Pictures of the both of you.

The one thing I think all couples should do is get their picture taken together. I don't mean to go out and get a setting down with a professional photographer. I am talking about pictures of the two of you doing the thing in life that are fun to you. Vacations, cookouts, or just when you are being silly hand your camera over to someone and ask them to take your picture. These are the pictures you want to hang up around your house. These pictures so love and affection for each other and give you that feel good feeling you need as you glance at them. Plus viewing them makes you want to go out and have more fun together. Document your relationship and start taking pictures today.

Do your part for the Ta Ta's

Breast cancer awareness month is fast coming upon us. No matter if breast cancer has effected your life or not you can still help the millions of people it has. You can join a walk with your partner or raise some money for the research of the cure for this problem. The best thing you can do is encourage your female partner to either go get checked or to start doing self examination on herself. Early detection is the key to beating breast cancer. So the more often she checks the better. If she is open to it have your let you check out her amazing rack and get a little enjoyment our of the check. Join her in the shower or before you make love to show that you care and love her. While you are checking her, she can return the favor and check out your testicles for testicular cancer in the same manner. Don't be shy about this it could add years to your time together.

Put a little fun under your covers.

Have you ever wanted when you were younger to be a super hero? Well why not bring that desire into your bedroom now? Think about it how fun it would be to role play a little that you are superman, batman, cat woman, or wonder woman. The amazing part is that bringing these superheroes to the bedroom might help spice things up a bit and get your sex more amazing. Check out site to find undies with superheroes on them and then pretend you are the man of steel when you make love, or Wonder Woman as you seduce your mate. It might just be the fun you have been searching for.

Romance has tempos

Your romance can have a tempo just like music. It can be fast and upbeat or slow and sweet. Just like music you need to mix it up a bit. Somedays you want the fast upbeat type of romance. Dancing, laughing, being silly are examples of what I consider upbeat type of romance interactions. On the days you prefer slow and sweet romance, I would suggest snuggling watching movies or having a candle lit dinner. You then also have the wide range in between the two. So your romance should never hit the boring aspect of life. Keep mixing it up and don't stop being romantic what ever tempo you decide on today.

Don't forget to have quite time.

We spend so much time talking and learning about each other that sometimes we forget that just being present with each other is a blessing in itself. Enjoying that quiet time with each other just laying next to your love or lightly touching each other is a wonderful way to relax and enjoy each other without having to worry about bring up something interesting or new. You can just be together and soak up each others energy without saying a word. Sometimes this is just what the doctor ordered on those days that seem a little harder that others. Try it sometime don't speak just relax and enjoy and feel your partners presence.

Listen to positive podcasts on your drive home.

Start making your drive home from work a little more productive by listening to romantic podcasts on the way home. You can find almost everything under the sun on itunes. Get a podcast about sex or one about being more romantic. Even if you get one that will teach you something to share with your partner is a good idea. This will give you ideas for later when you get home and also give you something to talk about during dinner. Branch out and get a podcast that you might not normally listen to and enjoy learning something different who knows you might find something that will interest the both of you.

Count your blessings.

A good habit to get into is make a list everyday of ten things you are thankful for. It doesn't have to be a major list everyday and the items can be simple and easy. Take for example, "I am thankful for the warm water in my shower" or "I am thankful that my beautiful son comes to see me when he wakes up in the mornings" These are simple little statements but they make a lasting impression on the way you feel. Start doing this everyday even if it is in your mind and soon you might just find your days are better than you think. Even the bad ones will seem better when you realize that you have something to be thankful for.