Support in difficult times is Romantic

Have you ever had something happen in the middle of the night maybe a trip to the hospital or a sick child. Now in this situation does your spouse just roll over and go to sleep or do they drag their butt out of bed to help or see what is going on. The support you receive during these times is a wonderful indication of how much your partner cares about you and your feelings. Do they wait up to see what is going on if you have to leave in the middle of the night. We don't ever want both of us to be tired in the morning but there is a level of romantic love that you feel when you walk in from a tough situation to a loving hug. Maybe we want to be the strong one and not need anyone during these times of stress. Deep inside you need that support and a partner that understands that is a loving wonderful thing. Remember this, it is not weak to need a hand to hold you up, and you will always have your turn to be that helping hand.

Listen to the sound of the falling rain.

One of my most favorite things to do is sit somewhere with my love outside when it is raining. A porch or a deck that is covered are wonderful. I feel so relaxed and wonderful with the sound of the rain falling. It is one of the best times to have a heart to heart talk or just some great conversation. Rain and or water is the beginning of life and it really sets the tone for great talks. Not only talking for me but being intimate when it is raining outside is a real turn on. Take some time during the next rain shower and see what I mean.

Women time for you to be romantic.

Women when you think of romance what do you envision. Candle light dinner, walks on the beach, making love under in a dim lit room, might pop into your head. Do you think these are the things your partner is thinking about when you talk about romance. Sure he/she might like to do these things to be romantic for you but what do you feel like they would like you to do that they would see as romantic? Maybe taking them to the big game, hot steamy lingerie worn for their pleasure, or even time spent on the couch snuggling during the race with both of you yelling at your favorite driver. You have to remember your vision of romance and his are going to be different, so when you are trying to be romantic for him, cater the evening towards his tastes. Like wise you would love to be catered to when he is trying to romance you. We have to look at it through the eyes of our partner to see their vision of romance. Be bold and ask them what they feel would be romantic then store the knowledge for later down the road. Remember you are trying to make them feel wonderful not you! Your turn will come.

Make a plan for sex.

Anticipation is a great tool when you put it into your intimacy. Here is what I want you to do. Tell your partner that in, lets say three days you are going to make the most passionate love to them. Now for the next three days you have to tease them into a frenzy. Don't give in and make love early take the full three days to excite your partner. Now you have set the image of some great sex coming their way so you have to make good on your promise. Plan out the best sexual adventure you can think of and then spring it on them on the day you have set forth. Most likely if you have teased them enough they will be like jello in your hands. Fun ways to tease them might be kissing then sexually then saying that was great but wait until our special day, or having a count down, letting them know it is only 2 more days until they are going to get it. Whatever the way you want to tease is okay and it will help build your anticipation, too. This way you both will be primed and ready for the amazing sex you will have.

Sometimes being romantic is as simple as helping out.

You know we think of romance as acts we preform for our partner or the one we are dating. One thing that many people say that they find romantic is when the person they care about helps others out. No matter if it is volunteering at the homeless shelter or helping a young child tie their shoes. The affect of your kindness seems very romantic for the person watching these actions. Plus it is a wonderful just to do, so you are working your magic it two ways by aiding someone. No matter what others say helping out is romantic and it makes you look more attractive to everyones eyes.

Time to slip a note into a book.

Today your mission is to slip a note into a book your partner is reading. Get yourself a little post it note and carefully write a little sentiment on it. Something short and sweet like, "thinking about you", or "Wow, you are sexy when you are reading" Then find your lovers book and place it someplace ahead of where they are reading. Put it on a page that they won't get to right away and you might find yourself getting a kiss sometime later when you are not expecting it. This is one of those little things you can do to make everyday romantic.

Is romance the last thing on your to do list.

When you plan out your day where does time for romance fall? If you are like most other people you put it at the end of the day. Think about this how many of you get everything done you want to everyday? I know that I get less done each day then I plan on at the start of the day. You know how it goes, thing take longer then you think or situations arise the pushes meetings or events back. The list of obstacles goes on and on and then never stop. Thusly most people that put romance at the end of their day, find themselves with little or not energy left for romance, love and sex. I have heard in many financial planning that you should pay yourself first when dealing with your money. Why not put our romance first or give it attention first. How you ask might we do this, not many of us can stop in the middle of the day to be romantic or sexual with our partner. We have jobs, kids, and a load of other items that would make this a little hard for the average couple. We have to set a time, after the kids are in bed, and before we get tired to let our love flow. This might seem a little crazy because most of us want to enjoy each other then fall asleep. Well with this way of approaching romance, then you have time for other things after you get romance into your relationship. Try it, and see how it works for you. Bump your romance time up in front of other things and see what happens you might just find that putting your romance first makes everything else a little better.