A simple little gift says so much.

How many times have you wanted to purchase something special for the one you love, only to realize that you have NO MONEY! Well you with some creative thinking you can get your lover a special surprise without having much money. Think about little things that mean a lot to the person. A single flower says a lot and doesn't cost very much at all you can purchase a carnation for under a dollar usually. Maybe you could pick up their favorite candy bar and put a bow on it, again you will spend less then a dollar and your partner will enjoy the candy as well as knowing the you were thinking about them. Coupons are another great way to show you care without spending any money. Give your love a coupon for a massage by you, or give them a "Get out of Laundry Jail" card that entitles them to not have to do any laundry for a week. Cook them a wonderful meal, pour them a relaxing bath, clean their car or rent the movie they have been wanting to see are great ideas that cost next to nothing to get. A real heart string tugger is to find some old pictures to remind them of times past and how great your memories are of those times. I will never accept the excuse that "I don't have any money" for avoiding being romantic, it is the person and thoughts that are romantic not the gifts.

Resist the urge to snap!

Have you ever gotten mad about something and snapped, then later felt really bad that you said something that maybe you shouldn't have. This is were you need to learn a little self control. When you are in a heated argument you always need to think what you say out. Usually that first thing that pops into your mind is something that might not be so easy to take back. Plus it usually is just a tear at the person and might not even have anything to do with the argument. When you get a little frustrated with you mate you need to take some time before you open your mouth. Once you say something, you won't be able to say sorry later and take it back. Many feelings have been hurt for a long time by someone just blurting something out in a fit of anger. Take your time and count if you need to these few seconds could save some hurtful feelings later.

Tongue Exercises, Now that is Romantic.

You tongue is one of the most used muscles in your body. Not only does it help us talk, sing, eat, and taste. The tongue is also one of the best sex toys in your arsenal. Yet how many of you do any type of tongue exercises. You can greatly improve the stamina of your tongue by doing simple exercises during the day. I personally do mine when I am in the bathroom. Just stretch your tongue out as far as it will go then pull in back several times. You can also try moving your tongue as fast as you can for several seconds. Make sure to stretch your tongue in all directions as this will improve your control over you tongue. For a better listing of techniques you can click on the title of this post. You tongue is so important to your everyday life and sometimes we forget that. Aside from the sexual aspect you can improve several areas of your life by getting in the habit of doing this exercises daily. I know several speakers and singers that swear that tongue exercises have help them in the pursuit of their craft. So if you want to excel at the Karaoke Bar you know where to start. Remember the tongue is a muscle and it is one you use more often they you think. Now do yourself and your partner a favor and start getting your tongue in shape.

Learning to share you time.

One of the hardest things to get use to in your relationships is sharing your time. When we are young and don't have many commitments we get use to using our time in the exact way we want. Once, we get into a relationship and the longer we are in the relationship we have to start sharing more and more of our time. Being a couple requires that you do spend some of your time together. Actually you should want to spend time with each other or the relationship will have some problems. The trick is trying to balance your time and their time together. When you are together you have to take turns doing things you want to and it is great if you are doing something you both enjoy. However it is inevitable that you will be together sometime where you have to wait while your partner completes a task they need to take care of. A good example of this is when you go to an event with your partner at one of their friends. Maybe a cook out or party where you don't know anyone and you have to sit around while your partner talks and chats with their friends. You want to leave, but to be caring you want to stay as long as your partner wants. To get over this type of scenario you might discuss how long you should stay before getting to the party. If you are the person that is comfortable at the event then you need to make an effort to get your partner involved in the event. Once the both of you understand the the time you share is your time together I don't think this will be as big of a problem. Just make sure to divide the time you spend together up into equal slots for both partners. As your relationship grows you might add factors in such as children that will demand more of both of your time, but if you learn to budget your time now you will be better prepared for these other things that take up your time. I believe that one of the things that drives a relationship apart faster then a lot of things it being unable to learn how to share your time.

Where have our viewers made love? The results are in.

In our resent survey of where our viewers have found and preformed intimacy, we learned some pretty interesting things. First of all a no brainer 100% of our viewers have made love in bed. 57% have experienced the thrill of sex in the shower / tub or in their car. Now this one really surprised me 42% of our viewers that responded have ventured into their office or work to experience a little overtime. Another surprising thing is that 28% have made love outside while 14% have made love in a public place. Seems like our viewers like to get outside the house. Again thanks for the input and help us help you by sending us your questions (they are confidential and private, no names will be used) you can email them to us at romanticantics@gmail.com

Touching the Driver

We spend a lot of time in our cars, even when we are on dates or going to an event. Most often we don't have any physical contact during this time. Yes there is safety concerns and I am not saying you should be making out while you are driving to your destination. However, there is something to be said for touching the drives hand or arms, maybe even caressing their shoulders. Not only does this help you stay physically connected during your voyage but it might also help avoid accidents. If you are on a long trip the driver gets a little tired or fatigued a little touch might be just the thing to pep them up. I know when I am driving it is nice to have a gentle touch, it just feels good and it stimulates the nerves helping to keep me awake on a late night drive. I also find it romantic that my partner just doesn't roll over a sleep but instead want to make sure I realize they are beside me. Keep this in mind the next time you are the passenger on a long trip with your sweety.

Choose your sexy Halloween costume wisely.

We all remember the thrill of going trick or treating, and getting more candy then you could possibly eat in a year. Well times have changed and the kids today don’t get to experience the great times we did. They are left will only going to place they know for sure and having parents drive them around instead of walking on this hallowed night. The costumes are however today are much better then we ever had. I use to get the mask with the stretchy sting on it that would sit most of the time on the top of your head because it didn’t allow your breath to escape out the little tiny hole they made on the front of the mask. Here is where I get into the romantic part of Halloween, since these costumes are readily available and come in sizes for adults also this gives you a chance to relive your trick or treating days at home with your lover. Get yourself a sexy costume and let your partner pick one out also then don’t tell each what you have picked. Then later on in the evening during Halloween trick or treat with each other. Meet in your bedroom wearing your costume and let the fun begin. You can spend a little or a lot on your costume depending on your finances. Not much money to splurge with then get a wig and some stockings or men get a fake mustache or a little fire fighters hat. These are they type of things that keep your relationship fresh and exciting. It is so easy to say no to these types of fun but you are not only short changing your partner but yourself also. Want to really get crazy then dress up your genitals as well get a little outfit for you penis or spray paint your public hair a wild color. Couples that experiment in this time of activities have much stronger relationships. So, with that said go out get your costume and get ready to laugh and enjoy a hot steamy Halloween with the person you love.