Give and Take!

Everyone knows that romance is a give and take situation. The problems come in when the balance begins to get lopsided. One partner is doing more giving and the other is doing more taking. We all want to enjoy the romantic efforts of our partner it feels great. However, there are wonderful feelings in doing things for them as well. Think about how you feel when your partner does something romantic for you? Shouldn't they get the same feeling returned to them? If this is not your train of thought then you need to start retraining yourself. Unmatched romance soon becomes a chore to the person being romantic. They will start to loose interest and start thinking things like "Why, should I do this it won't be appreciated?" Think about how your react to your partner do you expect them to be the one that buys flowers all the time, or sets up wonderful evenings for the two of you. If your not pulling your weight in your relationship then it is your partner that is suffering not you. Now if you love your partner and want them to be happy there is no time like the present to take action. Return all their romantic notions with ones of your own. Make it a challenge to yourself to return every serve they make and soon you might just find the wonderful joy you will have in yourself and how thankful you are that your partner loves you.

Buddy Challenges great relationship strarters

If you in the beginning phases of a relationship or if your 10 years into it we still have an exciting thing for you to do. Goto Amazon and pick up a copy of Buddy Challenges for you and your partner to complete. They are fun and exciting things to do when you are bored and at a stand still of finding something different to do. You can even incorporate other couples into the challenge and make it a fun evening out for the two of you and all your friends. A new challenge come out every two weeks and the fun just keeps rolling. We also have invented Sexy Challenges for if the two of you want to get a little more intimacy into your relationship. Check them out today for the kindle or any kindle reading device for your other electronic devices. (All the kindle applications are free and the challenges are cheap) Search for the following items on Amazon to find them.

Buddy Challenges

Sexy Challenges

Love like there is no tomorrow!

The one thing I hear so often from people that have lost their spouse or partner, is this, "If I would have known I would have done this differently" Don't let this fall into chance. If you love your partner like it might be your last day together then you won't have any regrets if something happens. Sure not all the time you feel like dancing and singing but you can still treat your partner with respect, care and concern. Don't put off things, get the words "I don't feel like it" out of your vocabulary and start enjoying the love you have today. Tomorrow is never promised and it can all be taken away so quickly. Don't put yourself in a place of regret, kiss each other passionately as you leave for work, laugh at things together, worry about each other, and touch often. I don't want to be morbid on my blog but we don't get second chances very often and I would hate to think in my mind if my lover passed, why we didn't do more things together, instead I would love to remember the great memories we built together.

Attending an event that will make your partner happy.

We all have things that we like to do and if you are in tune with your partner you pretty much know what they like to do. With only this knowledge you can score big point with them. Find out when a show, play, speaker, or event is going on that they would love to go to. Then simply get some tickets for that event. Don't cop out and only get one ticket get two and join them as they experience something they enjoy. You might just get a little more understanding as to why the like what they like. Sure we want to go to the events and shows we would enjoy, but don't close yourself off to the things your partner enjoys. If you happen to find something that you both can have a passion for then that is a wonderful thing. However, just being with them and watching their face as the witness something they enjoy, should be enough of a reason to go. Recently we picked up ticket to go see John Edwards and if you are not familiar with him, he can communicate with people that have passed away. My partner adores him, and last christmas I picked her up some tickets. Going to the show I didn't know what to expect but once there and seeing all the people that have faith in his talent, it made me think pretty hard. I enjoyed his show and besides his readings, he is a wonderful entertainer and personality. I would definately go to another one of his events. He didn't communicate with anyone passed for me or my wife. However, watching her listen intently as he read others was good enough form me. Plus the conversation on the way home was worth the price of the tickets. It got really deep and we talked from our souls. It just goes to show you that opening up to your partners likes is a great way to improve your relationship.

Read more about John Edwards - International Psychic Medium by clicking here.

Unpredictable!!

If you haven't heard of the Sex Is Fun podcast you are missing the boat. The weekly show is a blast to listen to and the topic range from anything to everything about sex. The cast is pretty open and will try anything. That however is not my point here. They also promote games that their parent company produces. Now they have games that are a little risky for the average couple but if you want a game for that promotes a titillating evening for the two of you then their new game Unpredictable is for you. It is a card game that has suggestion on them that will make your love making experience the best it can be. The cards alone are enough to make you get excited with their use of wonderful friend cartoon images of sexual situations. The game is simple and doesn't require sitting up anything or any clean up but the fun awesome. You can pick up the game at Sex is Fun Website or by clicking on my Amazon sidebar and purchasing the game that will give us a little kick back to help keep our blog running.

Going the extra mile, might not get you a parade, but...

Has this ever happened to you. You are involved in a project or watching a show when you partner asks for your help or for you to do something for them. Your initial reaction is to say no I am busy but then it runs through your mind and you think about it the other way. Would they or would you want you to have them help you out if you needed it. That right there makes you get up to help them out. Do your realize what you have just done? You are now a wonderful person that puts your partner first. You should pat yourself on the back, heck maybe you should get an award or a parade in your honor. What usually happens, is that nothing usually happens you perform the task and return to the thing you were doing before. No parade, no trophy, nothing. Until your partner comes in and kisses you and says, "Thank You" now it is no parade but it still makes it all worth wild. If your partner appreciates you at all you will feel warm inside for doing them favors.

Skip the Facebook silly gifts and applications.

Chatting back and forth on facebook can be a real turn on. However sending your love every stupid thing and application on facebook is a bit creepy. Mafia Wars, Farmville and the likes of others should be kept to yourself unless you find out your partner is playing, too. Don't send them kisses applications, or gifts these are just silly things that make facebook a cluster. Facebook is a wonderful tool if you use it right and just send a short a sweet message is the way to go. Heck you can even chat while you are both on your respective pages. Don't however over load their page with invitations and things that just get the delete key. By sending all these cheap little things you lessen the experience and make your partner not even look at the stuff you really want them to see.