Monday, October 26, 2009

Tongue Exercises, Now that is Romantic.


You tongue is one of the most used muscles in your body. Not only does it help us talk, sing, eat, and taste. The tongue is also one of the best sex toys in your arsenal. Yet how many of you do any type of tongue exercises. You can greatly improve the stamina of your tongue by doing simple exercises during the day. I personally do mine when I am in the bathroom. Just stretch your tongue out as far as it will go then pull in back several times. You can also try moving your tongue as fast as you can for several seconds. Make sure to stretch your tongue in all directions as this will improve your control over you tongue. For a better listing of techniques you can click on the title of this post. You tongue is so important to your everyday life and sometimes we forget that. Aside from the sexual aspect you can improve several areas of your life by getting in the habit of doing this exercises daily. I know several speakers and singers that swear that tongue exercises have help them in the pursuit of their craft. So if you want to excel at the Karaoke Bar you know where to start. Remember the tongue is a muscle and it is one you use more often they you think. Now do yourself and your partner a favor and start getting your tongue in shape.

Sunday, October 25, 2009

Learning to share you time.


One of the hardest things to get use to in your relationships is sharing your time. When we are young and don't have many commitments we get use to using our time in the exact way we want. Once, we get into a relationship and the longer we are in the relationship we have to start sharing more and more of our time. Being a couple requires that you do spend some of your time together. Actually you should want to spend time with each other or the relationship will have some problems. The trick is trying to balance your time and their time together. When you are together you have to take turns doing things you want to and it is great if you are doing something you both enjoy. However it is inevitable that you will be together sometime where you have to wait while your partner completes a task they need to take care of. A good example of this is when you go to an event with your partner at one of their friends. Maybe a cook out or party where you don't know anyone and you have to sit around while your partner talks and chats with their friends. You want to leave, but to be caring you want to stay as long as your partner wants. To get over this type of scenario you might discuss how long you should stay before getting to the party. If you are the person that is comfortable at the event then you need to make an effort to get your partner involved in the event. Once the both of you understand the the time you share is your time together I don't think this will be as big of a problem. Just make sure to divide the time you spend together up into equal slots for both partners. As your relationship grows you might add factors in such as children that will demand more of both of your time, but if you learn to budget your time now you will be better prepared for these other things that take up your time. I believe that one of the things that drives a relationship apart faster then a lot of things it being unable to learn how to share your time.

Saturday, October 24, 2009

Where have our viewers made love? The results are in.


In our resent survey of where our viewers have found and preformed intimacy, we learned some pretty interesting things. First of all a no brainer 100% of our viewers have made love in bed. 57% have experienced the thrill of sex in the shower / tub or in their car. Now this one really surprised me 42% of our viewers that responded have ventured into their office or work to experience a little overtime. Another surprising thing is that 28% have made love outside while 14% have made love in a public place. Seems like our viewers like to get outside the house. Again thanks for the input and help us help you by sending us your questions (they are confidential and private, no names will be used) you can email them to us at romanticantics@gmail.com

Friday, October 23, 2009

Touching the Driver


We spend a lot of time in our cars, even when we are on dates or going to an event. Most often we don't have any physical contact during this time. Yes there is safety concerns and I am not saying you should be making out while you are driving to your destination. However, there is something to be said for touching the drives hand or arms, maybe even caressing their shoulders. Not only does this help you stay physically connected during your voyage but it might also help avoid accidents. If you are on a long trip the driver gets a little tired or fatigued a little touch might be just the thing to pep them up. I know when I am driving it is nice to have a gentle touch, it just feels good and it stimulates the nerves helping to keep me awake on a late night drive. I also find it romantic that my partner just doesn't roll over a sleep but instead want to make sure I realize they are beside me. Keep this in mind the next time you are the passenger on a long trip with your sweety.

Thursday, October 22, 2009

Choose your sexy Halloween costume wisely.


We all remember the thrill of going trick or treating, and getting more candy then you could possibly eat in a year. Well times have changed and the kids today don’t get to experience the great times we did. They are left will only going to place they know for sure and having parents drive them around instead of walking on this hallowed night. The costumes are however today are much better then we ever had. I use to get the mask with the stretchy sting on it that would sit most of the time on the top of your head because it didn’t allow your breath to escape out the little tiny hole they made on the front of the mask. Here is where I get into the romantic part of Halloween, since these costumes are readily available and come in sizes for adults also this gives you a chance to relive your trick or treating days at home with your lover. Get yourself a sexy costume and let your partner pick one out also then don’t tell each what you have picked. Then later on in the evening during Halloween trick or treat with each other. Meet in your bedroom wearing your costume and let the fun begin. You can spend a little or a lot on your costume depending on your finances. Not much money to splurge with then get a wig and some stockings or men get a fake mustache or a little fire fighters hat. These are they type of things that keep your relationship fresh and exciting. It is so easy to say no to these types of fun but you are not only short changing your partner but yourself also. Want to really get crazy then dress up your genitals as well get a little outfit for you penis or spray paint your public hair a wild color. Couples that experiment in this time of activities have much stronger relationships. So, with that said go out get your costume and get ready to laugh and enjoy a hot steamy Halloween with the person you love.

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Fall is a great time for romantic walks and hayrides during harvest.


The colors and beauty of fall is all around us and once in a while we even get some warm weather. So take advantage of any day that warms up and grab your partner and head out on a wonderful walk that will let you enjoy the vast colors of autumn. Plan a walk through the woods or on a path that has lots of different trees so you get a contrast of colors. Streams can add a nice back ground sound for you walk and the leaves rushing down the river add a zest you can only find in the fall. Make sure to take a sweatshirt or coat in case it gets a little chilly in the cover of the woods. Another great idea is to find a hayride that takes you through the beautiful country side. Grab a blanket and snuggle up as you ride along and get to experience this time of year that is a wonderful time. The harvest time has always been a great time to enjoy life, it was when all the crops were stored and ready for the winter. Winter will soon be here so get out and enjoy the crisp clean air with you mate. Breath it in and smell the wonderful scents of autumn as you stroll hand in hand.

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Mr. Softy


What do you do if you member suddenly becomes non responsive. You are in the middle of a great time and your usually stiff and ready friend becomes MR. SOFTY!!!! First of all don't panic, that is the worst thing you can do. Becoming concerned and freaking out will not help you get your erection back. First thing you need to do is stay calm and relax, play it off a little and tell you partner that they might need to wake your sleeping member up. Things that might work are playing with Mr. Softy, or other areas that usually excite you. Ask for stimulation on your taint or anus, maybe just kissing will do the trick or some mouth to mouth for Mr. Softy might work. I know we have all heard it before but it happens to most people at some point and time. If the problem continues you should see your doctor, because the last thing you want to do is let the effect you. Search the internet for home based cures that don't involve digesting disgusting things. This might also be a clue that something else is wrong with your body so again see your doctor. If you clean up your diet and avoid drinking alcohol you might see a quick change. There are several things that can lead to this problem like spending to much time on your bike to stress in your life. Try to think what has changed and begin eliminating those things one by one and see where that gets you. However I cannot tell you enough that going to see your doctor is the best advice and course of action.