Today is the day to show your partner just how nice you can be. In turn this will also make you look romantic in her eyes. Basically all I want you to do is say something nice to everyone you meet today. It can be something simple like, "Have a wonderful day" or "Have you been losing weight" Something to brighten everyone you come in contact with day. Make this your point today and don't forget you partner. The amazing thing will be how you feel at the end of the day.
Does your partner read romance novels? If they do her is a fun thing to do that might just get you a little action. Secretly borrow their book and read ahead of where they are going to be reading. Making notes of anything exciting or sexy that happens in the book. Make sure you make specific notes about the pages that your excitement was on. Then watch carefully to see when your partner has passed that part in the book. After they have read past the part you have made notes about then say something that would reflect towards that sexy or exciting part. Watch your partners eyes light up as you say things like "You know I wonder what it would be like to make love in a pile of hay" or "How sexy would it be if I kissed you so hard you could feel it in my loins" I am sure you will get a big smile when your partner realizes that you are referring to their book. Another thing you could do is find the steamy parts and circle them and put a note to the side saying "We should try this"
Have you ever gotten mad about something and snapped, then later felt really bad that you said something that maybe you shouldn't have. This is were you need to learn a little self control. When you are in a heated argument you always need to think what you say out. Usually that first thing that pops into your mind is something that might not be so easy to take back. Plus it usually is just a tear at the person and might not even have anything to do with the argument. When you get a little frustrated with you mate you need to take some time before you open your mouth. Once you say something, you won't be able to say sorry later and take it back. Many feelings have been hurt for a long time by someone just blurting something out in a fit of anger. Take your time and count if you need to these few seconds could save some hurtful feelings later.
Make it a point to say something nice today to everyone you come in contact with. Not only your partner, but your mother, brother, sister, neighbor, teacher, sitter, and the list goes on and on. By making it a habit to say something nice to everyone you meet, people begin to enjoy being around you. Saying "Did you lose weight" to your neighbor might just make her/his day. Telling the cashier at the store to have a nice day, might make their work day just a little brighter. These types of little statements can go a long way in brightening up someones day. If you brighten up someones day you are going to feel so much better.
Now you get double the points with your partner. For one they hear you say all those nice things to everyone else. This makes them see how wonderful you are to other people. Now when you say those things to your partner, not only do they know how wonderful you are but they also get the benefit of hearing something nice about themselves or just a nice statement in general.
You know it is really quite sad at how many people I know that can't say anything nice. It blows my mind to think, as I hear people being grumpy towards people they don't even know, that those words are the only thing that is popping into their heads right now. Sure we all have bad days but does that mean we should take them out on other? If your boss gets made at your should you go home and take it out on your family. The answer is no, if your struggling with that. Hopefully by getting in a pattern of saying nice things to people you can avoid the times when your down and say something that isn't how you really feel.
Always remember WORDS CAN HURT!
If you haven't seen the Free Hugs Video Here it is. This goes right along with what we are talking about. Also if you click the title of this post you can go to the free hugs website. Enjoy!
