around the larger part of the breast slowly. The underneath of the breast is a great place to start, because this area usually doesn't get much attention. Kiss all these areas and make it a point to leave the nipple out of the equation for a while. The nipple will begin to become erect as it gets closer to wanting your attention. Play with the other areas of the breast as a way of teasing the nipple. Anticipation is the key here make the recipient want you to play with their nipples by making them erect without touching them. Then when you finally get to the point of proceeding to the nipple you both will be ready and excited as the hard nipples touches your lips.

Friday, July 30, 2010

Anger Management.


Have you ever had one of those days when your partner comes home madder than a hornet. They burst through the door with their nostrils flaring like a raging bull. Their anger is so strong that it seems like they are yelling at you. The last thing you want to do in this situation is try to rationalize what has happened. What you need to do is let them release the steam. Yelling and screaming might be part of this process for them. Sit quietly and listen and offer positive support, don't question their anger or try to make light of it. For their benefit it is good to join the fight and start getting angry about the situations yourself. Boost them up and let them know you are standing behind them. This is great because once they setting down they will be most appreciative of what you have done for them. When your partner is this mad you have to let them let it out or they might blow up later of something super small. Think of them as a pressure cooker letting the steam out keeps the pot from exploding.

Thursday, July 29, 2010

Do a chore as a thank you.


Did you partner do something wonderful for you? Maybe they got you a special little present, or took the kids so you could nap. When these type of unselfish acts happen you can show how much your appreciate them by helping you partner out. One good way is to complete a chore that they usually do. If he/she is the one that does the dishes then secretly do all the dishes, freeing them up for something they might like to do. This is a wonderful way to say thank you for a special service you partner has presented you with. Always remember what goes around comes around. When you partner does something nice for you, complete the circle and return the favor.

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Do something a little crazy during the night.

When it is time for sleep we all hope to get under the covers and fall into a deep deep sleep. While this is not always the result it is what we hope for. Sometimes however when you are having troubles sleeping you might just want to try something different. If your partner is not totally sleeping like a baby, roll up next to him/her and put a body part against them that you normally wouldn't. Touch feet or a naked butt against a thigh works well. Anything to say, "I'm here in a different capacity" Touch your partners elbow or caress their armpit. See what kind of reaction you get. Or heck if you are the partner that weighs less climb on top of them and stroke their arms until they begin stroking yours back. These crazy little moves might not help you get to sleep but they will get you our of your routine and maybe you might find something that helps produce a better nights sleep. You also never know but it might spark a little middle of the night tango that could give you the relaxing chemicals you need to fall deep asleep. Don't ever under estimate the power of touch as a sleep aid.

Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Silly Bed Sheets


Never rule out silly bed sheets as being romantic. You know the ones with the cartoon characters on them. When you are in a committed relationship you can break them out and invite your partner over to your side of the bed for snuggling. I however wouldn't suggest them for a while the first time you sleep together you partner might not think Deputy Dog is the most romantic or even cute. You might come off a little strange at that time, but when you get to know each other and you find out your partner loved Scooby Doo as a child then break out the Mystery Machine sheets and have a shaggy good time.

Monday, July 26, 2010

Romance can happen at the most unromantic times.


Never count out romance it can spring up at any time or place. I have some of the most unusual times to be the most romantic in my life. For instance climbing up diamond head crater in Hawaii was a long and physically demanding hike but when we got to the top the view was amazing and sharing it with my partner was the best. Other time come when you have to deal with difficult situations, like bankruptcy or death in the family. The fact that the other partner is strong for both of you is one hell of a romantic statement. If you just watch a little you will see romance all around you. Simple things like your partner asks if you would like something to drink or just stops to help you sort the laundry. We always want the fireworks and big show in our romance but sometimes we miss the opening acts. Those opening acts are sometimes pretty good.

Sunday, July 25, 2010

Serendipity - Great Romantic Movie.


Today I would like to suggest a great romantic comedy for you to watch. Serendipity stars John Cusak (a favorite of mine) and Kate Beckinsale. It is a magical movie of how love finds it way even when you think it is lost. It showed me that you can't force love you have to let it follow it's path even though that path might be a long one. Plus there is a lot of comedy in the movie to give you a good chuckle or two. Purchase the movie below at amazon today and see how Serendipity can effect your love life.