Men if you are tired of getting excuses then it is time for some training.

Men are you tired of hearing your partner say they are not in the mood or that they don't feel like it tonight? Well if you are hearing that way to often then you need to do something about it. Think about it if sexy didn't feel good to you and you didn't get satisfied would you enjoy doing it that often? Now put the shoe on the other foot, is you partner getting what they need from this experience? Everyone gets bored with their sex life from time to time, so to fire it back up you need to learn something new. Purchase a new toy or ask you partner what they would like to try that is different. You might be surprise at how anxious they will be if you give them what they want. Study up and learn new oral sex techniques or try out some different positions. You might not be able to use your new technique right away but when you get a chance, be ready to perform your new talent. Be patient and wait for the right time. Here is an especially good idea. Why not let yourself get off until you let your partner. Yes you heard me correctly put them first make it a point let them be the center of attention and you will most likely get a return. You sex life is a funny thing, we seem to lose track of the other persons feelings as we focus on our own. Remember this is for the both of you and once you convince your partner you are focusing on their pleasure they will start focusing on yours. Good luck and good sex to you.

Turn off the TV to turn on your partner.

Do the two of you spend the night watching countless hours of television? Have you ever thought of all the time you waste doing this or all the commercials you happen to view during this time watching. Have you ever thought of turning off the little box sitting in your living room and trying to turn each other on. Their are so many benefits to sex and getting your blood pumping and their are no benefits to watching that much television, the only one I can think of is education and that is if you are watching a educational program and most of the ones I have seen are far from that. Break your habits today and start spending more time pressing your partners buttons instead of the ones on the remote. If you really need to acting that you see on television, then do a little role playing, if it's sports that you can't seem to live without, make your lovemaking a heart raising event. Don't let your love life pass you by as you sit and watch some brainless television show. Get naked and get busy, you will feel much better afterwards.

Get your relationship back into shape.

We all have problems keeping the extra weight off during the holidays. All the extra food and drink can really make it hard for you but as soon as the holidays are over most people begin some type of regimen to lose the extra pounds tacked on at this type of year. What about your relationship? Does it take a back seat during the holidays, because you have so much to do. I mean it is hard to call shopping and rushing around from family to family any type of date. Now is the time to put your relationship back on the front of your to do list. Take a weekend and reconnect with your partner, get a hotel room, find some exciting things to do and spend the evenings making love. Put all your effort into impressing the person you love, because even though you most likely bought them several wonderful presents how much time did you really take away from them during the Christmas experience. I know I spend time wrapping presents, shopping, and visiting family that I would have spend being with the person that makes my heart sing. So now it is the time to revisit and fall in love again.

Tokens of your love for Christmas.

Merry Christmas Romantic People!!!! Today is your day to shine, giving the person you love tokens of your love and passion. Take your time and truly enjoy the watching of your partner unwrapping the gifts you have picked out for them. Take inventory of all the wonderful gifts that you get and make sure to thank you partner for each and every one of them. I have always heard it is better to give than to receive but I never truly understood it until I had someone to love. Giving gifts to the person that makes you heart sing is far better then getting things yourself. As a child I was always excited about what I was going to get but now I am more excited about seeing the reactions that the presents I picked out get. Enjoy your Christmas and try to keep the feelings and gratitude going for the rest of the year.

Romantic Christmas Eve

Tonight is the night it is one of the best night for romance of the year. It is the time for you to show your partner or friend how much you care about them. Make sure during the family gatherings, parties, and tucking the children in that you make time for the two of you to have some quiet time together. Block out all of the other distractions of the upcoming day and focus on each other. Set a time, say two hours, for uninterrupted time that you can snuggle and calm each other for the upcoming arrival of Santa. Make love, drink cocoa, wrap the remaining presents but do it together and as a team. It is easy to go to bed early to get to the next day but don’t forget about on of the most important parts of the season, that being the person you love.

Wrap up a memory

The economy is hoping that you are going out and spending a bunch of money this Christmas, and yes that is the way to break out of a recession. However, a romantic thing to do for your partner is to give them something for Christmas that reminds them of a special time the two of you had together. Maybe it is a picture from you last vacation, or the baby booties of your first born child. Think back through out the year and try to remember anything monumental that happened to the two of you during that last year together. Firsts are always something to remember such as the first marathon you ran, your first house or even the first time you kissed. Now the job is to find something that you can wrap up that will take them back to that time. A picture of the event is a great way, go out a purchase a nice frame and place the picture inside it, the will immediately remember that event. Items from that event are another suggestion, say you had a child together during this year then the little beanie that they but on the baby in the hospital in a frame would be an extra special thing you could hang on your wall. You can pick up brochures from your last vacation destination, or programs from events you attended. If a special song was playing during your memory you could pick up that song for them. The important thing about wrapping up a memory is that it will get your partner thinking about the wonderful times the two of you have together.

Create an Electronic Card for you Love.

So many less people are sending out Christmas Cards these years, but with a little imagination you can get in on the cutting edge of digital Christmas Cards. I am sure at some point and time you have send someone an email card or even just an email expressing your feelings. Now a days however it is so easy to send a video or picture with the mail. Now this is where you need to be creative. Pick out a song or a act you want to perform for you love and set it in motion. Check out the video at the bottom of this post for a an idea someone else had. You want to pick out something that will make the person or persons you are sending it to smile and remember why this season is so special. Once you have performed your act or song then simply put it in a form you can send and email it to that special person

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