Time for a sex-makeover.

Now is the time to look over the state of your sex life and decide what needs to be improved on. Don't say that nothing needs to be improved on, if nothing else just mixing it up a little be might be change enough. We can always improve and sex is no different from anything else. Time to search for new books with new and exciting techniques, new sexy clothing and sleepwear, and look for new lotions and lubes to help with the excitement a bit. No matter what state you sex life is in you can always find something to bring a little more excitement into it. Make it a point to impress you lover with your new found ways of spicing up your sex life. Don't make excuses and don't fuss if your in a committed relationship you need to put effort into your sex life. Hope on amazon.com now and just do a search you will quickly find several books on ways to improve your sex life. Then hop on Victoria's Secret.com ladies and pick out something sexy for you mate, and guys you do the same on go to Undergear.com and pick out some sexy boxers for your partner. Make a night of it and call it Sexual Improvement Night where you break out all you new found tricks and wears to impress.

Spring Training for Romance

With spring right around the corner it is time to get your romance in shape for the coming good weather. Things like walks, outdoor activities and cookouts are almost here. Are you ready to start sharing these things with your partner. Do you know what they like cooked on the grill, do you have areas of your community picked out for your warm weather walks, and do you have a list of outdoor activities planned for the two of you. You need to have a plan in place so that when you get a day with excellent weather you are ready and don't sit around wondering what to do. Keep an eye in your local paper for festivals and events that will start popping up and are great outdoor activities. One of the first signs of spring you might think are flowers but the local youth baseball players will hit the field first. Go out and attend a game even if you don't have any children you will get a good feeling after you watch a game of 5 year olds play. Romance doesn't lay dormant like a lot of things do during the winter but it gives it a different feel when you can spread your romance to outdoor activities.

Flowers with a twist.

For those of you that love to send flowers, women applaud you. However their biggest gripe about this is that flowers don't last and they are not like memories, you don't think about them later on in life. A good alternative is the new fruit bouquet that incorporates tasty fruit into flower shapes. Then they are put on sticks so they can be arranged like your everyday flower arrangement. This is a great idea if you are sending the item to your partner at work or a party that way all the items will not go to waste. Everyone will also know where the person got such a tasty treat giving you even more brownie points.

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Vacations

A important part of anyone's life is to put some vacation time into it. Time to not worry about work and concentrate on your relationship and your family. I like to look at this time as a reboot for the love. Getting away and experiencing new and exciting things gets you back in that mind set of when you were dating, only now you are sharing all the expense. Vacations can be relaxing, where you just sit by the pool and soak up the sun. They can also be invigorating where you experience as many new things as you can. You just have to find the right combination for the two of you. If you have children involved then you have to find the common denominator that makes everyone happy. Once you do this your vacation or reboot will keep you going until the next one. The last thing you want to do is let your vacation stress you, don't come home and need another vacation. Enjoy yourself and catch up with all the people that mean the most to your.

When your love is sick, it is time to step it up.

How can you be romantic when one of you is sick. Well this is where pitching in and helping do other things becomes romantics. Doing chores so they don't get behind while your partner has to rest to get better is a great idea. This way there is not a load of things to do once your partner gets to feeling better. With the chores out of the way it allows you plenty of opportunity to catch up on the regular romance. This also shows how much you care, by just doing things to make their down time a little better. Cooking and cleaning don't sound romantic but when you are doing it to take some burden off your partner then the tables soon turn. Vacuuming the carpet might score you big points as you partner watched from the couch with their box of tissues and medicine.

Laugh at each other.

One of my favorite things to do in a relationship is to laugh. To me that is a sign that you are having a good time. See how much humor you relationship has in it by counting the number of times you have laughed with your partner in the past week. 5 plus times and your relationship has a good amount of humor in it, 4-2 times and you could work on the laugher in your relationship a bit. Now if it is one or less then you have some work to do. When we think about having a good time we visualize people laughing, same can be said for your relationship. If you need a boost getting this started you need to go no further then you computer. There are many funny things to watch here. For starters you can go to youtube and watch endless streams of other people being stupid and recording it for your enjoyment. You can download a funny movie from itunes or if you enjoy a little sicker humor you can watch the new MTV show "Silent Library" to get your chuckles. Laughter is essential to not only our lives but our relationship also. So loosen that tie and get some tissue to wipe the tears from you eyes as you get set to laugh.

Her wearing his clothes is okay, but it is a little different when he wears her clothes.

One of the most beautiful things to see when I come home is my female partner in one of my t-shirts with only her panties on underneath. It can even be a dress shirt or a sweat shirt. However when you turn the tables it just seems a little creepy if the guy wears the woman's clothes when she comes home. First of all we have to take in account the size matters. Men are generally bigger then their female counter part so putting on their clothes might be a challenge physically. Women's clothes are also cut for the curves of a woman and the guys don't have thinner waistlines then the women. When a woman wears a man's clothes her curves can be noticed even under a larger item of clothing so that make is a little better for her. Plus it is not as much of a gender difference in clothes as women's fashions near mens. Call me old fashion but I don't have the desire to dress in my female partners clothes, I am not knocking anyone that dressing in drag as that is their lifestyle choice. Again going back to me being old fashion I still would like to come home and see my female partner in just her panties and a t-shirt of mine. That is sexy to me.